How can we realize our wish to be good children on the road of education?

The dignity of a family is often hidden in children. How much parents have invested in their children\’s education is clearly reflected in their children\’s words and deeds. Every naughty child is spoiled by his parents, and every good child is carefully cultivated by his parents. Don’t expect your children to be born excellent. Behind every child’s excellence is the sweat of their parents. Family Education Instructor\’s Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Chinese version e-book + English version pdf + mobi + azw3 Behind every naughty child is a pair of unqualified parents. In life, we are most afraid of encountering naughty children. The three major fears about naughty children are: You meet naughty kids when you travel, take a car or an airplane, you meet naughty kids when you watch a movie, and you meet naughty kids when they come to your house to play. How powerful is the naughty kid? ● A flight in Nanning was rescheduled due to a typhoon, and many parents let their children make a fuss at the airport ● A woman was injured by her mother when she reminded her children not to make noise while watching a movie ● A naughty kid made trouble on a plane, and his family was deported from the United States ● During the rush hour after work, Elementary school students raced in the Nanhu Tunnel on shared bicycles. ● The naughty child stopped operating three subway escalators in five minutes. Through these incidents, we can find that behind every naughty child\’s rampage is the connivance of the naughty parents. When a naughty child makes a lot of noise in a public place, the parent bear says: \”He is still a child.\” When the naughty child causes destruction in other people\’s homes, the bear parent says: \”He is still a child.\” When the naughty child hits others, When taking things randomly, the bear\’s parents said: \”He is still a child.\” It is indeed the nature of children to be \”noisy\”. They are lively, restless, and full of curiosity, but all protections have limits, and all Tolerance must also have boundaries. Children cannot remain children all their lives. Children are still young and ignorant, and cannot be their eternal shield. When their age gets ahead of their minds, the world will no longer tolerate them. First-rate parents cultivate virtues in their children, while third-rate parents cultivate bad virtues in their children. There are never born naughty children, only unqualified naughty parents. Behind every good child is a successful parent. Mo Yan once said: The excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents. Dr. He Jiang from Harvard talked about his growth experience in the program \”Son Travels a Thousand Miles\”. He was born in a peasant family in Hunan. His parents\’ educational level was not high, but they firmly believed that knowledge changes destiny and encouraged the two brothers to study since they were young. In rural areas, most young working people choose to go out to work, leaving only the elderly and children at home. Although He Jiang\’s family is very poor, in order to prevent the children from becoming \”left-behind children\”, his parents did not go out to work. Instead, they stayed in the adobe house and stayed with their two children. No matter how tired they are from work every day, parents will insist on telling their children some inspirational bedtime stories to encourage them to study hard. The mother also often accompanies her two children to study together. She requires her two sons to tell her the classroom knowledge, and she will discuss it with the two children when they encounter something they don’t understand. My father also set a rule to read every day. He Jiang said that it was the subtle nourishment of his family during his growth that enabled him to persist in his dream. Otherwise, he would probably be just like his friends in the village, just a wanderer.A wage earner outside. An outstanding child never produces results through parents\’ preaching, but is carved into the child\’s flesh and blood through parents\’ actions. On the road of children\’s education, what has a greater impact on children than parents\’ cultural level is parents\’ cultural cognition. Compared with parents\’ occupation and status, children pay more attention to whether you are a competent parent. Parents who are truly far-sighted would never expect their children to realize that there was such a scene in the popular TV series \”Little Joy\” that was broadcast some time ago. Fang Yifan was recommended by his teacher to repeat a year because of his poor grades. Tong Wenjie was so angry that she cursed her son. Then she anxiously found her best friend Song Qian, hoping that she could help her son analyze his grades and help with his homework. Song Qian said that she didn\’t know how to worry a long time ago, but now she started to worry. Tong Wenjie said, why didn’t I worry? If his grades are not good, I will spend money to enroll him in classes. Is this called not worrying? The opposite of Tong Wenjie is Yingzi\’s mother Song Qian. Although Song Qian has too much control over Yingzi, Song Qian has always been dedicated to Yingzi\’s study. She personally tutored her daughter in her homework and used big data to analyze changes in her daughter\’s grades. How much of Song Qian\’s hard work was in Yingzi\’s good grades. In life, many parents are like Tong Wenjie. They always think that they will enroll their children in a class when they do not study well, and they always think that they will teach their children a lesson when they fail in the exam. They always ask their children to study hard and make them more self-conscious. They think this means they are very concerned about their children\’s learning. In fact, no, children are children, and their self-discipline is very poor. Few children can control themselves. Don\’t expect children to be conscious. They need more restraint from their parents. There are never naturally conscious children, only parents who supervise them over time. Behind every outstanding child is the \”cruel heart\” of the parents. Every parent hopes that their children can grow up happily. However, the biggest scam in education is called \”Child, you just need to be happy.\” There is no knowledge and skills do not need to be acquired through long-term tedious practice and perseverance. When children don’t want to do homework; when children don’t want to practice piano; when children don’t want to stick to good habits. What parents have to do is to actively guide and Encourage, or even force your children to understand the meaning of learning and perseverance, instead of just letting them go and just saying that the child is happy. Parents\’ reluctance in their children\’s education is actually evading responsibility. And parents in their children\’s education Every responsibility that parents evade may face the risk of doubling their efforts in the future; and every effort parents put in raising their children may be compensated twice in the future. When the TV series \”Tiger Mom and Cat Dad\” hit the airwaves , a line from Bi Shengnan played by Zhao Wei is still fresh in my memory. She said: \”Except for your family, no one in this world will indulge you, won\’t tolerate you just because you are pitiful, and won\’t accommodate you just because you are beautiful.\” This world is very cruel, you must have real skills, otherwise no one can help you. \”Society is very realistic and cruel. In a society where the weak and the strong prey on the strong, it is not the survival of the fittest but the survival of the strong. We cannot protect our children for a lifetime. Now we are not ruthless and force our children to learn.\”\”72 Changes\”, who will help him block the \”81 Difficulties\” in the future? If you want your children not to be eliminated by reality, you must educate your children how to become a strong person. When they grow up, they will definitely be grateful for all your \” \”Unfeeling\”. Education is to make children become better people, let children live a more ideal life, and give children more choices in the future. Download the full collection of a real Yu Shiwei lecture: Selected cases of preschool children\’s family education stories In all 156 issues, I hope every child will have the courage to conquer the stars and the sea in the future. I hope every child will have the sentiment to count the stars in the sky.