How can children improve their perception and awareness?

I remember when I was young, I felt that a year was very long, and people\’s pace of life was also very slow. But now it seems that we have entered the fast lane. Even children of several years old said: \”Why does time fly by so fast?\” In fact, time passes by so fast. It has not decreased, there are still 24 hours in a day. Sometimes I feel confused, time flies by, but there seems to be nothing gained. How to Study Benedict Carey: How to Improve Learning Efficiency Download PDF version I have been studying time management courses recently, hoping that I can have good time management skills and make full use of every minute. The course content of the first week is to record time and perceive time. One of the biggest benefits of using time recording software is to count time from several dimensions, so you can observe where your time is spent and perceive how time passes. Just such a recording action made me more aware. It makes me cherish every moment in the present moment, even the eyes I look at my children are full of love. I\’m also thinking, we want our children to have good academic performance, so if we try our best to learn a lot of knowledge, what can we bring to our children? What is the meaning of our education? I listened to the book \”Self-Made\” today, and I seem to have found my direction. After Tao Yong encountered a major injury incident, he developed a pair of highly skilled scalpel hands, but he can no longer pick up a surgical knife. knife. In the eyes of others, his career may be over. But he was able to find another goal of his own in just three months. In his own words, he found a new era and a new doctor\’s lifestyle. He said that the center of the circle has not changed, but the radius has become larger. He has extended outwards into the field of science popularization, sharing eye knowledge with everyone through the media, providing humanistic care and public welfare to blind people, and helping blind people maintain their sense of life. Love and hope. God closed a window for him, but prompted him to open a door. No matter what difficulties he encountered, he could still make his life shine. I want to say: This is our goal in raising children. No matter what setbacks and difficulties they encounter, they can face it, let it go, solve it, and live their lives well no matter what. What enabled him to face his life so bravely? Through interviews, I feel that he has a strong perception of himself and other things. He can perceive emotions from someone\’s expression and behavior, and can perceive life through a phenomenon. After he goes through hardships, he can calm down and think about what he has and what society needs. What value can you provide to society? Nowadays, many college students have \”hollow heart syndrome\”, which is actually a sense of confusion about the future. They feel that life is meaningless and worthless, which is a lack of inner value. When the only goal our children strive for in elementary school, junior high school, and high school is to get into college, and when they work hard and really get into a college of their choice, but then they have no goal, then ask their parents again. I am also confused. I usually give pointers to my children\’s studies, but now I am powerless. I don\’t know what kind of path to show my children. children grow upThe motivation to grow up comes from inner value and meaning. If a child does not have self-perception and awareness, does not understand what his own strengths are, what he owns, and what he can provide to others? It’s hard to find purpose and direction. Moreover, it is difficult for children with weak perception and awareness abilities to carry out their own secondary growth after being separated from their parents\’ control. This period of confusion for children may last for a long time, and they may live in the shadow of confusion all their lives. So how to give children the opportunity to perceive and be aware? Let’s see what this grandma did? When the child\’s father yelled at the child, the grandma felt that the father was releasing his emotions on the three-year-old child. Instead of stopping him in person, he secretly recorded the process with his mobile phone. After the father\’s emotion subsided, he showed the video to the child. The child\’s father looked at it and felt ashamed at that time. I think this grandma is very smart. She can use a third-person perspective to let dad realize it himself. When my child was in the first grade of junior high school, he would sometimes get emotional and not want to do his homework, so he would vent his emotions on his homework. I secretly recorded the audio for him. A few days later, I played it to him, and he covered his ears and didn’t want to listen anymore. Later, when I had emotions, I no longer used the method of venting to deal with them. Instead, I chatted with me and complained to me. After I finished talking, my emotions were gone. What that wise grandma did was to give Dad the opportunity to realize himself. Although my child is in a bad mood and is in a bad state, it is his fault, but if I had blamed the child at that time, the child would never be aware of his own state. When our children fail to meet our expectations, we yell and beat them, which does not make the children aware. It can only make the children feel that we are unreasonable, create confrontational emotions with us, and lose the opportunity to become aware. Perception and awareness cannot be taught by us, nor can we tell them so that they can perceive them. They can only perceive subtle feelings that cannot be expressed. It is what we give opportunities and create opportunities for children to experience.