How to educate children about swearing? Parents with high emotional intelligence do this…

When the baby is one or two years old, he often says to his mother, \”I love you\”, \”Are you tired?\” and \”Eat, mommy\”… This soft and waxy little angel really cannot be kissed enough. But starting from a certain period of time, the angel baby unexpectedly transformed into a \”little devil\”, \”beat you to death\”, \”fuck you\”, \”silly X\”… Oh my god, is this still my little cutie? How did it become like this? The child suddenly learned to swear and swear, which shocked many parents. How should parents deal with this behavior of their babies? What should be done to eliminate children\’s \”swear words\” in their budding state? First of all, we need to know why the baby swears! Why do babies say dirty words? When children are 3 or 4 years old, they are extremely sensitive to curse words or swear words such as \”stinky daddy\” and \”beat you to death\”. They can often master them quickly and become self-taught. This stage is the period of rapid development and improvement of the baby\’s language. He loves to imitate and learns what he hears. He does not understand the insults and abuses contained in swear words. He is also very curious. When his wishes are not satisfied, he will use They use swear words to vent their negative emotions because they have discovered that language itself can hurt others; moreover, babies swearing can also attract parents\’ attention to themselves. The combined effect of these reasons makes babies learn to swear. How to correct swear words? 1. Cold treatment: When your baby swears, don’t scold him directly. First, observe whether your baby is deliberately using such “swear words” to attract attention! Generally, a baby with this kind of mentality will look at you while swearing, maybe with a little excitement in his eyes. If this is the case, parents can ignore their children\’s words, pretend not to hear them, don\’t even look at them, and continue doing whatever they are supposed to do. He \”provoked\” like this several times, but no one else responded. Naturally, he found it boring, and he gradually gave up. 2. Lead by example. Parents should lead by example and create a good language environment for their children. As mentioned earlier in the article, babies like to imitate. If a family member calls it \”dirty\” and the child hears it, it will be surprising if he can learn it well! If the elderly in your family have the habit of swearing, you should make an agreement with them. Although your living habits cannot be changed, you should at least make sure not to swear in front of your children. 3. Listen to the recording and get a true feeling. When the baby swears, parents can tell him directly that swearing and swearing are impolite behaviors, and these impolite words will make people feel bad. If the child still doesn\’t understand, you can try the following method: record your baby\’s curse words on your mobile phone, and then play it directly to the baby to let him feel for himself whether it is sad to speak like this. 4. To guide children to express their emotions correctly, establish standardized language for children, and tell them that they cannot say such things, such as \”beat you to death\”, which can be replaced by \”I am very angry\” or \”I don\’t like you doing this\”, etc. When the child gradually replaces swear words with normative language, the mother should promptly encourage and praise the child\’s correct behavior. 5. Divert attention. Of course, you can also use more fun ways to divert children’s attention. For example, the child said: You are a big stinker! You can reply: Oh, I am most afraid of others calling me a big pumpkin. Often children will \”take the bait\” and start chasing you and shouting \”Big Pumpkin\”. And the originalThe \”dirty words\” in Ben\’s mouth are easily forgotten by the children. 6. Give appropriate small punishments. If the child refuses to change despite repeated admonishment, parents must set rules with the child and establish a corresponding punishment mechanism. For example, if you say bad words, cancel rewards and related activity plans, or make you sit for punishment… Once it is formulated, it must be implemented, even if you cry and make trouble again. Otherwise, he will not take your words seriously. Children who say swear words are often considered to be uneducated, but this is not just an education issue, but also the child\’s own language experience. As long as parents provide good guidance, I believe the baby will slowly correct itself.