How to raise an excellent child starts with accompanying the child

You never know how much your child will love you. There is a story that has been circulated in the circle of friends, and many people may have heard it. There was a mother who suddenly wanted to tease her daughter while eating, so she deliberately took a piece of sausage from her daughter\’s bowl. I thought my daughter would cry or be unhappy, but I didn\’t expect the ending to be: my daughter gave all the sausages in her bowl to her mother. \”Mom, because you are the person I love most, I can give you all my favorite things.\” You never know how much your child loves you. There was also a father who was typing program code in his study one night. The son suddenly came in and kept pestering his father to chat with him. Dad was busy working, so he made a few casual remarks. Unexpectedly, I went out to the kitchen to get a cup of coffee, and when I came back, I found that the code I had worked hard on for a whole week had been destroyed by my son. The father was very angry and gave his son a severe lesson. Later, I found out that my son was not causing trouble, but was trying to help him. \”As long as I\’m done, dad can play with me and go to bed early!\” You never know how much your child loves you. Your children may not be able to use chopsticks or use a computer, but they will naturally love you. Although sometimes, you will tease him, ignore him, or even scold him. But in his heart, you are the most beautiful scenery in the world. Excellent children are the parents and children who \”accompany\” each other. They have always been in a state of mutual perfection. Children\’s love can heal the pain of parents\’ lives and give them the softest and most tender strength. Similarly, parents\’ love and companionship are also very important nutrients for children\’s growth. Yale University has conducted research on the golden period of children\’s growth. collection! Download the full set of 108 compulsory courses on how to accompany your child\’s growth. It is discovered that every stage of a child\’s growth has unique characteristics. For example: 3 years old is the year to cultivate creativity. Children can be encouraged to draw, make up stories, play with colored clay, Doing handicrafts; 5 years old is the year when the parent-child relationship is the most intimate and harmonious, and children especially like their parents’ company and praise; 6 years old is the year when children begin to have inner conflicts and become rebellious, and parents need to give their children more patience… Parents If you can seize every important period and give your children enough companionship, your children will definitely be outstanding in the future. My niece Beibei is a girl who has been nourished by her parents with \”companionate love\” since she was a child. For a period of time, my sister, brother-in-law, and husband happened to be very busy and had no time to accompany Beibei. Beibei was bored alone at night, so she developed a bad habit of staring at TV every day. She didn\’t take her homework seriously and didn\’t like to talk to others. Later, my sister realized the seriousness of the situation. No matter how busy she was, she would discuss with her brother-in-law that one person must accompany the child every day. In the evening, they would stay in the study together, with the elder sister or brother-in-law reading books and materials related to their work, and Beibei reading his own children\’s books. On weekends, the elder sister and her husband would take Beibei to mountain climbing and skating to exercise; they would go to bookstores, do handicrafts, and learn painting together. While they learned several skills, they also enjoyed wonderful parent-child time. Every time my sister attends a parent-teacher meeting, other parents will praise Beibei for her good grades and how well she treats others.Polite, smart and cute, he asks his sister for parenting advice. My sister said that she didn’t have any special parenting experience, but she just spent more time to help Beibei grow up. Therefore, it is absolutely correct to say that outstanding children are all \”accompanied\”. When you pour companionship, patience, and love into your children, your children will naturally reward you with a self as bright as a star. There is not enough time to provide effective companionship. I once discussed the issue of accompanying children with my friends. Many friends would complain that they were too busy with work and really could not spare time to accompany their children. But, can being busy really be a reason to miss the growth of a child? I think, maybe not. Some time ago, hundreds of notes about the interaction between a boy and his father touched countless people. The boy is 11 years old and in sixth grade. My father is a high school teacher and has a heavy workload every day. When he goes out, his son has not yet gotten up. When he comes home, his son is already asleep, and he has little time to accompany him. The son never sees his father, and he has a lot to say to his father. As a teacher, his father also knows the importance of \”accompanying\” for a child\’s growth. As a result, the father and son started \”notes to express love\”. Every day, the boy writes down what he wants to say, whether he is happy or unhappy, what is new and interesting, and even the math problems he cannot do, on small notes and sticks them on the door or leaves them on the coffee table. In the evening, my father returned home, read his son\’s message carefully, and then responded seriously. A few thin pieces of paper connected the relationship between father and son. Although the father cannot always accompany the boy, he can participate in the happiness, troubles, doubts, and confusion in his learning and life. The boy also gradually matures and grows up healthily through such exchanges. For most parents, they need to balance family and work. Being busy is a normal part of life. However, parents with foresight will understand how to make good use of every detail and fragmented time in life, pay more attention to every bit of their children\’s lives, and communicate in a warmer and more effective way. Parents, like things, have an \”expiry date\”. Children are the most precious gift God gives to parents. Once you don\’t cherish it and miss the expiration date, God will take back this sweet gift. Therefore, while the role of \”parents\” is still valid, we must give them the most attentive companionship.