How to tutor children who are going to first grade

Hi, hello everyone, I have been busy these days accompanying my relatives and taking my baby to see the eye doctor. During this process, I suddenly realized the importance of protecting children’s vision. Let’s get back to the subject. Today, as someone who has been there, let’s talk about some regrets in the transition from childhood to primary school. When it comes to the connection between kindergarten and primary school, many parents are concerned about what elementary school knowledge points their children need to learn and what preparations their children need to make for elementary school. In fact, after entering elementary school, not only the children\’s daily routine and life content will change greatly, but the entire family life will also have a great impact. Therefore, in addition to children’s transition from early childhood to primary school, parents also need to make relevant “connection from early childhood to primary school” to prepare their children physically and psychologically for their “study path”. Half a year after Dabao entered first grade, he looked back on the process of accompanying his children to transition to primary school, and he left some regrets. Mainly the following points. 1. Ignoring the original intention of tutoring homework As we all know, the learning tasks of first grade require parents to participate, so tutoring homework becomes the first \”stumbling block\” for first grade parents. From who will tutor the child\’s homework to what is the original intention of tutoring the homework, these are all key points that need to be discussed and considered by the couple. First-grade children have just bid farewell to kindergarten and stepped into the \”gate\” of schooling. They are innocent, free and relaxed and begin to accept group lessons, abide by regulations, write homework, take tests and other learning activities. This requires parents to be patient and careful to accompany them through the \”adaptation period\” \”. Homework tutoring is one of the main channels for parents to contact their children’s learning and life. Therefore, the original intention of tutoring homework is to accompany children to develop the habit of previewing before class, consolidating homework (review) after class, achieving good study habits such as sitting in a correct posture and holding pens in a standard manner, and developing the mindset that only hard work will yield rewards. [Essential test questions from kindergarten to primary school] Integrated teaching materials and synchronous training for preschool and primary school transition, 12 volumes of ultra-clear, full-color PDF. However, many parents will be busy dealing with the homework assigned by the teacher, and encounter children who are dilly-dallying, failing to teach after several times, and drinking water in the middle. If you have problems such as pooping or urinating and avoiding homework, you will get angry and deny your child in all aspects. In fact, when tutoring homework, it is best to lead the children to review the learning content of the day first, and then start to do the homework assigned by the teacher. If you encounter a child with a bad attitude, keep in mind that it is possible that the child does not understand the knowledge points, or the child does not get enough sleep or feels that he has not played enough! Blame less and guide your children more to think of ways to solve problems. 2. Avoid the anxiety of paying too much attention to your children’s grades. Last night, I read the sentiments of a father who has made great achievements in his work. The general idea is that he has been angry several times after going to school for less than a year. He wanted to apologize to his children and promised to accompany them slowly. Progress slowly and learn happily. In the era when chicken babies are popular, Chinese parents start educating their children from birth, with the help of marketing from training institutions. Before kindergarten, you can only see the comparison of superficial performance. After entering elementary school, you will face the real \”score\” assessment. The score on a test paper may affect a parent\’s mood that day. Many children in first grade study early. Learning early is definitely better than playing in kindergarten. After all, it takes more time. Therefore, at this time, parents need to do a good job in psychological construction and calmly deal with every performance of their children. When it comes to children\’s grades, don\’t just focus on the results. The key is to guide your children to treat their grades with a \”lifelong learning\” mentality. We need to let children understand that every test is a testThe learning results of the stage are considered by oneself, and the focus of each test is to correct the mistakes and avoid making the same mistakes next time. Each of these small tests is just a small challenge for children in their twenty-year academic career and life journey. Don’t let these small challenges crush their immature minds. During the long school career, we should sow more positive logical thinking in our children, pay attention to the \”seeds\” of problem solving, label them less, and encourage them more. 3. Sign up for too many interest classes such as piano, painting, coin calligraphy, basketball, rope skipping, Cambridge English, thinking mathematics, Chinese language… After entering first grade, parents not only want their children to have good overall qualities, but also want their children to have excellent academic performance. For this reason, I usually sign up for more than 4 interest classes, and each one is considered very important. After Dabao was in first grade, I also fell into this \”difficulty\” in choosing to enroll in classes, so I enrolled in four or five interest classes. After school from Monday to Friday, children have a full schedule. After returning home from interest classes, eating, and taking a shower, I start to rush around to catch up on homework. In fact, although first-grade children do not have much homework in Chinese, English, and mathematics, they learn new knowledge every day, which requires giving them enough time to review and consolidate their homework. In addition, children who study for a day at school need to leave some independent time for them to relax physically and mentally. The balance between work and rest is the basis for ensuring continuous and efficient learning. After your children entered primary school, what regrets did you have in the past year while accompanying your children in their studies? Welcome to leave a message and share.