How to develop a \”funny little warm boy\”, a smart mother can do it in one trick!

On Teacher\’s Day in 2011, God gave me, a people\’s teacher, a special gift. Our prince was born, named Lai Mike. Like almost all mothers, I hope that my prince will be both good-looking and intelligent, and preferably also funny and humorous. But the facts remind me that he has small eyes, no double eyelids, and even a slightly upturned nose. Fortunately, his skin Fair-skinned, overall temperament is passable. Laimike has an alias, and people around him like to call him \”Little Funny\”. He can always be the center of attention in any situation, and has amazing words. He also has a warm and masculine temperament, and can be full of love and care for the people around him. In fact, regarding the development of this \”funny character\”, in addition to family influence, it is also cultivated deliberately, because I always believe that only a happy family can raise happy children, and the funny spirit may protect him on his growth path. 1. Be a friend of your children and let happiness spread like a joke. Laimike grew up in an environment without pampering from his grandparents, and his father and I almost never considered him a child. We were as close as friends. He always asked us: \”Where is your wife?\” \”Where is your husband?\” \”The relaxed family atmosphere has made him willing to express himself since he was a child, and his language skills are slightly higher than those of children of the same age. One time it rained heavily and I was sweeping the floor. He suddenly said gloatingly, \”If it rains, your husband won\’t come back!\” I turned around and asked, \”What did you say?\” His demeanor suddenly changed: \”It\’s nothing. I said it’s raining and dad can’t come back.” Another time, he pestered me and insisted that I give him a baby sister. I gave many reasons for not having a baby: You are too young, only 4 years old, mom. I’m also very busy at work, so it’s not bad to give you all my love. But he disagreed: \”If you have a big belly and can\’t walk, let your husband carry you; if you give birth to a younger brother, give it to the principal and teacher, because he has no son: you only need to help me give birth to a younger sister.\” Now, let’s play together, and I can help my sister pack up the toys; you don’t have to give birth too much, otherwise I will be very tired when packing up the toys.” Laimike grew up in such a relaxed language environment, and he was willing to say , likes to talk, so it is not surprising that his words are surprising. In addition, we will show weakness in front of him appropriately. Smart parents will never be condescending in family education. This will only gradually widen the distance between you. Every week we take him to outdoor activities, including running or other physical exercises with him. His dad will deliberately let him win, pretending to be the loser, and praise him with infinite admiration: \”Lai Miko, you are so awesome. Oh, wait for me next time, okay?\” Another example is that every time I go home from the supermarket, I will always show weakness: \”Wow, this thing is so heavy, little man, your little hands are empty. Are you willing to watch mommy work hard?\” He would be super warm and take over the items he could hold, turn on the lights in the corridor all the way, and happily hum songs, as funny as a child, full of joy, and over time, every time I hold it in my hand If he has something, he will take the initiative to share it and say very domineeringly: \”Mom, let me help you, I won\’t let you work so hard!\” He has both a funny personality and a warm and masculine temperament. How can I be dissatisfied? joy? Hi, I’m Lai Mike~ 2. Take the kids with youTravel makes your horizons as broad as the sky. From the time Laimiko could walk independently, I started taking him on trips. At the age of 4, he left his footprints in scenic spots such as Tiananmen Square, Bird\’s Nest, and Tsinghua University in Beijing; Lingshan Mountain in Wuxi, Jiangsu; Confucius Temple, Sun Yat-sen Mausoleum in Nanjing; Fenghuang Ancient City in Hunan, and even took him on a boat for three hours to Yushan Island to enjoy it Stunning scenery. In the process of traveling, everything Laimi gained was very precious. In addition to getting to know different means of transportation and appreciating the scenery and food in various places, he also got to know many signs when he went out, such as ticket gates, taxi stands, toilets, and tea rooms. Wait, what\’s more important is that the children develop an optimistic and willing character during the trip. Many people think that traveling is a waste of time and energy when children are so young, but I always believe that traveling is an extremely beautiful thing. It brings children not only physical and mental pleasure, but also broadens their horizons and understanding of life. Every year that goes by, I will continue to see the world with him, letting my little heart be as broad as the sky during the travel. 3. Be your child’s companion and let companionship become a warm confession. Laimike lives a very regular life at home, painting on Mondays, reading on Thursdays, playing on weekends, and keeping up with some of his hobbies. The key is, his dad and I are his most loyal companions in everything. Due to my kindergarten teacher’s occupational disease, our home has an art area, a construction area, and a library area for him. In these areas, we will accompany him to draw, read with him, and construct with him. His father will also be like a child, squatting. Wrestling with him on the ground, racing with him, and giving him the most intimate companionship. In these small worlds, Laimike can feel endless fun. This kind of happiness is especially important in childhood. He followed me like a shadow and gradually became a happy person. When the sentence \”Company is the longest confession of love\” can be used as an appeal, I am very happy that we have never been absent on his growth path. We are willing to give him a life as happy as honey and happiness in our bones. Feeling is the best catalyst for the development of his happy personality and optimistic character. The ability to be a parent is not something you are born with, but the words and deeds of parents will affect your children\’s lives. From the day I had Lai Miko, I never expected him to be outstanding and stand out from the crowd, but I have always hoped that Lai Miko would be sunny. , healthy, warm and sunny, the character of \”Little Doubi\” is like a warm breeze, which is not only warm for others, but also a mentor and helpful friend who accompanies him on his life path. I hope that the life of our \”Little Doubi\” will be filled with flowers of happiness and a bright future. The future is bright!