How to solve children\’s addiction to games during summer vacation?

Xiaodong (pseudonym), 9 years old, loves to play mobile games. That day, she received a private message from a stranger, saying that she could receive game skins for a certain mobile game. After Xiaodong had a warm conversation with the other person, they both added each other as QQ friends. The other party said that she would give her 5 customized game skins, but she needed her guardian’s QQ code to scan them. Xiaodong believed it to be true, and followed the other party\’s request, secretly logged into his QQ while his father was sleeping, and scanned the QR code provided by the other party. At this time, the other party reminded Xiaodong that if Xiaodong\’s operation was incorrect, the code system would be abnormal, and he would have to pay money and go to jail. Xiaodong was frightened by the prompts on the Internet. He followed the other party\’s instructions and sent several red envelopes with passwords, and transferred money to the other party through \”Online Banking\”, \”Alipay\” and other channels. Not long ago, when Xiaodong\’s father went to the bank to withdraw money, he discovered that the balance in the card was missing. After checking the records, he learned that Xiaodong had encountered a telecommunications fraud, so he rushed to the police station to call the police for help. After investigation, Xiaodong\’s father lost more than 48,000 yuan. Yuan. There are countless cases of children being cheated because of games. Especially with the summer vacation coming, children spend more time with electronic products. Many children hold their mobile phones and tablets to play games without letting go. Parents are also worried about this and stare at electronic products for a long time. Playing games on a screen not only carries the risk of being cheated, but can also cause considerable harm to children’s vision and physical health. Children are addicted to games all day long during the holidays. What should parents do? What are some good ways to get children to put down their mobile phones and stay away from games? 01 Develop good habits and good habits are the basis for children\’s future self-discipline. Arrange a plan every day and supervise your children to implement it carefully to help them develop good study and living habits. It is best to establish rules and strictly control the time when children use electronic products. Children should live a regular life every day and do things in an orderly and planned way. Once they get used to it, they will slowly learn self-control, know what they should do at what time, and will not be obsessed with games all the time. Encyclopedia of Intellectual Games, Magical Logical Thinking Game Book Baidu Netdisk Ultra-clear Full Color PDF02 Give children adequate care and companionship. Children who are lonely and depressed, and who lack a sense of belonging and achievement in real life, are more likely to be addicted to games. Therefore, the younger the child, the more important it is for parents to give their child enough time to accompany and interact with them. Only then will the child establish a solid sense of security and belonging, and be filled with inner peace. During the holidays, parents can take time to take their children for walks in the park, reading in the library, outdoor sports, visiting museums, traveling to various places, etc. Communicate more with your child, pay attention to his emotions and feelings, and enhance the emotional connection between parents and children. If the parent-child relationship is good and the child\’s psychological needs of being loved, paid attention to and affirmed are met, they will not be so dependent on the online world. 03 It is important to create a colorful real life for children to ensure that children have a fulfilling and rich life. Many children feel that they need to relax during the holidays, so they will naturally be interested in games. In addition to studying, during the summer, parents can take their children to learn several sports, such as playing ball, learning roller skating, riding a bicycle, and swimming; they can go for a walk in the park and get close to nature; they can listen to music, read, graffiti, and interact with cats and dogs. Have fun… When there are enough interesting things to do in real life, childrenBeing able to gain a sense of accomplishment in different things will prevent you from focusing too much on the game. 04 Lead by example and be a role model. Many parents keep their mobile phones in their hands, play games and watch TV dramas, but blame their children for playing games. This kind of education is unconvincing. Parents\’ words and deeds and family atmosphere directly affect children\’s behavior and habits. Parents who love reading, seeking knowledge, and being self-disciplined will most likely raise children with the same self-discipline; and parents who are keen on playing mobile phones and watching TV all day long will naturally make their children more likely to be interested in games and even become addicted. Therefore, parents should raise their own requirements, set a good example for their children, and have a positive influence. It is true that the problem of teenagers\’ addiction to online games requires joint efforts from society\’s supervision, game companies to strengthen the design of anti-addiction mechanisms, and parents\’ guidance. But parents must take responsibility and provide correct guidance and education to their children.