If a family commits these two taboos, its children will be destined to have no future.

I once heard a story: A parent took his children out to eat and met a beggar on the road. Ordinary parents may say: Remember to study hard, otherwise you will be like them in the future, without a job and making a living by begging. But this parent said sincerely: Study hard and let these people have jobs in the future, so they don’t have to live in such a miserable state. What kind of family has what kind of children, what kind of education, what kind of upbringing. Tutoring and family tradition determine a child\’s life. If a family commits these two taboos, it should be careful. Those with a thin family will have no good children and grandchildren. If you are harsh to your elders and unfilial to your parents, then your descendants will definitely have no future. As the old saying goes: If you treat your parents sixteen taels, your children and grandchildren will pay you back a pound. How you treat your parents is how your children will treat you in the future. There was a man in the community who treated his parents very badly. He beat and scolded them frequently, and the neighbors couldn\’t stand it. Now his son is married and does not go back even once a year. His parents went to see him but were turned away. The parents asked someone to mediate, but their son said that they did more than I did back then, so what did I do? The parents were speechless. Parents are role models for their children, and children should follow their example. If parents have no love for their elders, how can they expect to raise grateful children in the future? This life of a person is a cycle. Everyone starts as a child, and everyone has the time to become a parent. Our parents’ today is also our tomorrow. How you treat your parents is how your children will treat you in the future! From what we have seen and heard, a child does not know how to be grateful and is not filial to his parents since he was a child. In the future, who can he be grateful to? If things go on like this, who will be willing to support him? For a child who does not have friends to help him or noble people to help him, the road can only become narrower and narrower. It is easy for him to take detours for his own selfish desires, and in the end he can only harm others and himself. Those who are poor teachers will never have good disciples. Those who are mean to teachers will definitely have no future for their descendants. In the past, teachers had a very high status. In the private school, any student who made trouble was slapped by the teacher. The next day, parents should take gifts to apologize to the teacher and thank him for disciplining their children. Therefore, students learn with an open mind and rarely disrespect teachers. Nowadays, many families have only one child, and the child is the heart and soul of the parents. The situation suddenly changed. I heard that a child at school was naughty and crowded with others when going down the stairs. The teacher was afraid that a student would be crowded, so he took him aside and gave him a lesson. As a result, the child\’s mother quit the job the next day and insisted on asking the teacher to apologize, saying that the teacher punished the child corporally. Otherwise, report it to the Education Bureau. In the end, the school and the teacher compromised, but since then, the teacher has never taken care of the child again. Jade cannot become a tool if it is not cut, and a tree cannot become useful if it is not pruned. Teachers are the most important guides besides parents. Without the encouragement of teachers, it is difficult for children to become talents. Since ancient times, no famous person has ever disrespected his teacher. Zeng Guofan\’s teacher has passed away many years ago, but Zeng Guofan still visits his house every year with gifts. Yue Fei was young and poor, so Zhou Tong accepted him as his disciple, taught him martial arts and taught him how to be a good man. Yue Fei never forgot this throughout his life and treated him like his father. To respect the teacher is to be in aweKnowledge and respect for education mean respect for the future. How can the children of families who do not understand respect for teachers and education be successful in the future? Peaches and plums, the next from Seikei. Parents are their children\’s first teachers, and their words and deeds are their children\’s most valuable asset. Excellent children are all nurtured by their parents from an early age. \”What kind of person you are is what kind of person your child is.\” To educate others, educate yourself first. Only by becoming better yourself and improving your structure and cultivation can the children you cultivate become better.