How important is it for children to have a father who can cook?

I discovered that I am a person who really enjoys the kitchen. Especially after having my son, I like the feeling of cooking even more. When a child comes into the world, the first taste he feels is the fragrance and sweetness between his lips and teeth. Mothers are born with milk to feed their children. And what about dad? Then go to the kitchen and cook for your children. Because isn’t this also a loving way of breastfeeding? When it comes to cooking, many dads shake their heads and say that they are so busy that they don’t have time to do it, and they are afraid of not doing it well. To be honest, you don’t have to be a chef, as long as you work hard and carefully prepare every meal for your children, your children will definitely feel your deep love. In fact, in trivial matters such as dressing and eating, children truly feel the love of their parents. When your children eat the dishes you personally cook, they will feel at least two flavors. One is the taste sensation given by the dish itself. There is another kind of unique parental love. Children will feel the taste of family through the tip of their tongue. Having a father who can cook at home is a special happy experience for children. After my son went to kindergarten, the last thing I was used to was eating lunch alone. In the past, with him shouting at her, the two of them would go out early every morning and buy the ingredients they needed for the day. Make two dishes for lunch and eat them all together. Recently, my son eats in kindergarten every day, three meals a day. As for me, I really don’t know what to cook for lunch. Many friends said that the same thing happened to them. In the past, when their children ate at home, the kitchen would be steaming hot. Later, the children went to school to eat. Just stir-fry some vegetables or eat some porridge at night. It is euphemistically called a healthy meal for weight loss. So I look forward to the weekend. I can now prepare dishes that my son likes to eat. Doing the math, I should have been cooking alone for 7 years. I remember that I had just graduated from college and was with my girlfriend Yu Ma. Rent a small house with one bedroom, one living room, one kitchen and one bathroom. I\’ll be in charge of cooking. During the holidays, I go to the nearby vegetable wholesale market and come back with a few big bags each time. Then eat for three to five days. At that time, life was poor and simple, and time passed very slowly. There was a lot of time to figure out how to cook. So the white radish and carrots are carved into heart shapes, and then the ribs are put in the soup. When the fish mother saw it, she was reluctant to eat it. The meals cooked at that time should belong to the romance and sweetness of love. And after having Xiao Xiaoyu, our little family became complete. The meals cooked at this time should taste like home. Cooking well for your son is a super weapon to bring the relationship between father and son closer. Saying a hundred educational principles to your children is not as good as cooking a meal for them with your own hands. A snack can always stimulate your unlimited potential. Dad, this is delicious. Dad, it would be great if I could eat this dish every day. Dad, the food you cook is the most delicious in the world. If you want to tie a child\’s heart, tie his stomach first. At that time, my son loved to eat meat, and he couldn\’t get enough of it. Fortunately he doesn\’t get fat from eating, so we let him eat meat properly. I make braised pork, beef brisket stewed with tomatoes, and occasionally braised beef and steamed pork with rice flour. But now his obsession with meat has waned. But I still have a strong interest in all kinds of fish. So, I cooked braised hairtail, steamed sea bass, and boiled fish fillets for him. He also developed the skill of picking fish bones by himself. And every time I cook fresh and varied dishes, IWill call my son to participate in the preparation work ahead. Sometimes when he sees me soaking seabass in onion and ginger cooking wine, he smells the smell and says to me, \”Dad, I really want to eat it now that I smell it.\” In fact, I know that the dishes I cook are very ordinary. It’s just that I know what you like to eat, and I try to make it good. If it doesn’t work once, try again next time. And children sometimes don’t care about the taste of what you cook. What they care about is what you cook, and what they care about is that you cook and eat together with them. In this process, the child feels full of love. What kind of parents do children like? I think the answer should be parents who have fireworks. Fireworks gas can make the atmosphere of your home more flavorful. Dads who can cook often understand how difficult it is for their wives. Because the kitchen is a place that tests one\’s patience and mind. Irritability and carelessness often do not hold up. And the kitchen is also a very hard place. The choking smell of oil smoke clung to my body and hair, and it couldn\’t be dissipated without taking a shower. And it’s most annoying in the summer. You can\’t turn it on in high winds because the flames are unstable. So I often sweat profusely and have no time to wipe away the sweat. Imagine a couple coming home after a tiring day at work. If the husband can cook a delicious meal, he can get rid of the stress and worries of work. The wife kept the house in order. Then ask the children to wash their hands, and the family sits together and eats happily. Tell me something interesting, how wonderful it feels. In such a family, the relationship between husband and wife will not be bad. With a good family atmosphere, the parent-child relationship will also be good. If dad comes home, he just lies down and complains that work is hard to do, the kids are annoying, and he needs to relax. Then leave all the work at home to his wife. \”Can you cook for once?\” \”I can\’t. My mother doesn\’t even want me to cook, so you want me to cook?\” \”There are a lot of housework, what should I do with this meal?\” \”Silly, you can just order takeout. \”Is it okay for the child to eat takeout?\” \”If not, you can do it! Anyway, I don\’t know how to do it\”… In such a family, the lives of both people are a battlefield. Having one more child will only make things more chaotic and tense. Therefore, it is important for children and a family that a father can cook. A father who loves his wife, family, and kitchen will bring more happiness to the family. It also sets a good example for the boys in the family. I hope my son can learn to cook. From now on, I can cook delicious meals with my heart for the people I love. Food not only fills the stomach, it brings memories and warmth. Imprinted on our bodies. No matter how far you travel, you never forget the taste of home. Among them, the food cooked by parents is the most delicious.