I will work hard from now on to find a wife for my son

Over the years, I have been hearing people say that the population ratio is unbalanced, with more men and fewer women. I don’t know if there will be any improvement in the next few years. I gave birth to a son, so I was more worried about whether he would be able to marry a wife in the future. I was very anxious when I gave birth to him in the hospital. I don’t know if it was a coincidence. In the same ward, there were six or seven families who walked on the front foot and came on the back foot. All these six or seven families gave birth to sons. I felt very nervous, thinking that if my son were to find a wife in the future, the competition would be really fierce. As soon as I heard that a little girl had just been born in the delivery room next door, I wanted to rush in immediately to order the baby and kiss her, but I had to restrain myself in every possible way. How many years can parents stay with their children? It is said that boys become psychologically estranged from their parents by the age of six, and are no longer close to them throughout their lives. If you get married in your twenties or thirties, if nothing else happens, your partner will accompany you until you grow old. Therefore, his wife is the most important person in his life. Although I have to mentally prepare for my later life when my son is six years old, he is my flesh and blood after all. In order for my son to find his favorite wife in the future and live a happy second half of his life, I am a mother. We must start from now and assist him well. First, the material conditions are ready. When our son was born, we had not yet bought a house. It was because I was too arrogant. I didn\’t have anything at the beginning, so I got a piece of evidence and got married to my husband. Now that I have a child, my mind suddenly changes – if my son cannot afford to buy a house in the future, the daughter-in-law can marry the son first and wait for the old couple to inherit the property. If the old couple lives together all their lives, they will not even have a house. Girls You probably won’t even look at your son, right? What? How can a son find a woman as big-hearted as his mother who has no demands for anything? Bah, you can\’t imagine that! A kind-hearted, innocent and lovely woman like me cannot be wronged, and she must have a house to hold love! With a slap on the thigh, I bought my own house first, and then continued to work hard for my son\’s house. Even if you work hard for half your life and can\’t afford a second set, at least you have one in your hand, right? If the three common problems like house and car are solved, won\’t the daughter-in-law stop worrying? How naive, so far from it! There are so many men who own houses and cars. Why should a good girl choose you? It’s time to talk about the spiritual aspect. On the spiritual level, it\’s all about being funny, warming the heart and stomach, being gentle and considerate, and knowing how to manage relationships. If you can do these, you can defeat a lot of people through PK. It\’s never wrong for a man to be funny and humorous, of course, a higher level of humor. I\’m not worried about this at all, he doesn\’t lack it, it\’s in his genes. When I was two or three years old, I would make my own jokes: \”Mom, a cotton swab turned into a stick. Do you know where the hair on its head went?\” \”Where did it go?\” \”The dog ate it.\” Although the jokes are a bit cold and the humor is lacking, it still gives people hope, right? It won’t be too difficult to cultivate them the day after tomorrow. He lost the toy monster\’s tail and asked him where it went. He replied: \”It was washed away when he peed.\” It doesn\’t seem too funny, but this brain circuit is good. No matter how hard I work on cultivating it, his emotional intelligence should be sufficient when he grows up. The skill of Warming the Heart and Warming the Stomach is not bad either. Heartwarming nowIt\’s a bit warm now, and the sweet words are so sweet that they can kill people. \”Mom, you look so cute when you\’re angry. Come on, let me take a picture of you.\” As long as I\’m wearing a skirt, people will always notice me immediately. \”Mom, you are so beautiful today.\” The teacher teased him and asked him, who is more beautiful, teacher or mother? He looked solemn and said: \”In my heart, my mother is the most beautiful, and no one can compare with her.\” Just imagine, if he flirts with girls like this in the future, he will be of a higher rank, right? I\’m still working on warming my stomach. I asked him to accompany me to go shopping for groceries that day, but he firmly refused, saying, \”Girls only go shopping for groceries.\” I had an old blood clot in my throat, and I immediately felt sorry for my future daughter-in-law. I severely criticized him, and I also criticized Baoduo\’s father. Isn’t that right? In the past two years, Baoduo\’s father has been saying every day that he is busy and tired. He can only play with him for a while when he comes home. He is not very enthusiastic about doing housework, which makes his son think that it is natural for women to do housework. I remember back then, when asked who was cooking today, my son would command: \”Dad, go!\” Why did \”straight male cancer\” suddenly happen now? Isn’t it because the parents’ words and deeds are not enough? Fortunately, little men are easier to transform than old men. Nowadays, it is no longer a problem for little men to go to the vegetable market, pick vegetables, and carry things with me. When he can get a stove, he must learn to cook for himself. I don’t want him to call me in the middle of the night when he is in his twenties and ask me how to make scrambled eggs with tomatoes. I\’m so sleepy, I don\’t care what you do! And the most important thing is to know how to manage emotions. Many men think that if I hand over my salary card, my wife only needs to be responsible for her beauty. Why do you still say that I haven’t done enough? Of course not enough. Home is a place of love, and relationships need to be managed. If it\’s just for money, I can be a nanny. Why do I need to be someone else\’s wife and have to have children and all the worries? I was carrying large and small bags of things, and my son was walking next to me with empty hands. I had to ask him to help me carry some. However, he asked me: \”Why don\’t you do your own thing?\” I was not angry at all, because his question was sincere. After all, my daily teaching to him was to \”do your own thing.\” I said, yes, I really should do my own things, but you see, my hands are full of things now and I am very tired. If you can help me, I will be very touched and I will know that my son is very considerate. You usually carry the schoolbag by yourself. Occasionally, when you say you are tired, your mother will help you. You also feel that it is good to have someone to help you when you are tired, right? The boy happily carried his things and walked to the front in a majestic manner. I have been someone\’s wife for several years, and I know it myself. Sometimes I get angry, not because I am tired at all, but because the other person doesn\’t see that I am tired. My husband has no discernment, and I am also helpless. I have used all kinds of tricks, including indirect attacks and direct attacks. Too much love for each other has been wasted in the tug-of-war. My own son, I don’t want him to have such a lack of vision. Otherwise, my daughter-in-law will be tired in the future and my son will be tortured very hard. After all, it is impossible for two people who are closely related to each other in a marriage to be in deep sorrow and the other to be alone. Raising children and supporting a wifeActually very similar. Some people think that children cannot be spoiled because they will become spoiled once they are spoiled, and women cannot be spoiled either. Once they are spoiled, they will become spoiled. I don\’t agree with it emotionally. As far as my child is concerned, I do tolerate him emotionally. When he needs love, even if I was angry one second, he said \” \”Mom, give me a hug.\” I would still turn off the fire and reach out. Therefore, he never doubted the fact that \”I love him\”. If you don’t doubt, you won’t seek verification. If you don’t seek verification, you won’t waste time and emotion doing stupid things. For example, making a fool of yourself to see if you will compromise. For example, doing something wrong to see how you react. The same goes for your wife. If she firmly believes that you love her, why should she go out of her way to attract your attention and test your feelings? My son has been influenced by me in such a subtle way. If he meets love in the future, he will definitely love him so much that the other person will believe him, right? Okay, that\’s all I can do at the moment, \”Master leads me in, practice is personal.\” I sincerely hope that he and his wife will love each other warmly and sweetly and live happily for the rest of their lives.