How to raise a promising son

99% of parents don\’t know that children raised in these four ways will be successful in the future. Parents with children must read it carefully, save it and read it again and again. Keeping these four points in mind, your children will become the best in the future. First, never spoil your children. You must learn to control your children. An older child who is pampered is a pet, and an older child is a person. From the time the child learns to walk, let the child learn to throw away garbage, hand him slippers, and pick up something. In this way, the children will become more responsible and capable the more they use it. Never spoil your children and don\’t let them do anything. Or you may be afraid that if your child doesn’t do well, you will have to do it again. Parents must not interfere in anything that children can do on their own. Let children participate more in everything at home, no matter how big or small, because the more parents do, the slower the children will grow; the more children do, the faster they will grow up when they learn to think independently in the future. Second, don’t speak ill of your lover in front of your children. In life, couples should try not to quarrel in front of their children. Even if you quarrel or argue with your lover, you must always remember to say good things about each other in front of your children and shape your other side in front of your children. Half, rather than tearing each other down. Never speak ill of your husband today and your wife tomorrow in front of your children. Only if you better shape your partner in front of your children will your children respect both parents. Children must regard their father as a role model. Children without role models will have no goals in the future. Children must regard their mother as their spiritual haven. [Children\’s Bedtime Stories] Collector\’s Edition of 300 Classic Philosophical Stories People without spiritual sustenance will be very introverted and bullied when they grow up. You should give your children more time to communicate and get along with each other. When a child makes a mistake, don\’t have a father educating him while the mother stops him and protects him. This is to indulge your children. If you don\’t strictly control small mistakes, big mistakes will come later. Third, mothers should not only focus on children in a family. Wives should remember that husband is more important than children. Don\’t make your child feel like he is the center of the universe. A wise woman must put the marital relationship first and the parent-child relationship second. Many women completely do the opposite after having children. They revolve around their children every day, completely ignoring the existence of their husbands and completely neglecting the intimate relationship with their husbands. This has led to the family being in danger and marital problems becoming increasingly serious. Therefore, as a wife, you must remember that only you and your husband can have your children. The so-called good wife and good mother means first a good wife and then a good mother. Fourth, we must keep in mind that children must be raised in poverty, regardless of gender, and do not oversatisfy children materially. Some parents suffered too much when they were young, and now that they are making some money, they are afraid that their children will suffer as much as they did. Therefore, children must have whatever they want and be satisfied with whatever they want. Sometimes, they are even prepared in advance before the children even open their mouths. If children get material things too easily, they will form a habit of \”reaching for clothes and opening their mouths for food\”. When I grow up, I gradually lose my interest and ability to make money, and I don\’t understand what it means to cherish and what it means to be hard-won. thereforeIt is said that \”a spoiled child is like a child killed\”. As parents, you must teach your children to live a better life in the future, relying on your own hands and your true ability to work hard. What your parents give you is called your background, but what you build yourself is called your country.