If there is an afterlife, I want you to be my mother

Since I was a child, I have always envied other people\’s mothers. My good friend Ning Ning is in kindergarten. Her mother comes to pick her up early after school every day. First she gives her a big hug, and then conjures up a bag of snacks. Ning Ning follows behind and skips home. .. During the parent-teacher meeting in elementary school, a group of us friends secretly leaned in the window and looked in. The one who was the best-looking, the most fashionable, and the most well-spoken… was always someone else’s mother. After entering middle school, my deskmate She was complaining about her mother in front of me: she keeps buying new clothes for her, making delicious food in different styles… she can’t even wear them anymore… she’s getting fatter and fatter as she eats… it’s so annoying… it’s so annoying, Why is your mother not my mother. My mother has always been secretly disliked by me. Because I always wait until the doorman gets impatient before he sees her hurriedly appear. I apologize to him and leave in a hurry with my heart full of anger…because she is always the one who catches the eye during parent-teacher conferences: what she wears She was dressed slovenly and spoke loudly. When my friends pointed at her and asked whose mother this was, I could only squat down and sneak away quickly… because my thin mother not only refused to buy me new clothes, but also picked up mine. I wore old clothes and had no time to cook for me, so I simply hired the restaurant downstairs to serve as my canteen… Well, we are both mothers, so why is there such a big difference? I thought I was the only one who was unfilial and disliked my mother all day long. But one day at a bestie gathering, someone said, \”Hey! If only my mother were like your mother!\” The topic suddenly exploded…Mom I envy my mother who is careless and clingy. And those whose mothers talk a lot envy those who are taken care of by their mothers. My mother doesn’t cook, and I envy those who don’t have to eat gutter oil outside. My mother cooks delicious food, and I envy her that she can often go out to eat out. She also complained about how beautiful her mother was. When she told her, people outside said she looked like two sisters, which made her very angry. My mother doesn’t like to dress up. The more I look at the fashionable hot mothers outside, the more I feel that my mother is old and vicissitudes of life. My mother is educated and envies those mothers who know nothing, so that they can have many little secrets that cannot be cracked. My mother is uneducated, but she longs for a mother who understands her, so that she can have fun talking about anything. It turns out that there is \”someone else\’s mother\” living in everyone\’s heart. I asked my mother: \”Mom, have you ever disliked grandma?\” My mother said to me: \”I have, even more than you dislike me.\” I almost choked, thinking that I shouldn\’t! My grandma is such a kind person and treats me so well! How kind! How cute! Why do you still dislike her? ! My mother looked at me and said leisurely: \”Who do you think is born to be a mother? How can I be good at everything?\” Yes, it seems that when I was a child, I could still see my mother often quarreling with my grandmother, all kinds of things. They disliked each other, but as I grew older, they seemed to be slowly reaching some kind of reconciliation. \”Then why don\’t you dislike it now?\” \”I also want a perfect mother, but after becoming a mother, I know that this is impossible. Take your grandmother as an example, although I disliked many of her things back then. However, after giving birth to you, I gradually realized that if I were that person in her time,Given the situation, I may not be able to do as well as she does. \”There is no perfect mother in this world. There was a very popular article called \”My mother is a useless middle-aged woman\” some time ago. Being brave and not afraid of death, I forwarded it to my circle of friends and also @my mother. The result Guess? My mother, who never gives me any likes, left this sentence under that article… \”You have no conscience, I know you look down on your mother. Mom doesn\’t have much education, doesn\’t have much ability, and doesn\’t know how to treat you well. You said that if you love your children, you need to learn the art of kite flying, but I just don’t know how to fly a kite. How to fly a kite like yours? Mom has no idea. I can only pray that you will not be blown away by the strong wind and will always be safe and sound…\” Who said that a mother-daughter relationship is a lifelong love and death. And this mother-daughter love and death may span a period of time as a mother. Time may not be that long, I just need to know more about her and be considerate. Think about her who I despised in the past, how many stories behind her are not known to me, or forgotten by me?… Come so late every day She took me home because she had to work hard to sell one more item so that she could make more money and take me to our own home early… She showed up unkempt at every parent-teacher meeting because she was running around in the market. I really don’t have time to groom myself… I don’t have time to buy new clothes. I don’t have time to cook for me because I have to earn money for me to go to college. After renting the restaurant downstairs as a canteen, she will buy the oil and deliver it to her every time. The store asked the boss to pay attention to the balanced nutrition… Under this message, I replied to her with a hypocritical but sincere sentence. If there is an afterlife, I want you to be my mother. You know your mother\’s Childhood? Do you know what she thinks of her mother? Do you know what joys and pains she has experienced? Do you know what hardships and helplessness she has experienced in raising you? If you don\’t know these, then , don’t judge easily, she doesn’t love you, or you don’t love her. Love actually requires more wisdom than anything else, but we often love with hurt and ignorance. However, it brings us to The fact of raising us up in this world is worth turning around and embracing the mother who loves us in the best way she thinks. After reading this article, go home and give your mother a hug, okay?