How to cultivate children\’s self-confidence?

Regarding children’s self-confidence, this is a big deal! Because of this matter, parents worked hard. Cultivating self-confidence will be a huge asset for children. Every parent hopes that their children will be confident from an early age, but self-confidence is not innate. The following are 20 very effective and practical ways to make children confident from an early age. English Word Root Cards PhonicsPosters Natural Phonics Ultra-clear Full Color PDF 1 Take your child\’s request seriously. When your child stands in the living room and asks expectantly: \”Mom, I want to drink milk.\” If you can\’t satisfy him while cooking in the kitchen, tell him Specific time: \”Mom, steam the rice and go get it for you, okay?\” Often ignoring the baby\’s needs will make him lose confidence because he is not taken seriously. 2. Give your child the opportunity to make his own choices. Take your child on a weekend trip and ask for his opinion. If you already have a goal, you can use a two-choice method, such as asking \”Do you want to go to the zoo or the museum?\” Give him a range of choices and let him choose. Making his own choices will increase his confidence in himself. 3. Don’t laugh at your children. For example, if a child just learns to speak, you teach him “big watermelon”, but he says “big watermelon”. Don\’t laugh at him, and don\’t emphasize it at the moment. Teach him another time. During your child\’s language learning period, your ridicule will cause him to lose his confidence and interest in learning the language. 4. Take your child\’s questions seriously. When your child asks a question, you have to listen patiently. If you can\’t answer it, tell him honestly. Mom doesn\’t know. Let\’s look it up in the dictionary or use other methods. Don\’t answer according to your own ideas. Let him know that there is something that no one can do, dispel his fear of others, and thereby increase his self-confidence. 5. Let the child feel that he or she is needed. Use a consultative tone to ask the child to do what he can, such as \”Please bring the newspaper to mom, please?\” Letting the child know that he is needed is the best way to improve his self-confidence. 6. Display your child’s works at home. Let your child post his graffiti on the most eye-catching wall at home; make a display shelf for your child on the cabinet to display his small creations. The sense of honor can best inspire children\’s self-confidence. 7. Give the child a territory of his own. Give the child a room. If there are no conditions, you can give him part of the room so that he can have a small world where he can play freely and not be restrained. Because he is full of pride in owning his own \”territory\”, which will make him more confident. 8 A mother\’s tolerance is the soil for cultivating children\’s self-confidence. Don\’t always blame the child because the child\’s room or table is messy, but teach him to clean up the scattered toys by himself and do it with him. Mother\’s tolerance is the soil for cultivating children\’s self-confidence. 9. Don’t compare your child with other children and say to your child: “My sister can already count, but you can’t yet. You are so stupid!” Even if he is really worse than other children. Always comparing yourself with children who are stronger than you is the most damaging thing to a child\’s self-confidence. 10. Let your child be the boss occasionally and take him to the supermarket. Put the payment in his hand and let him hand it to the cashier. He doesn\’t know how to settle accounts yet, but at least let him know that money can buy things. Gradually letting your child take control of his own pocket money and become the head of his family will increase his confidence in life. 11 let the childChildren choose their own clothes to buy clothes for their children, and let them choose their own colors and styles. Maybe you don\’t like the color he chose, but don\’t deny his vision. When a child\’s opinions are respected, it is the beginning of his self-confidence. 12. Get along and communicate with your child on an equal footing. Watch his favorite cartoons with your child, discuss your favorite characters and lines with him, and express interest in his views. Getting along and communicating as equals is the ladder that gives him confidence. 13. Let the children do what they can and let the children wash their own socks and handkerchiefs independently, even if they cannot wash them clean. Your child\’s confidence comes from your recognition of him in every little thing. 14. Encourage children to perform their specialties. When children perform reciting poems, telling stories and singing songs, give them a beat to show their response. To train him to dare to perform on stage calmly is to train his self-confidence. 15. Let the child play more with peers, allow the child to get close to strange children, and actively encourage him to interact freely with people of all ages. Cultivating his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence. 16. Help the child make a plan and remind him to implement it. For example, help the child make a practice plan and negotiate with him about the time when making the plan. When executing, remind him, \”Baby, we should practice piano now, right?\” Let him develop the habit of doing things as planned. Only when you are confident in doing things can you be confident in your life. 17. Don’t stop him from exploring things he is interested in. If your child plays with various waste items such as Coke bottles and shoe boxes, don’t stop him arbitrarily. Children like to explore things that interest them. If you stop their interest, you will dampen their confidence in exploring. 18. Help the child develop the positive aspects of his personality. Help the child develop the positive aspects of his personality and let him become a person with personality. If your child is impatient, train him to do things quickly; if he is chronic, train him to be organized. Forcing him to change his temperament will make you lose confidence in him and make him lose confidence. 19 Teaching him to recognize his own appearance since he was a child is like telling him that although he does not have big eyes, his small eyes are beautiful as long as they are bright. A lot of lack of confidence often stems from disapproval of one\’s own appearance. Full level 6 Longman children\’s English textbook tot talk electronic version whiteboard + teacher\’s book + student DVD + interactive software 20 Try to make children independent in life. Go to kindergarten on time, and try to let the alarm clock wake him up instead of his mother calling him over and over again. Only children who can take care of themselves can be confident in situations where they have no support.