I burst into tears after reading this! I would rather die than live with parents like this

I was made to cry by a movie recently. Not moved to tears, but sad and angry. Only a well-made movie can arouse such a deep resonance, so I recommend this movie to everyone. The film was nominated for the Best Foreign Language Film at the 90th Academy Awards, the Palme d\’Or at the 70th Cannes Film Festival, and the Best Foreign Language Film at the 75th Golden Globe Awards. The film is called \”Loveless\”, and its Chinese title is \”无爱说\”. A little boy named Alyosha did not go home directly after school, but ran to a small forest alone. He seemed to be planning something. Alyosha\’s parents were getting divorced, and his parents decided to sell the house. When the guests came to see the children\’s room, Alyosha was doing his homework. His mother ordered him to greet the guests and told them that he was afraid of strangers. The house should be easy to sell because there are already a lot of people looking at it. However, there is one thing that is difficult to deal with – Alyosha. Neither parent wanted him. His mother said that at this age, he needed his father more. My father said that as a mother, you have greater responsibilities. The two always quarreled until they broke up unhappy, ignoring Alyosha crying alone in the corner. The hasty affection between Alyosha\’s parents is the source of their mutual resentment. Alyosha\’s mother unexpectedly became pregnant with Alyosha and married Alyosha\’s father. After the two lived together, they found that they were completely unsuitable for each other. The mother has always complained that Alyosha should not have been born, thinking that she had been deceived by Alyosha\’s father. Faced with unhappy marriages, both parents have new lovers. The mother\’s lover is a single and successful man in his forties, and his daughter lives abroad. Alyosha\’s mother went to the salon every day to get her hair done and beautified, to dress herself up beautifully to please her boyfriend. The lover of Alyosha\’s father was pregnant, and the two often dated together, as if they were already a couple. The only trouble for these parents is Alyosha. No one wants him. Just as the two were arguing about this, Alyosha disappeared. After blaming each other some more, his parents had no choice but to call the police. Police believe this is just a 12-year-old boy who ran away from home and will return home in a few days. The police did not want to deal with the matter and suggested that Alyosha\’s mother ask a rescue organization for help. Alyosha\’s parents invited someone from the rescue organization, and he began to ask for details about Alyosha. Alyosha\’s parents didn\’t seem to know their son very well, and they were unsure of their answers… Apart from his parents, Alyosha had only one grandmother with whom he might have had contact. But grandma didn\’t like Alyosha at all, so the rescue organization staff still suggested that Alyosha\’s parents go to his grandmother\’s house to visit. Alyosha\’s parents drove to his grandmother\’s house. However, Grandma Alyosha had a deep conflict with her daughter and son-in-law. When she learned that they came to find Alyosha, she humiliated her daughter and son-in-law again. She also mentioned that when her daughter was pregnant, she asked her to abort the child, but her daughter did not listen to her. Hearing her mother\’s constant complaints, Alyosha\’s parents felt that there was no way their child could be with her, so they had no choice but to leave. Alyosha disappeared for longer and longer, and the police had to open a case. Soon, heavy snow fell. Where can a 12-year-old child hide in such bad weather? They began searching in abandoned buildings, in hospitals, in the woodsSearching, still finding nothing. After searching for many days, Alyosha\’s parents went to the last place – the morgue. Lying before them was an unrecognizable corpse. Alyosha\’s parents insisted that the body was not their child. However, after Alyosha\’s mother left angrily, Alyosha\’s father held his head and cried… In any case, Alyosha was no longer on the road to divorce. hindered. The house has been sold and the new owners have begun renovations. It seems that Alyosha\’s parents no longer pursued the whereabouts of their child. Instead, after dealing with the trouble of Alyosha, they married their respective lovers. The tone of the entire movie is gray and cold, like a cold winter evening, with no warmth anywhere. In the end, the movie did not clearly tell the audience Alyosha’s true ending. Is he still alive? Is that body his? If so, what happened to him before his death? Why is the body so unrecognizable? … The parents experienced a brief period of pain when facing the corpse. But no one continued to explore whether Alyosha committed suicide, an accident, or was murdered. The house was taken care of, the children were taken care of, and they couldn\’t wait to enter their \”ideal life.\” After leaving their resentful partners, did they really start a happy life? Alyosha\’s father was still tired of children, and he still didn\’t like the children he had with the woman he \”loved\”. The kids played in front of him and he just stared at the TV. If you think the child is noisy, throw the child into the crib and let him cry. Alyosha\’s mother also married the lover who made her obsessed, but she was still bored holding her mobile phone all day long, having nothing to say to her lover… Every adult in this play is indifferent and resentful towards others, they They all need love, but they are both stingy and unwilling to give others a little love. If a person does not receive enough love from their parents, and they do not realize the \”love\” hole in their hearts, they will have no love to give to their children when they raise them. Alyosha\’s mother herself may have been a person who lacked love since she was a child. The movie does not tell where her father is, only that her mother lives alone all year round and almost no one visits her. The son-in-law sarcastically asked her: Apart from watching TV, do you have any normal interactions with people? Although she mocked her daughter and son-in-law when she saw him, she also longed to be cared about, so she accused her daughter and son-in-law of not caring about her life or death. It\’s a pity that she never taught her daughter how to care for others. How can her daughter care about her when she grows up? A child who has been lacking love while growing up, how can she have the love in her heart to nourish others? She will just keep asking for it and accusing others of not caring about her. When Alyosha\’s mother accused her husband of not caring about her, she seemed to be a replica of her own mother. The movie does not depict Alyosha\’s father\’s family, only that he has no relatives. Even if there is, the relationship is indifferent. For such a serious matter as Alyosha\’s disappearance, no family members cared about it. Perhaps this couple grew up in a \”loveless\” family, and they have no ability to give love to their children at all. But they brought their children into this world hastily, allowing them to come to this gray, cold, loveless world and experience the life they once had. Maybe not every child is like Alyosha, living in a loveless world and would rather choose death. maybe some kids, can also grow up gradually. It\’s just that when they grow up, they become people like Alyosha\’s parents – no love and full of resentment in their hearts. Those who don\’t know how to love others think that their current pain is caused by others, and everything will be fine as long as the other person is replaced. But no matter how many partners we change, life will just keep reincarnating with the same mistakes. The root of the problem is not \”have you found the right person\”, but not knowing how to love others and love yourself. If they marry or have children with any lover, the problems of their previous relationship will reappear…