I left Beijing and fled to Jiamusi, but I still couldn’t escape the crushing force of Haidian Niuwa.

Haidian is not Beijing’s Haidian, it is China’s Haidian. My old fans should know that in the past month, I have been traveling on business, either running on the ground or flying in the sky. This was taken just after getting off the plane. Look at the blue sky, look at the white clouds, and breathe the fresh air. I am envious! I really want to leave Beijing and settle here. 01 The customer sent an assistant to pick us up at the airport and saw that we were coming from Beijing. Along the way, he kept talking about how rich Beijing was and how rich Haidian was. In a daze, I thought I was still in Beijing? In the quiet and comfortable city of Dadongbei, Haidian, Huangzhuang and Uijuan have always been in my ears. It turns out that this guy felt that he was in a remote city and the educational resources were not as good as those in big cities, so he had been paying attention to some self-media information in Beijing, especially Haidian. He said that a self-media said that his child had finished junior high school mathematics in the lower grade of elementary school, and had already learned high school math in the senior grade, so he was only ranked in the top ten in the class. I was confused all of a sudden. Although I am a Chaoyang mother, I work in Haidian, and many of my classmates also live in Haidian. Therefore, I have come into contact with many parents in Haidian. Chicken blood is available, but it is not so normal. Everyone is living a relaxed and relaxed life, and there is no such thing as a ferocious look to get rid of chicken blood. Unexpectedly, when he came to Jiamusi on a business trip, he was still ruthlessly crushed by Haidian Niuwa. 02 These two sentences are taken from two articles. If the child consciously solves the problem, calls for dinner or goes out to play, but can\’t even cry, it shows great interest in mathematics. He is indeed talented. Parents, don’t worry about anything and just support him all the way. But according to the 80/20 rule, there are really very few children with mathematical talent. If a child has no talent and is forced to complete the elementary school curriculum in the first grade, graduate from elementary school to high school, or enroll in three math classes, is this not a grudge against the child? Moreover, the concepts of learning and finishing are different. Being able to memorize formulas is enough to complete the study. Being able to complete the college entrance examination questions to 130 points is also called completion. You can\’t lose at the starting line, but you can\’t blindly follow the trend, otherwise you may fall at the starting line. We need to determine the child\’s talent and ability early, which will help parents plan the next path. If you don\’t know your child clearly, you can easily be led astray and embark on a path of no return. 03Thomas is a junior high school student this year. As someone who has experienced this, I would like to say that anxiety is inevitable when children are growing up. I have followed more than a dozen self-media accounts, and I have indeed learned some experience, but not much. What’s more is the frustration of not knowing the truth back then and never being able to catch up. I realized that on a dark and windy night, I made a prompt decision and turned off the phone. Looking back now, I feel that the anxiety at that time was unnecessary. This sentence is false and empty, and it exposes the pattern of outsiders in the scientific research circle. As a master\’s degree, I used to have the lowest academic qualifications in the laboratory. I studied and lived in Haidian for several years, and I am still involved in Haidian circles. \”Yangtze River Scholars\” and \”SCI\” ​​are sparse and common chat contents. I was picked up by a certain mother. As a talking point for selling anxiety, it is made high-end. At that time, it was because of her exaggerated statements that I decided to cancel her article. And who is the learning route of these chicken-blooded children suitable for? Probably a robot. Their educational philosophies and methods, on the one hand, it is impossible to verify whether it is true and valid; on the other hand, there is no guarantee that an individual\’s experience can be copied to other children. Therefore, it is still doubtful whether the methods and learning secrets described by the chicken blood accounts are scientific. Why do I keep emphasizing: learn English in advance, and accumulate a lot of Chinese text reading in primary school? 1️⃣ Mathematics, unless you are a genius, is something that elementary school students cannot learn in junior high school. Even if you can barely learn it, how long will it take? How much harm will it cause to the child? Learning in a down-to-earth manner, step by step, is much better than learning in advance. In the sixth grade, cognition and intelligence have developed, and you need to learn the first grade of junior high school. This is another topic when you are promoted to junior high school. I have suggested several times that my teammates should teach me how to learn mathematics, but unfortunately his goal is to teach his own children well, and they can’t even teach them. 2️⃣ Chinese is just a matter of time and effort and requires a lot of extracurricular knowledge. If the breadth and depth are not enough, and there is no advance deployment for middle schools, we will often be in a hurry when we reach junior middle schools. 3️⃣ English, this is the only course that is possible for children to reach the college entrance examination level of 130 when they graduate from elementary school. If you learn English in primary school, you can save a lot of time in middle school and high school that would otherwise be spent on English to study mathematics, physics and chemistry. Moreover, primary school students generally learn English much better than middle school and high school students. Education is inherently a kind of exploration, and every family is looking for the model that suits them. As a Chaoyang mother, neither a chicken nor a Buddhist, I hope to share my insights and experiences with everyone. Most parents are ordinary parents, and their children are also ordinary children. Find your own position, and then work hard to live your own life and educate your children well. Don\’t study things that make you anxious about others.