Qixi Festival, on this sweet day, how can you please your girlfriend/wife? This is really an issue that has always been concerned, and it is also a sweet confusion among the majority of male compatriots. Many times when giving gifts, I am afraid that the other party will not like it, which is often a state of wandering and confusion. So what kind of surprise is suitable for Chinese Valentine\’s Day? Below, the editor of Babao.com will teach you how to make your girlfriend/wife happy on a romantic festival like Chinese Valentine\’s Day.
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Tips for coaxing your wife during Chinese Valentine\’s Day
Question 1: Do you love me?
Wrong answer A: \”Love.\”
Wrong answer B: \”Does this need to be asked?\”
Wrong answer C: \” Are you annoyed?\”
Standard answer: Look at the other person lovingly for three seconds, then nod your head with an expression and make a \”hmm\” sound at the same time
sound, and then held her in his arms…
Analysis:
Answer A will make her think that you are not serious and are just messing with her;
Answer B will make her feel that your love for her is not firm enough, and she will definitely ask endless questions and ask you to give her a clear answer, which is enough to annoy you;
Answer C passed
There must be a big fight or a cold war in the end.
Actually, a woman has a pretty good idea of whether a man loves her or not. When she asks this question, it is purely a matter of flirting. Hugging her and kissing her will make her happier than answering anything else. Question 2: Do you think my dress looks good?
Wrong answer A: \”It\’s pretty.\”
Wrong answer B: \”It\’s okay.\”
Wrong answer C: \”True It looks good. My wife looks good in anything she wears.”
Standard answer: Come on, turn around and let me see… After she finishes turning around shyly, pull her over. She looked at him with her hand and said with a smile: It\’s really beautiful.
Analysis:
Answer A will make her feel that you can handle her;
Answer B will make her feel unconfident. In her mind, you can do whatever she wears.
She should feel good;
Answer C will make her think that your sweet words are insincere.
So, if you want to show how serious you are about the question she raised, you must look at it carefully before speaking.
Question 3: After she introduced her best friend to you, she asked when she got home: \”What do you think of my friend?\”
Wrong answer A: \”Quite beautiful.\”
Wrong answer B: \”Not very good, compared toYou\’re not even close. \”
Wrong answer C: \”I didn\’t pay much attention to her. ”
Standard answer: I think she is very sincere to you, and you should cherish such a friend.
Analysis:
Answer A is purely for nothing. Type, a woman will never allow you to say good things about other women in front of her (except, of course, mother.);
Answer B sounds too fake;
Answer C: You must think your answer is quite clever. She won’t believe it at all, and she will start imagining and analyzing why you don’t want to evaluate her friends.
So, avoid the question. , answer in a roundabout way, making her feel that you are doing everything for her, and she will feel cared for and taken care of.
Question 4: What do you think about me? Are you fat?
Incorrect answer A: “Not fat. ”
Wrong answer B: “It seems that I have gained weight.” \”
Wrong answer C: \”Hey, are you too tired recently? Why are you so thin? \”
Standard answer: Come here and let me hug you. After hugging you, you can say: I like you like this, a little fleshy
Analysis:
Answer A\’s answer was too straightforward, and she didn\’t like it.
Answer B was just for scolding. How can a girl like to hear others say she is fat? Still unhappy;
Answer C sounds so hypocritical, how can women be so confused nowadays?
In fact, in a woman’s heart, she still hopes that a man will not care about her. Fat or thin, although I say I want to lose weight for you, I actually want to be more beautiful and wear more nice clothes, so just use your body language to show that you like her to be a bit fleshy.
Question 5: Which one do you prefer between me and your ex-girlfriend?
Wrong answer A: “Nonsense, of course it’s you, otherwise why would I be with you? . \”
Wrong answer B: \”Well, how should I put it, if I tell the truth, each has its own merits. \”
Wrong answer C: \”She is far worse than you. ”
Standard answer: Bite her hard or kiss her or pinch her little face, and wait until she squeals like a baby.
Just say: \”Next time I ask such a boring question, I will punish you like this.\”
Analysis:
Answer A is too blunt and direct, she will follow They will ask: \’Then if you meet someone better than me in the future, will you have to kick me too?\’
Answer B, just wait to break up, it’s so real;
Answer C sounds pretty good, but aren’t you slapping yourself for saying that your ex-girlfriend is not good will make women You are so proud that you lower your own worth.
