\”I almost killed my 2-year-old daughter!\”

Perhaps, in this world, not everyone is qualified to be a mother. They do whatever they want and are also perverse. In the direction of their lives, they put their children in a distant corner. From the moment a woman becomes a mother, she is not qualified to abandon her identity and responsibilities. Giving birth and raising children are obligatory before adulthood. That thing of locking my daughter in the car actually happened to me. Of course, if you haven\’t experienced it, you won\’t be able to fully understand the feeling of not being able to open the car door, and having your daughter locked inside and calling \”Mom\” to the point where she almost collapses and wants to smash the car. Yes, I did not mean it. On Sunday afternoon, I put my daughter in the car safety seat in the back and placed the keys next to her. When I turned sideways, the car door was closed and could not be opened. My bag and my car keys were all locked in the car. At the same time, there is also my daughter locked in. My daughter looked at me through the car window. She didn\’t know that she had been locked in the car because of her mother\’s negligence. I asked people passing by me for help, because I didn’t have a mobile phone or money, so I didn’t know what else to do. I\’ve reached the point where I almost ask for help whenever I see someone. My daughter was sitting in the car, desperately calling her mother. I looked at her outside the car door, holding back a smile. That day, I felt like I was standing on a tightrope, holding the hand of a kind person and doing the final rescue. Half an hour later, 119 helped me smash my car window and took my daughter out smoothly. When my daughter saw me, she held my head. Someone comforted me: The Audi manufacturer is also responsible for the whole thing. How can it have an automatic locking function? This cannot be blamed on the car manufacturer Audi, because it also has a locking function for safety performance. Of course, it will take more natural considerations and exclude accidents. Just like a child accidentally ran into a washing machine and couldn\’t open it from the inside and couldn\’t get out. You can\’t blame the manufacturer of the washing machine for making this setting, but you should think more about why you didn\’t take good care of your child. They cannot ignore the safety of 99 people because of the possibility of just one person. I said, all the fault lies with me alone. When my daughter was locked in the car, a scene kept popping up in my mind. It was a scene that broke in the news a few years ago. Due to the mother\’s negligence, the baby was left in the car and died of heat stroke due to the high temperature. . That mother and I looked different, she because of carelessness, and I because of carelessness. But the essence is the same. One thing we have all forgotten is that we have enough ability in front of our children so that she will not be too frightened and can live a safe and healthy life. Once upon a time, I often saw this dialogue: Have you become a mother? But, will you be a mother? Like most people born in the 1980s, I am also in the running stage of my career. During the day, I read, write, communicate and deal with business, and at night, when I work overtime, it’s 12 o’clock. It’s not about whether it’s hard work or not. You need to survive better, and first you have to have food to eat. And here, when I put out a lot of my brainpower, I am exchanging your youth and sacrificing the time I could have spent with my children. To be fair, she can call mom and dad, count from \”1\” to \”20\”, and start communicating with me.I didn\’t teach her anything. I have been absent from her most authentic growth. Yes, my daughter, she also looks very enviable: she can go to an early childhood education class worth 20,000 yuan, she can travel all over the world with her mother, and she has enough food and clothing. But she was so pitiful. Her father was in the army, and she was left with an unreliable mother. Sometimes she wanted to talk to me, but I was perfunctory while writing. She sat next to me and played with toys, often making me laugh, and she kept talking. \”good mom\”. However, ask yourself, how do I qualify to be the \”good mother\” she calls me? Yes, before I got married, I always confidently told others that I could be a good mother. I also vowed: I will spend at least one hour with my child every day; I will do nothing every weekend and just watch over her; when I am with her, I will never play with my mobile phone, answer the phone, or do anything else. . But now, I find that I can\’t do it at all, and I am ashamed to say these words. Nowadays, many young people do not have the ability to become parents, or in other words, they are not ready to be parents at all. including me. A young father\’s child drowned because he was playing with his mobile phone. A mother\’s child climbed out of the window and fell to his death due to negligence. And such as accidentally leaving a child in the car on a hot day, resulting in death from suffocation. And this time, it was me. Fortunately, there were no accidents. That day, when I held her cold hand, I knew that she was actually scared too. I said, are you afraid? She said: Afraid. However, she was still locked in. She looked at me and still became quiet when she heard my voice, and occasionally smiled at me. Mother, an identity that has never had any graduation certificate or qualification certificate, is a kind of sacredness that cannot be evaded when it comes to a woman. As a parent, every creature around you is fate. If you choose \”birth\”, it means \”nurture\”. Perhaps, what we cannot escape in this life is the role of parents – anxious and fearful, but sweet and happy. We also have the obligation to face all the wind, frost, rain and dew with her, to protect her in the dusty journey, and hope that all her growth will never come from harm. May all children in the world have a reliable mother, and may all parents grow up.