How can there be problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when an old man takes care of his children like this?

In the past, everyone basically complained about the elderly raising children, and some sisters even cried: I really want my mother-in-law to go back to her hometown… I think sisters who have such thoughts may have some problems with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or maybe I totally don’t approve of the old man’s way of raising his baby. But recently, several sisters in the group discussed it. This time the style of painting has changed a lot, and they constantly praise their parents-in-law. Could it be that their parents-in-law are lurking in the group? Just like after adding parents and elders to the circle of friends, it started to be full of positive energy? Of course not! This is because they all have different elderly people in their families, who are like friends and teachers. They save people worry and effort in raising children. Doting on children, but only in moderation. It has been natural for old people to dote on children since ancient times. However, this should definitely not be considered \”pampering\”. The floor is not good, the cup is not good, here is not good, there is not good… Grandma, grandpa, grandpa, grandma will help you beat them because your good grandson fell down! Borrow it, play with it, eat one more, watch for a while… Grandma, grandpa, grandpa, grandma love you more, don\’t tell your mother! Oh my god, how can we, as parents, continue to teach this? If there is an elderly person like this at home: he will feel distressed when he falls, and he will comfort him, but he will never say that it is the fault of the floor; he will silently support the principles set by his children, and will not act on both sides and confuse the children! For grandparents who are truly good to their children, they should not only make them feel loved by their elders, but also learn the principles of life and how to deal with problems, instead of always being arrogant. Good personality and full of positive energy. Some people say that some people become very strange when they get old, especially their personality. There are always a minority of old people who lose their temper and are unreasonable, but there are many old people who have a negative attitude. For example, \”Just do this, don\’t think about anything better.\” This kind of personality will invisibly affect the development of children\’s personality and allow children to limit their potential. If there is an old man like this at home: Come on, good grandson, grandma believes you are the best! It’s okay, my dear, let’s work hard next time! The elderly can take into account aspects that their parents have not considered, and they always encourage their children and are full of positive energy. An old man who is still full of longing for life and always cheerful can make the whole family happy. She loves to learn and uses scientific methods to raise her children. She is afraid of dealing with elders who say \”we used to…\” \”…we were all like this\” and \”just use some folk remedies\”. Wear crotchless pants, use diapers, and pee; eat adult food, chew and feed, and chase after feeding. Only this is the best! Everything about child-rearing can be related to her era, or an earlier era. It’s like, if you don’t follow my method to raise your baby, you deserve to be so tired and you deserve to be unable to raise your baby! Sometimes, I really don’t want to argue: This is my baby, can I make the decision myself? If there is an elderly person like this at home: \”Mom, the book says… it is good for the child.\” \”You can read scientific parenting methods on your mobile phone. You should also read it!\” Read more and read more newspapers. The elderly are the ones who keep pace with the times. The cutest! The same goes for raising children. They don\’t use their own experiences to convince you of everything, but discuss it with you appropriately. They are not paranoid about outdated parenting methods, but constantly learn new knowledge. Be reasonable, tree.Your mother is not good at establishing authority over your children. Don’t listen to your mother, listen to grandma! What your mother said is wrong, but what grandma said is correct! When teaching children, the biggest worry is that when encountering such a thing, it is not easy for the children to understand a truth. My grandma\’s last words made my efforts in vain. In this case, can we still live together well? tears! tired! If there is such an old man at home: Your mother said this for your own good, and she loves you so she criticizes you like this! My dear grandson, you really did something wrong. You should do it better next time. Grandma believes in you! Having such an elderly person in your family who can support you is like a treasure. It will not hinder you on the road to education, but will help you. He is good at cultivating children patiently. Many of his friends take care of their children by themselves. They have mobile phones, iPads, Lego, toys, etc., and their children can play around by themselves. But it always seems a little lonely. If there are such elderly people in the family: after time, the elderly always have some special skills that young parents cannot teach their children. Take your children to practice calligraphy, tell them about the past, and let them be exposed to new things. They have enough time and patience to accompany their children, and they have rich life experience and insights, which can influence their children in a subtle way. Children who grow up like this have a wonderful childhood. Looking back in the future, I will be full of happiness! Don’t compare, believe in children’s potential. “Whose child is…, our family’s child…” Since childhood, we all have a sibling called “other people’s child”, and it seems that we have been forced to chase his or her shadow. From infancy and early childhood, he or she can stand up early, walk fast, and speak well… However, there are many people who still have a difficult life after hearing so many truths. Why can’t children be allowed to be free to be themselves from an early age? If there is such an old man at home: He is an old man who knows how to raise children scientifically, does not blindly compare with others, and believes that the development of children has his own personality and differences. He is an elder who respects his children. He cares about but does not intervene in educational issues and believes in his children\’s potential.