How do parents love and empower their children?

Recently, when I read picture books with my children, I suddenly felt very emotional and had a very different feeling. Today when Teacher Cheng explained the numbers to me, he mentioned a point. You are very smart, but you don’t know how smart you are. Then you I also show off to others. Look, I can actually say such things. Am I amazing? I really had such a feeling when the teacher said this. Here I will share with you some of my own feelings about reading picture books. In fact, I am also a partner in our digital group. Many of them are asking how to raise children? Then I suddenly thought of this picture book I recently taught my children. I thought it would be a good idea to share it with everyone. Many people are asking: Look, this is my child’s number. Why is she always so grumpy? Do you think my child just has a bad temper? You see, how am I going to raise my child like this? I remember what Teacher Mu Yi said: If you feel you have no wisdom, don’t care about your children at all. There is also a book that says: If you want your children to be good, just let them go, because the more you care about your children, the more they will be like you. Teacher Holy Spirit said: If there is a rock in front of you and you are thinking that the bicycle should not hit it, the result will be that the bicycle will hit it directly. This is called attraction. So the final conclusion is: Don’t take care of the children, it is better to take care of yourself first. We have something to do with the children. When we are asked to do so, we just want to control our children. That is not love. \”The Biography of the Buddha\” says that true happiness is the absence of love and hate. Real love is great love and compassion, with the world in mind and compassion for all living beings. We let go of the control over our children in our hearts, and we care for them sincerely. We do not love you only when the child meets our requirements. Moreover, I love you as you are, and the child will be fine. Some people will ask, how can I understand the child and then transform the child? Woolen cloth? In fact, there is no way to change this. Numbers are our habits. We can only change our views on things by improving our cognitive enhancement dimension, thereby changing our lives. This energy is clearly told in picture books, so as parents, we know what is right. What can we do to love, accept, tolerate, trust, and respect our children so that they can grow up healthily? 1. Improve yourself to be a smart mother 2. See more of your children’s shining points 3. Give more positive feedback to your children Let me give you an example. I am mother No. 1. I really hope that my children will listen to me, so I will be very angry if my children disobey. Angry, I cultivated the acceptance part of myself by learning numbers. Then my son was also number 1, so I started to let the child go. I chose to give the child candy at noon. He had a slight cough and took cough medicine. Son: Mom, I want to Sugar-eating mother: Yes, but you are still taking medicine, and eating sugar will make you cough. Son: It’s okay. I\’m not afraid. Mom: OK, you can take it. I saw it when I got the medicine yesterday. Many children are still crying during injections. You just happened to eat candy, so I can take you to get injections, and I can also go out for a walk (then my son stopped talking, and finally he didn’t eat either). In the evening, my son had to look at his mobile phone, and it has been 20 minutes. Before I put it down, I said: Son, why don’t you watch it for a while. When your eyes can no longer see, you no longer have to worry about watching TV or looking at your phone… (In the end, he put down his phone and used a small speaker to listen to the story.) Here There is a point where parents should let go first and take care of themselvesIf you practice well and have inner peace, otherwise it won’t be energy when you say it, so Teacher Mu Yi’s Vipassana Consultant Course is really worth it. Cultivate yourself first. If you change, the world will change.