The fetus can feel some changes in the outside world while in the womb. Expectant fathers will always talk to their babies from time to time, but they have no choice but to find a suitable method. Experts explain that it is very effective to talk to the fetus in the following ways.
Calling for prenatal education
It\’s called prenatal education, which is mother-child dialogue. Pregnant women and their husbands communicate with the fetus, including saying some children\’s songs. The fetus has memory. Calling it by name, or calling it \”baby\” or \”good boy\” can still recognize it after birth.
There was such an accident. During the pregnancy of his wife, the father-to-be often said to the fetus: \”Baby, how are you?\” I am your father! Touch the fetus at the same time. He kept doing this, and he found that every time this sentence was uttered, the fetus would twist its body excitedly. When the child is unhappy after the birth, the father habitually says: How are you, baby? I am your father! As soon as the words came out, the baby suddenly stopped crying as if by magic, turned his head to look for the direction of the sound, and then laughed. In the future, whenever the child cries, the father will say this, and the child will calm down from the crying every time.
It can be seen that parents calling and training the fetus in the abdomen through sounds and movements is a positive and beneficial method of prenatal education. As mentioned in the chapter on fetal potential, the fetus has the ability to distinguish various sounds and respond accordingly. Parents should seize this opportunity and frequently conduct \”dialogue training\” with their fetuses, that is, \”call for prenatal education.\”
Not only is this an exciting time for young parents, it\’s also an exciting time for your children to hear familiar voices as they enter a completely unfamiliar world for the first time. time. Sound is a great comfort and joy to him, and it also eliminates the psychological tension and uneasiness caused by sudden changes in the environment.
During the conversation, the fetus can feel the cordial calls from the parents through hearing and touch, which enhances physical communication and emotional connection with each other, which is very beneficial to the physical and mental development of the fetus.
Warm reminder: The enlightenment education of children’s intelligence and talents occurs during the fetal period. Therefore, it is very necessary to conduct timely and reasonable training based on this ability of the fetus to further develop and improve it.
Conversation between father and fetus
We will see this phenomenon in our lives. Some babies will laugh even if a strange woman teases them, and they will cry when their father teases them, let alone other men. This is why children are not familiar with male voices from the fetal stage to the postpartum period. In order to eliminate children\’s distrust of men, including fathers, fathers should play a very important role in calling for prenatal education.
Acoustic research shows that fetuses in the womb are best suited to hearing mid- to low-frequency tones, while men’s voices are dominated by mid-to-low-frequency tones. Therefore, the father insists on speaking to the fetus in the womb every day, so that the fetus can become familiar with the father\’s voice, which can arouse the fetus\’ mostA positive response is beneficial to the fetus\’ intellectual and emotional stability after birth.
1. Father’s opening and closing remarks
The father should routinely begin and end his conversations with the fetus, speaking to the fetus with words of comfort and self-awareness. The opening and closing remarks can be designed like this:
The language of the opening statement is: Baby (or baby name), I am your daddy. I will talk to you every day and tell you all the good things in the outside world.
At the end of the conversation, encourage the fetus: Baby, you study very seriously and are a smart child. I hope everything I teach you will be helpful to you in your future life. Okay, that’s it for today, bye!
When possible, fathers should talk to their fetus daily to deepen their relationship with their baby.
2. Specific methods for talking to the fetus
The husband can let his pregnant wife sit on a large and comfortable chair, and then the wife says to the fetus: \”Good boy, daddy is by your side. Do you want to hear what he says to you?\” At this time, the husband should sit on the bed away from the fetus. The wife should be 50 centimeters away. The tone should be calm at the beginning of the conversation, and gradually raise the voice as the conversation progresses. Do not make a high-pitched sound all at once to scare the fetus.
It’s best to plan the topic of your speech in advance. Start by drafting a small speech. The content of the manuscript can be a beautiful and moving story, a pure children\’s song, an ancient poem with simple content, or a talk about one\’s own work. and awareness of the surrounding environment. Use poetic language and fairy tale-like artistic conception to tell children about the beautiful new world outside.
Warm reminder: When talking to the fetus, dad must remember not to smoke and talk to the child at the same time. This is harmful to both the pregnant woman and the fetus. Because the harmful substances in the smoke can enter the wife\’s body through breathing, and then be transported to the fetus through the blood, thus causing adverse effects on the fetus.