How to educate children who are automatic, spontaneous and self-motivated

I often think: Only those who take the initiative in life will eventually achieve something! So, how can we make a child be self-motivated and become a proactive person? After thinking about it, although there are many educational concepts, methods and methods, the most fundamental ones are still the following three golden rules: The law of self-esteem – I can become a very good person! In a teacher\’s class. The teacher took out a famous comic book and told the children the stories in the book. He also asked the children to tell a story of their own and draw it. Although the children\’s stories were not complete stories and the paintings were not the same, the teacher still carefully wrote down the stories and put them together with the paintings. He told everyone that this is the first book you have written. Now that you are young, when you grow up, you will be able to write good books and become great people. You see, whether at home or in the classroom, in order for children to truly grow into adults, they should be allowed to \”stand\” from an early age instead of \”lying down\” to look up at those big figures. This reciprocal approach can help children develop a confident and sound personality. Respect the child, treat him as an independent person, respect his privacy, respect his choices, respect his friends, communicate with him often, show more respect and provide reasonable guidance, so that the child can grow better. In this way, he can know himself, respect himself, and move towards the good and glory in his heart. 15 high-scoring baby education books are recommended, which can be called life textbooks. The Law of Self-Experience – Let children experience the taste of life by themselves. Psychologists have discovered that feeling is the most basic psychological phenomenon of human beings. Only through feeling can we obtain information from the outside world. Adapt to the environment to survive. The development of the brain, human growth and maturity are based on the development of psychological factors such as the external environment, intelligence and emotions. We should let children actively experience the colorful external environment and obtain more knowledge and information from the environment. . Many parents are afraid that their children will suffer hardship and be in danger, so they put their children in a better environment. In this way, the children will not only have a narrow vision and a narrow mind, but also lack a lot of social practice and will have difficulty adapting to the changing social environment in the future. When children make mistakes, we often play the role of firefighters, but you don’t know that parents can never experience life for their children. We need to be their guides. We can involve children in household work, let them clean the house, make the bed, or more things that they can do or are willing to do, and we will have an audience to watch them grow. Educating children must not be simple and crude, but should pay attention to scientific methods. Both teachers and parents must grasp the correct direction when educating children, so as to achieve the expected results. The Law of Hope – Give children a moderate expectation Everyone knows the Rosenthal effect, which refers to the effect of a positive expectation bringing about positive results. Rosenthal gave positive and negative evaluations to two groups of randomly combined students. Later, the results were positive or negative. Positive expectations are actually a kind of support. This support will turn into a fire in the child\’s heart and guide him to discover that in the minds of others, family, friends, and teachers areAt the heart of this supportive force, the expectations and support of family, friends and teachers are also more formative. Especially when people encounter setbacks, both children and us adults are looking forward to this kind of power. Of course, this expectation should be moderate, not too high, and should not exceed the child\’s ability to bear. Moderate expectations are hope and a motivation to climb upward.