How parents can enhance their children’s learning motivation

It is the hope of every parent and the hope of their children to have their children motivated to learn and achieve excellent results. However, some children cannot improve their academic performance and have no motivation. As parents, what should we do? Learning is a child\’s natural instinct. When a child is just born, he is full of curiosity and interest in the world. Ask “why” everywhere you go? Some parents satisfy their children\’s curiosity and thirst for knowledge by telling them or working with them to find answers. However, some parents directly reject their children\’s questions and impatiently say, \”Why are you asking? There are so many reasons why?\” Slowly we will find that children no longer ask. In fact, life is also a kind of learning, and learning is not limited to learning from books. Children have no motivation to learn. What are the mistakes parents make? How to get rid of children\’s problem of dawdling? Chen Mo says goodbye to wasting time on writing homework efficiently 30 Lecture 1: Improper material rewards from parents gradually reduce children’s learning motivation. Parents use material rewards to their children, and if their children do well in exams, they buy them delicious and fun things. When our material rewards cannot satisfy children\’s desires, children\’s motivation to learn will slowly disappear. 2. Inappropriate evaluation methods by parents. When a child fails to meet parents\’ expectations, parents will directly deny the child completely, so we can deny that the child has not done this well, but never deny the child as a person. Blindly attacking children will cause them to fall into learned helplessness, without a sense of gain and security. 3. When children have problems, parents excessively criticize and blame them. When a child has a problem, if the child is said to be sloppy and careless, stressed frequently, and repeated in the wrong way, the child will change from guilt to boredom, confrontation with the parent, and even aversion to learning. This is caused by parents\’ lack of scientific methods and theories. What should parents do in this situation? 1. The inner motivation to care for children. Dreams are children\’s motivation, exams are children\’s pressure, parents and teachers are children\’s support, and improving performance is children\’s internal driving force. The pull of dreams, the pressure of studies, the support of parents, and the child\’s internal motivation all work together to help children grow. 2. Parents should have reasonable expectations and recognize their children in a timely manner. Nurturing children is like planting seeds and giving them hope. Children\’s academic performance is in a spiral, with ups and downs just like life. It is a normal phenomenon and parents must treat it rationally. Parents must recognize their children\’s efforts, so that their children will be motivated, have a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence. It is more important to cultivate a child who can fail than to cultivate a child who can succeed. 3. Harmonious parent-child relationship Relationship is more important than anything else. Only when the parent-child relationship is good, will the children be willing to communicate with us. Only through communication can we have a heart-to-heart relationship, and through heart-to-heart communication can the parent-child relationship get closer. Therefore, only when the parent-child relationship is good will the children be willing to communicate with us. A harmonious parent-child relationship not only allows the child to have a sense of happiness and value at home, but also has enough energy to cope with his study and life. All parents hope that they will be motivated to learn and have a happy life. This is the hope of all our parents. But what do we do to make ourIf we hope that our ideals will become reality, we need scientific methods from parents. All education is a strategy, and a strategy is a plan. Therefore, we must have a strategy for our children\’s growth and life, and this strategy requires our parents to continue to learn. Only when parents continue to learn and grow themselves and improve their scientific methods of educating their children can they raise good children.