How can four or five-year-old children ask such weird questions? Fortunately, they have an even weirder mother!

A few days ago, my cousin took her two sons back to her parents\’ home for a short stay. Chenchen was five years old and Yangyang was four. The family was very happy. The arrival of the children brought a lot of laughter to the family, and the aunt and uncle were very happy. My uncle, who is in his fifties, plays like a child with his two children, playing tops, jumping on stones, and even chasing the mother chicken, which makes the chickens run away in all directions. My aunt and cousin were choosing vegetables and preparing meals, chatting, and occasionally looking up at them. The family is happy, lively, warm and sweet, which makes others envious. During the day, the two brothers played outside by themselves, and they were still fighting in harmony. The elder brother is also very sensible and will let his younger brother know. If the younger brother has something delicious and fun, he will think of sharing it with his older brother. Everyone says that my cousin and cousin-in-law teach their children really well. My cousin often finds it very difficult, but of course she is happy most of the time. Seeing her two children growing up healthily day by day, she often feels great about herself and is full of happiness. As the children learn more and more about themselves and the world, my cousin laments that they must quickly supplement their encyclopedia knowledge and improve their thinking to cope with it! It turns out that my cousin is often stumped by her sons’ weird questions, and even racking her brains can’t think of answers that suit them. Every night, the two children cooperated very well with the adults and learned to wash themselves and go to bed. But just when they were about to go to bed, a hundred thousand reasons came. At this warm moment, my cousin often finds it a bit difficult to cope with it. \”Mom, will we grow up?\” Younger brother Yangyang asked, holding his mother\’s neck. \”Of course, every child will grow up, and my mother will also grow up from a child to an adult, and then become your mother. You must be obedient and eat well to grow up and become an adult. When you grow up, I You and dad are getting old, and you have to take care of yourself.\” \”Mom, is there any way to prevent us from growing up?\” \”Yangyang doesn\’t want to grow up? It\’s better to grow up! You can go to school, Make a lot of friends, learn knowledge from teachers, go to university…\”. My cousin was sad as she explained that her sons would grow up and slowly leave her. They would be around less and less, and they would gradually no longer belong to her. Thinking back, we must do our best to give them a better environment, better conditions, and send them to good schools… In short, like all parents in the world who love their children, they will do anything for them. \”Mom, I don\’t want to grow up! I don\’t like to grow up and become an adult! I don\’t want to go to school, and I don\’t want to become a dad who works every day!\”. Chenchen\’s words actually made her mother not know what to say. \”Why don\’t you want to grow up? Isn\’t it good to grow up?\” \”My uncle and the others all said that school is not good! The teacher is cruel and the classmates are afraid of the teacher. They come home from school every day and write and do homework, and they don\’t play with us! \”. The uncle they are talking about is in the third year of junior high this year and is preparing for the high school entrance examination. He has to do a lot of exercise books, simulations or real test papers every day, and he still feels very nervous. \”My uncle is trying to get into a key high school and then go to a good university. He is working hard for the future. You should also work hard when you go to school in the future!\” \”Mom and dad worked very hard before, and now you can do it.\” You don’t have to go uphill to clear grass and herd cattle, you can play freely until the skyOnly when you are black can you have fun toys and delicious meals. Do you like fun toys and delicious meals? \”\”like! Then we also need to go to college? Can we have a delicious meal if we don’t go? \”As soon as my cousin Balabala explained, the two children fell asleep unconsciously. They breathed a sigh of relief and it was time to clean up and go to bed. Although these two children were still young, they asked questions like great philosophers. Really You have to study hard to keep up with their growth. You may have noticed that children nowadays are developing very fast mentally. Sometimes we are even shocked by what they do and say. We thought they They are children, carefree, but in fact they also have their worries and anxieties like adults, thinking about life, thinking about life. In fact, the environment where parents and children live has a major impact on the formation of children\’s outlook on life. Because during this period , children are mainly focused on learning, in fact, they imitate. They imitate their parents’ behavior, way of speaking, living habits, and even emotions. Silently, every word and deed of their parents affects their children’s perception of themselves and the surrounding environment. and the understanding and attitude of the world. The questions that children ask adults are usually unanswerable questions that they have to observe and think about the surrounding environment. When children ask you questions similar to the two Chenyang brothers above, you should answer their questions while answering them. At the same time, parents should also examine whether the environment they have created for them makes them feel uneasy about the future and afraid of growing up. As their children\’s early imitation objects, their idols and role models, parents should try their best to maintain a positive mental state. . Pay attention to your words and deeds when you are with your child. Don’t just be in the same space with him as an obligation. Let the child feel that he is surrounded by a loving environment. Tell them the story of your growth process, and you will be happy. Okay, it doesn\’t matter whether it\’s sad. Whether it\’s success or failure, let them understand that growing up is a natural and wonderful process. Every age has its own unique beauty. From a child to an adult, they have to experience and feel the same. . If you have the opportunity, talk to your children about your work. Of course, it is not to complain about how hard it is to support your family, but to talk to them calmly or even proudly about what you are doing. Your work has a lot of significance. It doesn\’t matter if it means hard work. Also talk to your children about other jobs. Each one is meaningful and everything won\’t be easy to do, but it is precisely because of the effort you put into these things that are not easy to accomplish that life is fun. and meaning. Let children know that growing up and working as an adult is also full of joy.