In fact, in a woman\’s heart, she especially hopes that your ex-girlfriend is a particularly good woman, but you are unwilling to get along with her, so that the woman will feel a sense of accomplishment. But you can\’t directly say how nice your ex-girlfriend is, so just use her favorite way to avoid the question (as for whether she likes you to pinch her cheeks or bite her, we don\’t know).
Tips for coaxing your wife
1. Home is not a place to be unreasonable: This sentence is a truth that my wife and I have understood after years of quarrels. . It\’s impossible for husband and wife not to quarrel, but don\’t get entangled over trivial matters. You have to explain it clearly. Some things don\’t need to be explained clearly. If you explain it clearly, the effect will be bad. At the same time, don’t ask the other party to admit their mistake, even if the truth is on your side. Because there is no winner in a quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to tell the winner. Instead, you have to turn a blind eye; not only that, you also need to use your true feelings to maintain it in order to maintain a real home.
2. Be honest: When men are socializing outside, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as work is not involved, there is no need to make up excuses such as \”I am in a meeting\” or \”I am working overtime\” to deceive my wife. Because it often takes ten sentences to cover up a lie, and mistakes are inevitable. How tiring.
3. Skillfully practice \”strict wife control\”: There is nothing wrong with proper \”strict wife control\”. Families with \”strict wife control\” tend to last for a long time. At the same time, such men often understand in their hearts that their wives bear a lot of hardship and fatigue, so they are willing to be \”strictly controlled by their wives.\” Many times, they refuse some non-important gatherings and instead go home from get off work to help their wives cook and stir-fry. , washing dishes and other household chores. Not only that, such men tend not to care about everything.
4. Don’t blame your wife for nagging: Generally speaking, women are more talkative and nagging only in front of the man they like. Maybe the man had a bad day at work or had a conflict with a colleague, but at this time his wife is like a tireless bird, chirping in front of you, making you feel even more irritable. But you must not blame her too much. You only need to say to her: Honey, I am very tired, let me rest alone for a while.
5. Men should bear the responsibility of supporting the family: Men bravely shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family, no matter whether the wife is an independent type or a dependent type, even if the wife is working like you, she will get a monthly salary More or less salary, you have to treat yourself as a familyThe mainstay! When he sees his wife coming home tired and still cooking, a man should say: \”It\’s so hard, let me support you!\” A wise wife will also think of your hard work and receive care and recognition, and your wife\’s work enthusiasm will increase. Bigger!
6. Remember anniversaries: your wife’s birthday, various festivals, anniversaries, it doesn’t matter if you don’t celebrate it with a big fanfare, but remember to give her a gift; you don’t It’s okay to give her a gift, but ask her to have dinner with you; it’s okay if you don’t invite her to dinner, but remember to bring her a bouquet of flowers; it doesn’t matter if you think sending flowers is a waste, then buy her some snacks she likes; if you don’t Snacks are fine, but remember to call her to say hello, or at the very least, send her a meaningful text message. It doesn\’t matter if you forgot to send a text message, then just wait for her to complain about you.
7. Be attentive to your wife: During the days of her menstrual cycle, a man must be attentive, pay attention to his wife’s diet, and make her some blood-enhancing food appropriately. She will definitely feel happy. .
8. Know how to praise: A man must praise his wife. If you don’t praise your wife, who else can you praise? Unless you\’re out of your mind.
9. A gentleman talks but does not take action: If a man takes action because of a quarrel between a couple, he will be despised by everyone. In that case, your marriage will be in danger.
10. Both parties make progress together: women must learn to enrich themselves, and men must encourage them. This can maintain a certain balance between the two for a long time and prevent the gap from getting too wide. Can you imagine a graduate student living with someone who has not graduated from elementary school?
Warm Tips
In fact, women should be coaxed, but not pampered – this is the experience that men have accumulated from long-term life! Coaxing is not cheating, although the two words coaxing and cheating are often used together, which is called coaxing. But there is a difference between coaxing and deceiving.
