How to cultivate interest in reading? Dad is actually more capable

\”Dad, tell me a story today!\” \”Mom, tell it. Mom tells it very well!\” \”But I hope you tell me this book.\” Then he held the book \”Python vs. Alligator\” , guess who will win? 》come to me. Every night, after the little fish finishes washing, he will choose a book in front of the small bookshelf, and then wait for us to tell him a bedtime story. This happens every day. If I don\’t talk about it, I won\’t be able to sleep. The child sometimes asks me to tell him something. After carefully summarizing, I found that these books are really suitable for me to talk about. Such as popular science books and some adventure stories. And for a while, I found that he was not looking for me. Because I am reading a set of particularly heart-warming animal novels. Perhaps the gentle sound of mother reading is more suitable for telling the stories of these cute little animals. We often talk about cultivating children’s interest in reading. It seems to be the mother\’s responsibility. A mother told me that every time she bought books for her children, her father was unhappy and said it was a waste of money. What\’s the point of reading so many books for her children? She also complained that reading too much would tire her baby out, and that the right way to do it was to let her play more. He was asked to tell his son a story, and within three minutes he dropped the book and went on strike. He said he didn’t know how to explain it, and then asked his mother to explain it. Over time, the children stopped asking their father to tell stories. It turns out to be a habit. However, father must not be absent in cultivating children\’s interest in reading. And in many ways, dad is more capable. Dads play an important role in cultivating children\’s interest in reading. Especially if there are boys in the family. If dad can participate, it can get twice the result with half the effort. For example, those adventure stories and popular science picture books that boys generally like. With the explanations from dads, it will be more vivid. Because it’s natural, dads all have a “big boy” living inside of them. Many things also appeared in our childhood. So I can have the same dream. So when you see \”Knight Carl\”, you will think of your childhood dream of being a knight, thinking of being a righteous knight. When you talk about it, you will be talking with gusto and your saliva will fly everywhere. The children will also listen with gusto and urge you to tell more stories about your childhood. The parent-child relationship unknowingly becomes closer. I know because of your experience. And you are experiencing my growth right now. The best stage of the relationship between father and son is probably when the children are young. Go shirtless, hug each other, take a bath together, read and tell stories together, and dream together. Father and son need some alone time together. To store each other\’s secrets. You said, without a decent secret, how can we still call him father and son? Therefore, Xiao Xiaoyu always likes to carefully store his little secrets in my ears. I often hope that this time can be longer and longer. Many fathers say that they are very busy and have no time to read with their children. In fact, you can go to work, go on business trips, or watch the World Cup and stay up late to watch football matches. Of course, you can also swipe your phone and play games. Just don’t forget to carve out a little time for your children. A father who can insist on reading more than three storybooks to his children every week must be a very cute father. I once met a young manager. He is in charge of hundreds of people in the company and often works overtime. But every timeOvertime is only until 9 o\’clock. We all felt very strange, thinking that he was going out every day to have a date. Once, he couldn\’t leave because of the project. So it\’s past 9 o\’clock. I saw him greeting his son in the video. That child should be only three or four years old. \”Baby, daddy will be back late today. Happy Feet, let mommy read with you! Good night! Daddy loves you, come and give you a kiss!\” The child smiled happily and greeted his daddy while holding the book. He told us, \”Every night around 9 o\’clock is the time to spend with my son. He needs me to tell a story every day to sleep soundly.\” I respected him even more at that time. Because he is a good father. And this identity seems to be much more endearing than his role as a successful manager. A father can give his children the courage to enter the unknown world. It is also a source of endless curiosity in children. There are many things that can only be done by fathers and no one can replace them. Little boys, in particular, often regard their fathers as their heroes. Many people say that boys have more problems than girls when they go to school. In fact, boys’ problems are men’s problems. Because the little boy in front of us will also grow into a man in the future. He will also become a father and raise a different boy. A survey shows that fathers who have no reading habit rarely heard their fathers reading with them when they were young. If you want the next generation to have a reading habit, you have to start changing it yourself. Start by reading with your children. When reading with your children, you also have the opportunity to get back the reading time you lost in your childhood. So every time I see those wonderful picture books by Xiao Xiaoyu. I read them all greedily. I had read many books several times before I read them with him. That feels really good. Dear dads. Let go of your heavy shell and open your heart. Spend more time with your child, let him sleep in your arms, act coquettishly, read books together, and listen to stories. You can also chat about each other’s little things. On the road of parent-child reading, in addition to gaining a child with reading habits. You can also gain an intimate relationship. Dads, get in the car and let’s go!