I have been accompanying my daughter to Zhejiang University and my son to key classes for 12 years. Let me tell you why primary school education now relies more and more on parents?

My colleague’s daughter is about to enter the first grade of primary school in September this year. She ran to my office full of confusion and asked eagerly: \”What is the most important thing for children after they enter primary school?\” I answered without hesitation and firmly: \” Your contribution is the most important. From now on, in the next four or five years, you\’d better leave your evening time to your children.\” After hearing this, the colleague looked surprised and said in confusion: \”Shouldn\’t it be mainly relying on teachers? \”In fact, this is exactly the question in the hearts of many parents. However, times are changing and primary education today is different from the past. When a teacher faces dozens of students in a class, his energy is limited after all. And after 12 years of accompanying me, I successfully sent my daughter to Zhejiang University and my son to key classes. The key lies in the active and in-depth participation of parents. Take the study of my children as an example. The five APPs provided by the state for free, namely Study Power, Smart Primary and Secondary Schools, CCTV, People’s Education Reading and People’s Daily, have played a great role. Especially CCTV, the cartoons and documentaries are very popular among children. Watching two episodes every week can not only broaden your horizons, but also increase your knowledge. In terms of subject learning, Chinese language focuses on a lot of reading and accumulation. My child’s talent in Chinese language is mediocre, so in grades 1-3, I paid close attention to the basics, treating second-category words as first-category words, and asking my children to recite two short classical essays every week. Moreover, morning reading does not have to be in the morning. If your child cannot get up in the morning, it is also good to read for 5-20 minutes before going to bed. What matters is not when to read, but how to read. Using the 337 morning reading method, let the children only read but not memorize, and check in according to the form, making it difficult to forget the knowledge. Through this kind of accumulation, when the children reach senior grades, they have never suffered a loss in basic Chinese language. English learning cannot rely solely on talent. It must be regarded as a language rather than a subject. We follow the rules of listening, speaking, reading and writing, starting with a lot of input, such as insisting on sharpening our ears and watching enlightenment animations, and then proceed to output. Plan the learning path for your children by referring to the 4000-level original English animation grading table. Watch for 20 minutes and listen for an hour every day, the effect is significant. It has been well verified by my children, and their vocabulary has improved significantly. In terms of mathematics, my child is at an average level, and I don’t expect him to be one of the best. After all, mathematics does depend on talent to a certain extent. But Puwa also has a goal, which is to defeat 90% of her peers. Therefore, we focus on laying a solid foundation and require children to memorize all concepts, formulas, and symbols. Then print out the oral arithmetic advanced operation formula table and oral arithmetic quick pass training, and let the children practice for 10 minutes every day to ensure the accuracy and speed of calculations. Starting from the second grade, use the winter and summer vacations to familiarize yourself with the basic content of the new semester in advance. After completing your homework, you will do calculations every day. If you have time, you can expand on the Mathematical Olympiad and conduct thinking training. Today, the children\’s math scores are firmly in the top three, which is quite effective. In addition to learning Chinese, math, and English, there are several other important points. For grades 1 – 3 of primary school, don’t hold your studies too tightly, take more timeChildren\’s participation in sports can not only strengthen their physical fitness, but also exercise their concentration. Moreover, children who are good at sports tend to be more confident. In addition, primary school students should pay attention to cultivating children\’s various habits, such as the habit of previewing in advance and reviewing after class, completing homework on time, going to bed early and getting up early, etc. These habits will become the key to children\’s success in learning by the senior years. If you are lucky enough to read this article, you must let our children read it. If our children do their homework, procrastinate, lie, talk back and lose their temper, play mobile phones, play games, or even leave your supervision during the summer vacation, half a day of summer vacation If the child cannot write a few words in the homework, the child has no motivation to learn and no internal drive. Then the following videos/documentaries are recommended by professors at Tsinghua University. Children must watch them during the summer vacation to let them understand the hardships of life and know that today\’s good life is hard-won.