How to protect children when they go out

Long Yingtai wrote in \”Watching Off\”: \”The so-called scene between parents and children just means that your fate with him is that you will continue to watch his back fade away in this life. You are standing on this section of the path. , watching him gradually disappear at the bend of the path, and his back silently tells you: no need to chase.\” When children grow up, they will gradually leave home, either for their lofty dreams or for a few taels of silver. As a parent, although I see their figures drifting away, I am always worried about their lives outside. When the son travels thousands of miles, the mother is worried about nothing more than this. Therefore, as parents, you should teach your children some worldly behavior so that they can better protect themselves. Whether it’s a son or a daughter, please tell him to keep an extra “five eyes” when going out! 01 I won’t go to a dinner party where I just drink wine. There is a common saying among the people: \”Sacrifice your life to accompany a gentleman.\” The general meaning is that if I have a good relationship with you, then I will sacrifice everything for you, including my own health and life. Of course, most of the people these words refer to are close friends. Most young people are impulsive and want to save face. Many people will choose to sacrifice their lives to accompany a gentleman. In order to pursue certain interests and be unkind, they began to overeat and even taste high-concentration spirits without thinking about their own health at all. Most young people who socialize think that they are still young and can handle it and can survive. But in fact, this will lay the seeds of disease for the future. In just a few years, this root cause will turn into a serious disease. Whether it\’s eating or drinking, it\’s good to stop in moderation. If unfortunately you encounter a customer who \”makes things difficult for you\” and asks you to drink too much, it\’s better to refuse in time. Health and life only come once. 02 Do not touch food from unknown sources. In \”Water Margin\”, Yang Zhi led a group of people to escort the birthday card to the capital, and met several traders. After drinking, everyone felt top-heavy and disobedient. It turns out that the wine barrel has a secret, half good wine and half medicinal wine. It is possible for some plots in novels and TV to appear in life, making it difficult for people to guard against them. Whether accepting food from acquaintances or strangers, it must be formal, open and transparent. Especially when going to a strange place for the first time, try not to eat or drink anything out of your sight. As the saying goes: \”Beware of others is essential.\” When you go out, you can\’t be too careful. 03 Relatives and friends who have not been in contact for a long time asked for a gift. Bu Sui read a joke: A girl received a call from a classmate who she had a good time with in elementary school, saying that she was getting married. The purpose is very clear, it is to follow the ceremony. The girl had not been in contact with the other party for a long time. When she received the call, she didn\’t know why. She couldn\’t even remember the other party\’s name. Thinking that he would definitely not notify the other party when he got married in the future, in order to avoid losing the gift money, he wrote a blessing and put it in the red envelope. In addition, there is a piece of paper attached, which says: When I get married in the future, I don’t have to return gifts. Someone who hasn\’t contacted you for a long time suddenly tells you that he is getting married. In most cases, he regards marriage as a reasonable means to make money. If you are not a particularly close friend, you can just send a blessing. You don\’t have to worry about giving gifts. The relationship between people is about sincerity and not interests. I will only think of you when I get married.People seldom do it to share their joy and hope to get your blessing, so don\’t worry about it. 04 Don’t leave a dark place. Bacon said: “False friendship is like your shadow; when you are in the sun, it will follow you closely, but when you cross the darkness, it will immediately leave you. \”Remote corners, dark paths, closed dark spaces, and creepy places in the park are all places where dirt and evil practices hide. No matter who pulls you away, don\’t go there. Some girls reach a place they are afraid of, but there is only one acquaintance around them, so they have to go on bravely. This is wrong and you should turn back immediately or seek help. The same goes for dealing with things. All shady things are probably not a good thing and it\’s best not to do them. 05 Inexplicable information, don’t believe it. In the Internet age, we can know what is happening in the world at any time, and we can also see a lot of strange things. However, fraud information is also flooding in. Some scam news is very attractive and arouses people\’s curiosity. Once you believe it, a trap of \”one link after another\” will appear immediately. The most disgusting thing is that some messages are sent by acquaintances, and they also tell you to \”open it and take a look, there will be good things\”. We should clearly realize that if there is a good thing, others have already snatched it up, so how can it be your turn? In terms of interests, people are selfish. Except for relatives who will send you benefits, other people are unlikely. There is a saying I like very much: \”If you want to spread sunshine into the hearts of others, you must first have sunshine in your own heart.\” Be more discerning, and don\’t look at everyone as bad people, but \”wait for opportunities.\” At any time, be a person with a sense of justice and improve your self-cultivation. At the same time, we must also be vigilant. Click [Like] and forward this article so that everyone can better protect themselves!