How to successfully educate a child

Two days ago, I saw something like this on the Internet: an 8-year-old primary school student is insisting on doing one thing: getting up at 6:30 every day, washing, and then reading in the morning. When he knew this, he had persisted for more than 400 days. Of course, it was not always smooth sailing for him to insist on doing this. He couldn\’t persist at first. He gradually got used to it with his mother\’s daily reminders and supervision, and then slowly developed a habit. At the beginning, the mother was also worried that he would be distracted, so she took the lead in reading to set an example for the child. Under the influence of the mother, the child slowly fell in love with reading, and then came up with this early reading plan. Every child is born to pursue pleasure and comfort. Especially in the learning process, children are used to being afraid of difficulties and always want to give up, but parents must not let it go. Self-disciplined children are not born, but are nurtured by their parents. If parents don’t push behind, children will not learn on their own. There was a popular video on the Internet, which captured the state of children learning by themselves: At the beginning, the child could still write a few words seriously, but as time went by, the child became restless. After being separated, I would push the door for a while, tap the wall for a while, get distracted, be in a daze, go to the toilet, and do all kinds of little things, but not do my homework. In the nearly ten-minute video, the child was distracted for eight minutes. Netizens saw it and said: This is the state of their children when they are doing homework. Yes, what this child exposed is actually a common problem among countless children – poor self-discipline and low ability to learn independently. Once there is a lack of parental supervision and discipline, it is easy to lose control of oneself. If at this time, parents, as the \”first person responsible\” for their children, choose to let go, the children will only become more and more unscrupulous and indulge themselves. If parents don\’t push their children behind, their children will never learn to learn on their own initiative. Children\’s self-discipline is controlled by their parents. How self-discipline can a child in elementary school be? Get up early and read in the morning. When you get home after school, you don’t have to be watched by your parents. You can do your homework by yourself and pack away the stationery for the next day. Behind these good habits are parents who take pains to discipline, restrain and supervise. The beginning of developing these habits requires parents to put in hard work and countless energy. For example: Yi Yang Qianxi\’s mother enrolled him in more than a dozen interest classes when he was 2 years old, and took him to class regardless of rain or shine. That\’s why he is now a young man who is good at singing and dancing, has superb acting skills, and is extremely self-disciplined. For example: Dong Qing’s father asked her to copy idioms and memorize ancient poems every day since she was a child, and asked her to get up and run before dawn; so to this day, she still insists on reading for an hour every day, and there are no electronic products in the bedroom, only books. Every child who takes the initiative to learn and is self-disciplined is actually \”managed\” by his parents. The starting point for children\’s self-discipline must be dependent on the \”management\” of their parents. The management of parents allows children to turn these behaviors into \”habits\” and allow children to turn it into a way of life. Behind a self-disciplined child, there must be a parent who is strict in discipline. Giving children too much freedom is the greatest irresponsibility for children. A child who is not self-disciplined will only run slower and slower on the track of life, and will eventually be left far behind. The sooner you develop the habit of self-disciplineThe better the education, the better. Teacher Yin Jianli said that parents should work hard with their children to cultivate reading habits. Moreover, we must not only work together, but also cultivate these habits in children from an early age. There is a father in Hunan who built a home library in order to make his son fall in love with reading. When my son was 2 years old, his book collection reached 20,000 volumes. Now, ten years later, my son has become the most loyal reader. The father in this news specially built a library at home to create a good reading atmosphere for his children in order to read with him. Only in this way can we cultivate children who love reading from an early age. A good habit is easy to form when children are young, but difficult to develop when they grow up. On the contrary, if a child has many bad habits when he was a child, it will be difficult to get rid of them when he grows up. Therefore, the sooner children develop the habit of self-discipline, the better. A German mother’s experience in teaching honesty and self-discipline: Teach good children who are strong + independent + tolerant + thrifty. If parents do not discipline their children in time when they are young and let laziness become the normal state of their children, then when they grow up, they will completely Lose competitiveness and fall into mediocrity. It is instinct for a child not to be self-disciplined, and it is the ability of parents to make him self-disciplined. Helping children develop good habits and letting self-discipline be rooted in their hearts is the true and far-reaching love that parents give their children.