How to shape healthy psychological knowledge in primary and secondary schools

While paying attention to children\’s physical health, parents are also asked to pay more attention to their mental health. If you encounter a child with a glassy heart, parents must spend more time and patience to pay attention to their mental health. Because the glass heart will break at a touch, it will limit the child\’s future development. Having said this, many parents will ask: What is a glass heart? Literally understood, children\’s hearts are relatively fragile. At the slightest disturbance, their hearts will collapse. They may cry endlessly, or they may be unable to recover. In the final analysis, a glass heart means that a child has psychological problems, is particularly fragile, and cannot withstand any setbacks and blows. If you encounter a child with a glassy heart, your parents will definitely have a headache because they can\’t even scold or hit them. At present, it is difficult to find suitable education methods for these children. A fragile heart, coupled with insufficient ability to withstand stress and tolerance, will cause children to fall far behind. [Illustrated Collector\’s Edition] Download the electronic version of Spencer\’s complete book on Happy Education. Where does the heart of glass come from? Research has found that most children’s glassy hearts come from their parents’ wrong education methods. In life, if parents have a negative mentality, often complain about life, and provide negative energy to their children. Over time, these negative words and attitudes will make children worry about gains and losses and turn them into fragile glass hearts. In addition, parents\’ excessive pampering and high-intensity demands are also causes of children\’s glassy heart. Children who have been pampered and grown up have little idea of ​​what setbacks are, and naturally have no ability to bear them; and having too high demands will put a lot of pressure on the children. Smart parents skillfully use these methods to bring their children out of the glass heart ~ 1. Help the children understand their emotions and evacuate bad emotions. The glass heart indicates that the child has emotional problems. At this time, parents should teach them to recognize different emotions and help their children get rid of the negative emotions in their hearts. Slowly change from a negative mentality to a positive one and find more happiness. Only by being with happiness can children forget their unhappiness and the predicament at hand. At the same time, we should create less pressure on our children and let them live in a relatively happy and relaxed atmosphere. 2. Lead children to face difficulties and break down difficulties. No one is born with the ability to overcome difficulties, so understand children’s fragility and give them more warmth and affirmation. At this time, you should stand silently behind your children, fight side by side with them, and encourage your children to face difficulties with love. It doesn\’t matter if you make a mistake, you\’ll have to start over again. The best way is to teach children to break down difficulties. Break down difficult problems into smaller ones that are easier to achieve. In this way, children can easily break through and it is easy to stimulate their self-confidence. 3. Teach children to be independent and be themselves. Since we know that pampering is not good for children, we should teach them to be independent from now on. Leave the choice and decision-making power to your children in all matters in life. It is also a good thing to hit a wall occasionally. The so-called success starts from small things that failed, and gives children more opportunities. Only by truly being oneself can children have a greater sense of accomplishment. Those parents who try to make decisions for their children or even plan their lives in the name of love, please put away your self-righteous love.Bar. Written at the end: When parents see their children’s glassy behavior, they should calm down first and never create anxiety or panic. At this stage, staying with your children is the attitude that smart parents should have.