If parents don\’t take care of the \”naughty child incident\”, it will be too late by the time the violent maniac comes to take care of it

Anyone with children must have noticed a piece of news released by Tencent News yesterday: A boy kicked a man on the seat three times on a bus. The man suddenly stood up and threw the boy to the ground with a throw over his shoulder. , and raised his foot to stamp on his head three times. My first reaction when I saw the news was that the naughty kid was causing trouble again. Although I knew the child was at fault first, after seeing the video, I instinctively stood on the child\’s side. I believe that most mothers are like me. When they see their child\’s head being stepped on so hard by a grown man, they will feel that the other person is crazy. In particular, when the passenger next to him stood up to stop the man from stepping on the child, the little boy collapsed on the spot. He tried to stand up twice, but fell down. Every mother must not be able to accept it. Of course it\’s wrong to hit someone, let alone do it so harshly. The child made mistakes and should be taught a lesson, but this man was too harsh. An adult cannot control his emotions and does not act lightly, so the police and the law will make him pay the price. But what about the children? Although the child\’s kick was not serious, it was obvious that he was kicking people on purpose, and certainly more than once. The three times he kicked someone, he was also careful to test. If the other party didn\’t respond, he might kick him a fourth or fifth time. In \”Dream of Red Mansions\”, Mother Jia once said: \”Children like you and me, no matter how cunning and weird they are, must behave politely when meeting outsiders. If they don\’t behave politely, We will never allow him to be cunning. Even if he is pampered by the adults,…if he just keeps it to himself and does not bring glory to the adults, he should be beaten to death no matter how he was born.\” My parents hundreds of years ago had With such awareness, why are more and more parents neglecting to discipline and restrain their children\’s behavior, ultimately causing harm to others and themselves, causing irreparable consequences? In recent years, there have been endless news about naughty children, such as: kicking the front seat on the plane, pushing pregnant women to see if they will miscarry, locking other people\’s children in the elevator alone, etc. Whenever a child makes a mistake, everyone either forgives him or symbolically says that the parents\’ education was not adequate. But there seems to be no details on what the specific punishment will be. But this time the child was not so lucky. Not to mention that he was still being rescued. Even if he was rescued, I believe he would never dare to kick someone on the bus again in his life. However, the price of this kind of learning is too tragic, and tracing back to the source, this price should be borne by the children\’s parents. If parents are not responsible, then society, the big school, will have to teach them. A boy kicked someone and was thrown on the shoulder and stamped on the head: How terrible is it for parents to \”not hit back\” for their children? So there is that saying – if you are not cruel to your child today, many people will be cruel to him in the future. In film and television works, there are often scenes where the people closest to you are subject to criminal law or shooting. Kissing the people who love you, even if you do it yourself, there is still a glimmer of hope, but if it is someone else who does it, it really won\’t work. That’s easy to say. Rather than others, be yourself. Today’s heart-wrenching real example of a child in Suining tells us once again – take care of your children, otherwise you will encounter misfortune.It\’s too late to regret this violent mania!