How should parents discipline their children?

In life, when many parents discipline their children, they often ignore their children\’s feelings and thoughts and make many behaviors that hurt their children\’s souls. For example, if a child loses his temper and keeps crying, the parent angrily locks the child in a small dark room and ignores the child\’s cries of fear. The child was forced to stop crying, and the parents found this approach to be very effective and tried and true. When a child makes a mistake, the parents will ignore it and scold the child, say some unpleasant words to arouse the child\’s self-esteem, or teach the child a lesson in public. In some families, the father is busy with work and rarely communicates with the children and cares little. Whenever he has the opportunity, he will talk to the children in a long way… Parents always feel that the children are young and ignorant, and their feelings are not important, even if I was sad at the time and forgot about it after two days. The fact is that children may forget the specific incident, but the psychological trauma and personality impact caused at that time will stay with them throughout their lives. Rough education that ignores children\’s feelings will destroy children\’s sense of security and trust in their parents. The lack of emotional connection between parents and children will cause parents\’ education to gradually lose its binding force. Basic preaching without emotion will only make children feel bored, and they will not be able to listen no matter how many principles are taught. Ms. Satya, an American family therapy master, said: 15 recommended high-scoring baby education books, which can be called life textbooks. “When children do make mistakes that need to be corrected, loving parents usually take a very candid approach, ask the reasons, and listen to their children. Give them care and understanding, and at the same time understand the children\’s feelings. Finally, use the right opportunity to reason with the children when they naturally want to listen.\” When disciplining children, you must bring emotional warmth and respect the children\’s feelings. Feel, understand his thoughts, talk on an equal footing, and understand what the child really needs, in order to play the greatest role in education. When communicating with children in daily life, parents should not preach or deny their children from a superior position, treat their children as a person with an independent personality, respect their ideas, communicate with them on an equal footing, and speak well. Don\’t interfere or control your children too much. As your children grow up, learn to withdraw gradually and give them more opportunities to make their own choices, decisions, and experiments.