How important is eating well to a family?

Before the Mid-Autumn Festival, I guess grandma must have missed us. So when I called over. The old man asked us when we were going there. I said I would go and have lunch. She said happily, \”Okay, okay.\” Now she can no longer cook meals for the family. So they no longer call us over for dinner as often as before. But there are more times to ask for help. But I know that she must have been looking forward to us going over to see her. So when I arrived at my aunt\’s house, my grandma happened to catch a duck and came back. The old man had already put on a gown in this late autumn, and there were thin beads of sweat on her forehead that day. He opened his coat and held the duck in his arms. Prepare the ingredients for us for lunch. Because I was too busy, I found an apron as usual and started cooking by myself. Although I no longer feel the food I cooked. But grandma hasn’t had it for a long time. When the food was served, she didn\’t eat much, and spent more time watching the children. I keep asking for more food. I said you should control your weight and not eat too much. She always said that I am not fat, work hard and eat more. Nowadays, she is getting older. Calling my son softly. I asked my mother-in-law to hug me, but she couldn\’t hold her anymore. It is said that every time my mother-in-law hugs me, it will be one less time. Every time I hear such words, my heart feels heavy. Because I remember eating with my grandma at her brother’s house and sister’s house. My uncles and aunts are no longer here. At that time, they also called me and gave me my favorite dishes. Therefore, this time the National Day and the Mid-Autumn Festival overlap. The originally planned trip has been put on hold for now. Because there are many people waiting to accompany you. A few days of rare vacation seems very precious. If possible, please remember to eat more meals with the elderly at home. In fact, as you eat, you will understand: they want to watch you and have you with them. I always feel that every happy marriage has the smell of steaming rice. I have a friend who met his wife in the first year after graduating from college. At that time, he was living in the company\’s dormitory and, in his own words, was very poor. I rented a house after I got a girlfriend. When he helped him move, he specially prepared a full set of kitchen utensils. A few friends joked that you wanted to make takeout, so you made it so complete. He smiled but said nothing. Because he has a unique skill, that is, he can cook. He is extremely attentive and generous to his friends. So we often went to his house to eat and drink. A few years later, at his wedding, the host asked the bride, \”What do you like most about the groom?\” \”I think the food he cooks is particularly delicious.\” \”I am willing to be a cook for you for the rest of my life, as long as you don\’t dislike it. .\”He said. This confession makes our group of friends envious. The little girls in the audience were moved to tears. True love is actually in these little things. A few days ago, I heard from my mother that there was a young man in the village who was looking for a partner. She said the girl would be happy in the future. I\’m thinking it\’s probably because this boy has made a lot of money in Shanghai in the past few years and is doing well. My mother said: Because this young man is diligent, he always does housework for his parents every time he comes home, so he is always busy. This girl will not suffer a loss if she marries him. In the eyes of these people who have experienced love and marriage. Only those who live a down-to-earth life will give you happiness. Rather than rely on money. If money really worked, our women today wouldPeople should be the happiest. Because the current economic development is far higher than any previous period. But what\’s the result? I think most women want to marry someone they can see and eat with. Hidden on the dinner table is the warmth of a marriage. Please remember to spend more time with your lover and have a good meal. When we become parents. When children are young, one of the best tutors is to accompany them to eat. Many friends say that families rarely have dinner together nowadays. Because of the accelerated pace of life and the pressure of survival and development, gathering the family together at the dinner table has become a luxury. It seems that social life is more important than family dinner, and business entertainment is more important than family dinner. Eating with children has become unattainable. I really enjoy eating with my son. Just like reading, our hearts may collide in the same place. We have a common family and cultural background. And eating together allows us to taste the same taste. That feeling is wonderful. Especially on a day of hard work, families who have been scattered throughout the day gather together. Eat your favorite food and talk about your day. Such times are relaxing and enjoyable. When we carefully prepare meals for our children and serve them in front of them. Your children will feel your love. Accumulate bit by bit, and recall it many years later with warmth in your heart. When dining with your family, please remember to put down your phone. Many times, we say we miss someone on the phone when that person is actually sitting in front of you. You are looking at your phone. Don\’t know when to start. Many people can no longer eat without their mobile phones. The food was not served, so I passed the time by scrolling through my phone. The food was on the table, but I was still eating and staring at my phone. If a good dish is served, take a photo and post it on your WeChat Moments immediately. Then continue looking at your phone. It’s not just adults these days. So do a lot of kids. Adults look at mobile phones, while children play with tablets. Eating has become an accessory. I\’m afraid that my time will be wasted by eating. The mobile phone seems to be my life and cannot be taken offline. Many mothers say that their children watch TV while eating. Play with toys while eating. In fact, it is often affected by the general environment. Often they imitate the behavior of adults. I remember when our son was two years old, we had dinner. My mom turned on the TV. The little guy was happy, and then watched TV while waiting for grandma to feed the food into his mouth. At that time, I established the rules. When eating, you can only sit at the dining table and eat well, with the TV turned off. At first, the child will resist. But seeing our firm attitude, he gave up. Parents are the best role models for their children. Your children can sense your style and attitude and imitate it. If you want to teach your children how to love your family. Then take your children with you and eat more meals with your family.