How parents educate their children

Education, the first person to combine the two words together was Mencius, which comes from \”Mencius: Devoting the Heart\”. What education is, literally means requiring teaching and nurturing. It involves two aspects: teaching and educating people. Therefore, there is no education in the animal kingdom. However, in today’s sharing, I would like to use some of my experience in raising dogs to discuss with you the word intention conveyed in the title. Counting to today, it has been four months since I raised a furry child. In the past four months, through repeated teachings, occasional scoldings, and material rewards, she has learned to go to the toilet at designated times, and learned to survive by listening to others and eating enough. Criteria, and many, many more. Today’s sharing is really a whim. When I was feeding Little Wang two days ago, I took a bowl full of dog food and was about to put it in the dining area for her. Before I put down the bowl, she stood up and wanted to come over to eat. I just put it in After picking up the bowl, I told her: How can you eat before the food is on the table? I repeated this many times that day, and she finally understood what I meant. When I was feeding her again tonight, I was thinking that I would have to repeat it several times this time, but I didn\’t realize that until I put the bowl down, the little pup was sitting in his nest, even though his eyes were fixed. He stared at his job but didn\’t make any move. I was worried, so I tried again, and sure enough it was still the same. So, I came to the realization that if you teach a puppy something, she can learn it, what about us humans? Education is a careful process that takes a long time and cannot be completed overnight. During this process, you will experience setbacks and sometimes be disappointed, but we are engaged in the work of education. In the education process, our disappointment and frustration come from the pressure of the unit, from the unreasonable troubles of parents, from the inaction of students. In fact, there are also problems where teachers do not understand the point. Regarding the educational and teaching pressure exerted by the unit, unless the unit can proceed from reality, all anxiety and complaints will be in vain. It is actually understandable for parents to be unreasonable. Every parent hopes that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. The reality of education is that their children have poor grades and a lot of bad habits, which they cannot accept psychologically. At the same time, parents who lack knowledge always believe that parents play a key role in education. Regarding the role of sex, the fault lies with the school, with the managers, and with the teachers. The Miracle of Classroom No. 56: How to Guide Children to Love Learning pdf For children who do not do anything, we must teach them in accordance with their aptitude. Confucius often talked about teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, which means that children should learn the content based on their basic skills. As a teacher, you must learn to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Some children are suitable for learning, and some are not suitable for learning. We must be able to distinguish them. Let the children who can learn cultural knowledge learn cultural knowledge. The other children can choose other paths, but no matter which path it is, we must work hard and work day in and day out. Keep people\’s true nature of kindness. Any measures we take must be felt by parents and children. We must let them understand your efforts, children can feel your intentions, and parents care about their children\’s feelings, then things will not develop in a bad direction.