How to correct children\’s bad habits

In most cases, soon after their children go to school, parents will find that their children have learned a lot of mistakes after going to school. They swear, like to command others, and are very domineering. For example, no, what you say does not count, what I say counts. You must listen to me, you When you asked, you found out that this was what the teacher would say. You did find that the teacher would order the child, threaten the child, and put negative labels on the child. So what should parents do? As a family education instructor, Xiaomao will teach you three tricks. You can save this article and read it at any time. First, don’t be too anxious. Psychology has found that parents’ influence on children under 6 years old is as high as 80%, so parents should accompany you. Others cannot affect your child’s basic personality, so parents, please relax. At the same time, you must take your children with you before the age of 6 and educate them personally. Second, be curious to understand the truth. Knowing the truth will reduce your anxiety by half. Third, by the way, you can improve your children\’s social skills. I invite you to use these 4-step magic words with high emotional intelligence. [Children\’s Bedtime Stories] Collector\’s Edition of 300 Classic Philosophical Stories. No. 1 invites children. Which child is Teacher Lu talking to? ah? What were the children doing at that time? Teacher, why are you so angry? Would you like to say more? Mom, I want to hear it. Please listen patiently to the end. Step 2: Understand the child’s feelings. It turns out that Shuaishuai didn’t shoot the ball properly and ran away from the team, so the teacher was angry. Then what emotions did you feel when the teacher said this? If you don\’t have any emotions, it means that you have grown up and your emotions have become more stable. When you were a child, if the teacher spoke loudly, you would be a little scared, right? But remember, no matter what happens at school and when you get home, your mother will always love you and give your child a sense of security. Step 3: Express appreciation. After listening to what you said today, mom appreciates you so much. Thank you for taking the initiative to tell mom about things at school and saying it so clearly. Mom is lovely for listening to you. Encourage your children to communicate with you in time if anything happens. , you can help him. Step 4: Implant new seeds. Mom feels that if you are angry, you can express your anger and become happy. Just like he said at the beginning, no, you must listen to me. You can invite him to say, you can say to dad: I hate you teasing me. This will make me very angry. You can\’t do this to me. Talking like this will make me more angry. Easy to succeed. Try it, we can\’t let our children live in a greenhouse without encountering any harm, nor can we change every teacher the child encounters. Even family members will yell at the child and threaten the child, right? What we can do is to be mothers. If we speak well and speak with high emotional intelligence, 92% of your children\’s language is directly imitating their parents, so the future of their children lies in their parents\’ mouths.