How to read parent-child reading? You must grasp these 3 points!

Many parents want to know how to carry out parent-child reading. Today I will share with you three key points that need to be paid special attention to when reading with children. Only when these are in place can you truly read the book, instead of just skimming and reading a bunch of books but leaving nothing behind. First, parent-child reading is actually educating children through actions. Today\’s parents are very busy. They have limited time to spend with their children every day, and they have their own jobs to be busy with. So, we have to seize these precious time together, what should we do? What we have to do is to cultivate good habits in our children. Taking the time to develop habits now will save you a lot of worry in the future. If you go with your child now, you will have a headache later. So, since you are doing parent-child reading, you can use this time to do some special reading activities. For example, you can each read a passage, especially one with a lot of dialogue, and you can role-play. Moreover, remember to act more exaggeratedly and read more emotionally. This will not only increase the interest of reading, but also help children better understand and remember the content of the story. Many parents have reported that their children are unwilling to speak when reading. So let’s first reflect on ourselves. Are we not reading with full concentration? If you read like a monk reciting sutras, your children will naturally follow suit. You know, reading comprehension ability cannot be developed overnight, it requires our careful guidance. Have you ever thought that when we read, we can feel the author\’s emotion from a certain sentence and understand the meaning behind it. This ability is something that children need to learn. If children just read mechanically without feeling and understanding, they will not truly learn the essence of reading. So, when you read with your children, you can hold a pen in your hand, read a good paragraph or a touching place, and make a mark, or write your feelings next to it. In this way, when your children watch you do this, they will naturally learn how to read and understand the text in depth. Treat parent-child reading as a way to pass on reading habits, and your mind will be clearer on how to help your children. Second, we must learn to choose the types of books for parent-child reading. If the books at home are all of the same type, the child\’s reading experience will be very monotonous. It is really difficult for children to take the initiative to read various types of books on their own. After all, everyone has their own preferences, and some children only like to read science fiction books. So I suggest adopting the 443 rule. When choosing books, you can choose four books that the child is interested in, plus four books recommended by the school or that meet the requirements of the new curriculum standards; finally, select three books to make up for the child\’s weak points in reading. This ratio can actually be adjusted according to the actual situation. You can also change it to 541, but I personally do not recommend increasing the ratio of the last part. For example, suppose your child is in third grade this year and particularly likes science fiction books. When choosing books for him, I will first choose four science fiction books, pick the ones he likes to read, and first capture his interest in reading. This is very important, and he will not lose his enthusiasm for reading. Then, choose four more books, such as \”Those recommended by \”Happy Reading\” or the books recommended by the Ministry of Education. Finally, add three documentary books, because science fiction and documentary are the opposite, which can supplement some of the children\’s shortcomings in reading. Third, if you read When we have questions, we must look them up, especially when reading ancient poems. This step is particularly important because if you don’t understand the background story of the ancient poem, it will be difficult to understand what the poet is expressing. So, take advantage of it. When your children are interested in ancient poetry, you can take them to learn more about the stories of poets such as Li Bai, Du Fu, and Bai Juyi. By the way, CCTV has a documentary called \”Traveling with Tang Poetry\”. This film is really interesting. Great, I recommend everyone to read it. Once you understand the background stories of these poets, and then read their poems, you will have a deeper understanding. Moreover, you will find that you can understand a person\’s story. Understand his poetry. I really feel that in this era of information explosion, being able to effectively search and filter information is definitely an ability that can make you stand out.