How disgusting are uneducated children?

The writer Liang Xiaosheng once said a classic \”Four Words on Culture\”: \”Culture is the cultivation rooted in the heart, the consciousness that does not need to be reminded, the freedom based on restraint, and the kindness of thinking about others.\” This sentence also applies to people\’s Upbringing. Education is our calling card for conducting ourselves in the world. It is like a spring breeze that nourishes the hearts and spleens of those around you, and it will also nourish your own heart. The upbringing in a person\’s bones is not a deliberate action, but a behavior performed without thinking. It cannot be faked, nor can it be easily lost. These 30 details in life deeply hide the upbringing of children. 01 When moving chairs in public places, lift them instead of dragging them directly to avoid making loud noises or harsh sounds. There is a kind of education called: Not disturbing your attention is my greatest kindness. 02 After washing your hands in public, do not throw the water around to avoid throwing it on others. There is a kind of education called: in public places, be considerate of each other and retain public morality. 03 When I was about to enter the door, I saw a person in front of me deliberately holding the door handle waiting for me to come in, so I quickened my pace and caught the door handle in time. There is a kind of education called: Be quick to catch the small kindness of others. 04 Open the WeChat group and see that someone in front of you has posted some key information, so don’t post useless messages at will, as this will push the important information to the top. There is a kind of education called: avoid adding useless efforts to others. 05 Go to someone for help and meet him or her eating. At this time, find a suitable reason to leave and come back after the other person has finished eating. There is a kind of education that says: I will come again after you finish eating. 06 When someone asks you for help, if you are busy at the time, tell the other person the waiting time if you can predict it; if you can\’t, tell the other person and they will come over when you are done. There is a kind of education called: Let the people who are waiting know the truth. 07 When someone calls to communicate something, if you are eating, you should empty your mouth first and put the food away. There is a kind of education called: Don’t let you feel disrespected. 08 When others are speaking, even if you want to interrupt, you must wait for them to finish. There is a kind of education that says: wait until you finish speaking, and I will speak again. 09 Friend A tells him his secret. If friend B asks later, he cannot reveal it to B no matter how good his relationship is with him. There is a kind of education called: Secrets are between two people, I will not tell others, and I will protect your sense of security. 10. When you want to send a WeChat voice to someone else, ask in advance: Is it convenient for them to listen if I send a voice? Send again after getting a positive reply. There is a saying: before switching contact information, make sure it is convenient for him or her. 11. When someone around you does something embarrassing, don’t keep staring at him or her. Just pretend that nothing happened, or avoid it intentionally. There is a kind of education called: taking care of your situation and not letting you lose face. 12 Don’t call yourself fat in front of people who are plumper than you are; don’t call yourself poor in front of people who don’t earn as much as you. There is a kind of education called: Don\’t pour salt on other people\’s wounds. 13. When having a dinner party, after pouring water for yourself, place the pot within easy reach of the other person and turn the handle of the pot toward the other person. There is a saying: if it can be more convenient for you, make it more convenient for you. 14 Go out for dinner with everyone, and don’t overdo it if you find something you like.Put more into your bowl. There is a kind of education called: Others may also like this dish. 15. When you borrow someone else\’s car, remember to fill up the tank with gas or wash the car as a return of friendship. There is a kind of education called: in the face of affection, what comes and goes. 16. When handing scissors, pencils, etc. to others, hold the pointed end in your hand and face yourself. There is a kind of education called: think more about others. 17. Enter the elevator first and hold the door open button until everyone comes up. There is a kind of education called: Wait if you can. 18 Ask for permission before borrowing something, and don\’t look for it privately, no matter how familiar you are with the person. There is a kind of education called: Be measured and do things within your boundaries. 19 When you go to other people’s homes, don’t just sit on their beds. There is a kind of education called: Even if the host does as the guest does, it does not mean being casual. 20When seeing off guests, try to wait until the guests are no longer visible before closing the door. There is a kind of education called: Send you away until you are out of sight. 21 When talking to a child, he will squat down to be at eye level with him. There is a kind of upbringing called: Look at your level, don’t be high and don’t be arrogant. 22. In public transportation such as subways and buses, do not lean entirely on the handrails, and do not squeeze the space of your neighbor with your body or objects. There is a kind of education called: Don’t influence others for your own benefit. 23. When looking at photos on other people’s mobile phones, do not swipe left or right without permission. If you post a photo with others to a public platform, you need to seek the other person\’s consent in advance. There is a kind of education called: respect other people\’s privacy and never pry without permission. 24Knock before entering, even into your own child’s room. There is a kind of education called: Can I come in? 25. When asking others to help carry things, ask clearly about the price and return the money to the other party in a timely manner. There is a kind of education called: self-consciousness. 26 After explaining or clarifying to others, do you understand it? Let me explain it clearly. There is a kind of education called: change the tone to make people feel comfortable. 27. Please pack up the garbage produced in public places and take it away when you leave. There is a kind of education called: A little effort, no trouble. 28 Sending goose feathers thousands of miles away is a light gift but a heavy gift. Gifts from friends, no matter whether they are valuable or not, should be truly appreciated and cherished. There is a kind of education called: Pay attention to other people\’s thoughts, even if they are insignificant. 29 I don’t remember where I read such a story: A little girl went home at night, and there were some strong men who had drunk alcohol at the elevator entrance. When she was feeling uneasy, one of the strong men seemed to see through her thoughts and laughed. Then he said to her: \”Little girl, you come on first, and we\’ll sit down together so that you won\’t be afraid.\” There is a kind of education called: If you have a tiger in your heart, smell the roses carefully. 30 We are always polite to outsiders, but we often lose our temper towards our own family members, and our words are neither gentle nor serious. Why are we polite to strangers but always hurt those closest to us? There is a kind of education: Don\’t just get angry at those close to you just because you are loved. The writer Dean once said: \”Education is like a blood vessel. It can grow in the deepest part of a person\’s flesh and blood and is inseparable.\” In our long life, we will meet all kinds of people and all kinds of people. thing. But no matter what, we must stick to our own upbringing. Only in this way can we live with confidence, warmth and light. Please click [Like], and for the rest of your life, I wish our childrenChildren can hide their education in details and use education to describe their lives.