How to cultivate children’s self-discipline

On the road of raising children, what kind of behavior of the child actually makes you entangled or even painful? We only have to look for one thing. This is the real child. His behavior stimulates me. What I need to do is to quickly eliminate my painful emotions. , and think about why he is like this? Because as a child grows up, everything he shows is real and full of variables. On the road of growth, when problems arise, how do you deal with them? It is when these problems arise that the opportunity for education arises. If mothers can learn parenting skills in advance, at least they will not panic on the parenting journey and have a good attitude to deal with problems. So learn how to deal with this series of seemingly unacceptable behavioral problems in your children. In the process of learning, you will find that children\’s problems are closely related to ourselves. Maybe you have the same problem, or your inappropriate parenting style determines the current situation of your child. Parents, especially mothers, are definitely the deciders of having and raising children in terms of biological attributes. So, as a mother, if you think your child is not good enough and you want a better child, you must first start learning how to educate and how to raise good children. This is not only your own happiness, but also the happiness of your children, and the happiness of your children\’s children. I even think this matter is more important than all others, because I brought the child into this world, and I have the responsibility and obligation to raise him well. Because he is my inheritance, and he will have children in the future. If I raise him well, he will raise his children well. This should be the highest pursuit in life. This is consistent with Darwin\’s theory of evolution. Some people may say, shouldn’t parents pursue their own value and happy life? There is nothing wrong with pursuing your own sense of worth and happiness, but when your child is older, if you fail to educate him well, at which stage in your life will you miss happiness? If your child is unhappy, can you be happy? Can your children\’s children be happy? Recently, I have received many calls from relatives and friends saying that their children make them anxious, painful, overwhelmed and powerless in life and study. Every time I answer the phone, I basically talk for a long time. I am actually quite anxious here because my two children are at home during the summer vacation and I have a lot of work myself, so I basically don’t have enough time. So I decided to set up a reading group and read a book intensively some time ago. \”Awakening Children\’s Self-Discipline\” is suitable for all parents to read carefully. It is also a textbook used by the author for \”Parent Effectiveness Training\” training. The author is Thomas Gordon from the United States. Parents who are interested in participating in this book can send me a private message. A German mother’s experience in teaching integrity and self-discipline: Teach good children who are strong + independent + tolerant + thrifty. You can buy books to take home, but you may not necessarily read them. When you call me, I may tell you some methods, but in fact everyone has methods, but the characteristics of each child are different, and it is difficult to apply the methods in the long term. The road to raising children most tests parents’ true practice and ability to adjust to situations. If parents only stop at blaming and complaining, children will only learn these useless things. If parentsIf you keep waiting and watching without practicing, your child will still be the child that gives you a headache.