How to get kindergarten teachers to take care of their own children. Doing these things right is more effective than giving gifts!

🌟September is another school season. School starts on September 2nd, and Teachers’ Day will soon fall on September 10th. Many parents are thinking about how to give gifts again. 🌟I used to be in the education industry and now I am a mother, so I always want to say a few words in this regard. ‍There are many mothers and parents around me who are afraid of society. They really don’t know what to give and how to give it, and they are also afraid of embarrassment if they give it to the wrong thing. 🌟Especially when I have just entered a small class, I am not familiar with the teacher and have little experience, but I hope the teacher can take more care of my children in the kindergarten. So should we give gifts to teachers? Many experienced parents say that teachers cannot accept gifts, which violates the principles. Giving gifts can easily cause trouble to teachers, so don’t give them. There are also many people who say that everyone is sending them, and if they don’t send them, their children will be excluded. ‍‍‍‍🌟As a mother of a small class baby, at least at this stage, I do not advocate giving gifts. I feel that as a parent, I am reliable and more useful than any gift. Here are some personal opinions, hoping to give you some inspiration. There are so many children in kindergarten, and every family expects teachers to take care of their children, which is indeed difficult. We can\’t control much about how our children behave, and more can only guide them, but what we should do as parents is what we can control! 1. Actively cooperate with teachers in their work. Teachers are most afraid of those parents who are aggressive. No matter how many gifts these parents give, teachers don’t like them. Because after these parents give the gifts themselves, if their children have any problems, they will immediately yell at the teacher and point fingers. It is a burden for teachers to accept gifts. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍ 2. Communicate more with teachers. As a former teacher, I can tell you responsibly that if parents often communicate with teachers, the teacher will have to know enough about your child to answer, which will also indirectly allow the teacher to observe and understand the child better. . As long as parents communicate with teachers frequently, their children will definitely receive more attention from teachers in school. Therefore, if you want teachers to pay more attention to your children, you can be more careful and communicate more with teachers. ✅ Pay attention to these communication skills 1. Communication time: Use the morning and evening time when entering and leaving the kindergarten, or make an appointment with the teacher to set up a special time to have an in-depth understanding of the child\’s situation at school. Try not to harass teachers after get off work. 2. Frequency of communication: Don’t contact every now and then. Look for trivial matters, such as: Did the child drink water today? If every parent came to ask, the teacher would not be able to answer all the questions with ten mouths. And pay attention to maintaining a fixed frequency, such as once every two weeks or once a month. If the child has more problems at a certain stage, the frequency of communication can be more frequent. 3. Communication content: Clarify the key points of communication, make a draft in advance, outline it, and make it logical and organized. For example: Are there any friends in kindergarten who are more fun to play with? What progress and shortcomings have the children made socially? In which areas do you think the children perform well, and in which areas do you need more guidance from parents? What kind of cooperation do we need as parents? 4. Specific questions‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍❌ Teacher, how is my child doing? Usually the answer is \”good\” or \”ok\”✅ Make the question more specific👉 Children are in classDo you raise your hand a lot? 👉 How does he get along with his deskmates? 👉 Can you eat by yourself and serve your own plate? Only when you ask specifically will the teacher know how to answer you. 🌟Excellent children are not made by giving gifts. If you want teachers to pay more attention to your children, you must rely on the children themselves and communication with parents. If one of the two is not good, then giving gifts will not have any effect~