If there is a sudden power outage at home, will the child panic? This mom turned it into a surprise

At around eight o\’clock last Wednesday night, I was reading my sister Xiaoxi\’s homework in her room. Nuo Xi\’s father was on a business trip, and my sister Xiaonuo was playing with building blocks alone in the living room. Suddenly there was a \”bang\” sound, and all the ceiling lights in Xiaoxi\’s room went out, leaving only the desk lamp on the desk. At the same time, Xiao Nuo called her mother nervously in the living room. I turned around and saw that it was completely dark outside the room. I quickly comforted Xiao Nuo and said that the circuit breaker was just tripped and that my mother would just go take care of it. The circuits of our house are separated upstairs and downstairs. I turned on the chandelier on the stairs to let some light downstairs. Then I went to the main switch and found that the switch for one line was down. I didn\’t know what the technical term was, but I only knew that it had to be pushed up to get power, so I pushed it up. As a result, there was a \”Bang! Bang!\” sound every time I pushed it up, and the switch immediately jumped off. It was so scary that I had to give up. Fortunately, there was no problem with other wiring, and the electrical appliances and wall sockets in the house had power. So there were almost no lights in our house that night. Fortunately, it was late. My sister used a desk lamp to finish her homework, and my mother and I used their mobile phones to light up and went to bed. Ashamedly, I was busy coding during the next day and completely forgot about the tripping. It wasn’t until I took the two kids home in the evening and turned on the lights that I realized the problem was serious. How to do it? Do you want to eat in the dark? Seeing the two children looking at a loss, I mobilized them to find a solution together. My sister immediately went back to the room and took out the big desk lamp for homework, plugged it in and put it on the dining table, which instantly solved the problem of eating. The table lamp is bright and has a wide lighting range, so it does not affect dinner at all. After dinner, the lamp was carried back to the room by my sister to do homework. My sister and I looked at each other, what should we do if it was so dark? I told Xiaonuo that my mother was old, her brain was slow and she couldn’t think of a way, so I asked her to use her brain. She found a commonly used mobile phone holder, stuck the phone in place, and turned on the flashlight function. Then she went to the kitchen and opened the refrigerator door, saying that it would also brighten the kitchen, but I rejected this. After turning around a few times, she I found two story machines of my own, one on the dining table and one on the coffee table, and turned on the night light function; I turned on the night light in the hallway. In this way, the house is barely bright. At this time, my sister came out to drink water. After seeing us trying to light up, she went to the kitchen to open the door of the microwave oven and turned on the light on the range hood. Seeing me working on my official account in front of the computer, the two sisters suggested that they open the unused laptop and the screen would also shine (because no one would have thought of it since they usually don\’t watch TV). We spent a warm and pleasant night. The two sisters even asked me not to rush to call someone to repair the circuit… The power outage not only did not make us feel inconvenience, but instead allowed the two children to use their brains and hands to come up with solutions to the problem, which gave them a sense of accomplishment. . One night last winter, just after dinner, I suddenly suffered from severe abdominal pain. Nuo Xi’s father immediately drove me to the hospital. Xiaonuo asked to go with us, but I refused. I really didn’t have the energy to take her with me. It happened to be the weekend and her sister didn\’t have to catch up on homework, so she asked her to take care of her sister. Although the dishes on the dinner table were messy, I thought my sister was going to greet her, so I didn\’t ask her to wash the dishes. By the time I went to the emergency room at the hospital, I had received two major infusions.Bottle of liquid, it was almost ten o\’clock, and I was very worried about the two children at home. I didn\’t know what they were doing, whether they were quarreling or even fighting. This is the first time there are no adults at home at night, will they be scared? When we opened the door to go home, the crying, fussing and shivering that I imagined did not appear. I glanced at the dining table and saw that it had been cleared away. The two of them played like crazy in their sister\’s room and were so happy that they completely forgot about time. My sister even asked to sleep on the same bed as her sister. The two sisters, who usually bicker every once in a while, turn out to be so friendly, which makes me so happy! The next day, my sister took the initiative to care about me several times. From time to time, she asked me if I wanted to drink water. She also rubbed my back and told me stories. When my sister came home from school, she asked if she would like to cook. Her initiative in doing homework after meals also improved significantly, and she did not need me to remind her. Many crises in life can be turned into opportunities. If grasped well, they can become opportunities to educate children. In the spring before I went, my classmate Xiaonuo was studying in kindergarten. The school was more than one kilometer away from home. I usually drove her to and from school. Once when I turned too sharply when entering the garage, the right door was scratched in the corner, so I had to send it to the 4S shop for repair. During those few days, I couldn\’t drive to pick up the kids. The weather was nice, so I decided to walk. On the first day, Xiaonuo walked excitedly, but after a quarter of an hour of walking, she became unhappy, saying that her legs hurt, her feet were sore, etc., and she wanted me to hold her. I told her stories to distract her. When school was over in the evening, I came up with a few little games, such as counting the tiles on the sidewalk (the big ones), and jumping on that tile every time I counted to ten. For example, looking for spring along the way, where the flowers are blooming, where the leaves are green, and which trees are bearing small fruits… We had a lot of fun along the way, and we arrived home before we knew it. After walking for two consecutive days, I finally got the car back, but the child has since fallen in love with walking to school. We walked a few times last fall on glorious sunny days. Stepping on fallen leaves along the way, swish like stepping on potato chips, the children cheered. Unfortunately, because I got up late in the morning, my children had to rush to school, and my mother was in a hurry to get home to prepare dinner in the evening. In addition, due to severe cold, heat, wind, rain and other weather conditions, walking became a luxury. One day half a month ago, I promised Xiaonuo early in the morning that I would walk home from school in the evening. Unexpectedly, my sister’s school time changed that day. I had to pick her up immediately after picking her up, so walking was not possible. For this, I solemnly apologized to Xiaonuo and promised that she would be forgiven after walking for three consecutive days. Because of an accident, the child fell in love with walking, which added many beautiful memories. It was an unexpected blessing. In everyone\’s life, various small accidents will inevitably happen. These small accidents may disrupt our original rhythm of life and bring us all kinds of inconveniences. Faced with these little accidents, if the mother always sees the inconvenience, she will be dissatisfied and complain in various ways. If these negative emotions are vented at home, the child is treated as a trash can, which will have many bad effects on the child. On the other hand, if the way we handle crises is seen by our children, it will subtly influence them when they face unexpected events in the future., naturally also dissatisfied and complaining. If we change our perspective, look at the problem from the bright side, regard all kinds of small accidents as rare experience opportunities, or even small surprises given by life, and \”enjoy\” these small accidents with our children, the children will learn to be optimistic. Cheerful and full of positive energy.