If you are not good at mathematics, what can you do? You will have no food in the future?

01Yesterday, I was teaching my second daughter about the area of ​​​​shaded part in mathematics. I almost collapsed. I couldn’t understand it no matter how I explained it, and I felt extremely frustrated. The eldest daughter never explains math problems to her younger sister. She said that her younger sister can’t wake up no matter how hard she solves the problem. She can only explain it to people who can understand it after just one explanation. I once said that my eldest daughter is not good at expressing herself. Only when she can express herself can she really learn how to express herself by telling others. Now I deeply understand how my eldest daughter feels. It’s not that she can’t speak, but that the person opposite doesn’t understand at all. The child is not interested, her heart is not here at all. When I see these area questions, once they change a little and are not the standard base and height, I don’t want to learn them anymore. Very psychologically repulsive. You tell her, she says the writing is crooked, you tore the draft paper, when will it be finished. I rewarded her with her favorite TV series. I say as long as you understand the questions on this page, just watch TV. She said forget it, I won’t read it. The child really doesn\’t like math, especially now that it\’s become more difficult in fifth grade, and she herself feels extremely frustrated. When I see math problems, I feel irritated and rejected, and I feel depressed inside. Especially when the child said something to me, I was still very shocked. She said, Mom, you don’t need to encourage me or praise me. You just use such sweet words to let me study hard. I don’t do this. I finally accepted that my child was not good at math. After struggling with my child for a long time, I lost my sight. 02 I started to look up famous people who are not good at mathematics. I don’t know if I don’t look up, but I was shocked when I looked up. Many celebrities are listed. Chinese great man Mao Zedong (according to historical records, when he was in middle school, his grades were excellent in literature and history subjects; but his grades were extremely poor in subjects that he didn\’t like to learn and didn\’t put in the effort to learn, such as mathematics, physics, English, still life sketching, etc. I got 0 points or close to 0 points in all the courses. Therefore, I only went to Hunan No. 1 Normal School. Scholar Zhu Ziqing applied for the Peking University Preparatory School in 1916. He only got 0 points in mathematics, but his compositions were very beautiful and his words were beautiful. , with delicate emotions, got full marks, so he was successfully admitted. He graduated from Wuxi Furen Middle School with first place in 1929, and then applied for Tsinghua University. His test scores were excellent in both Chinese and English. It is said that his English is the best. He had a perfect score and close to a perfect score in Chinese, but only 15 points in mathematics. Normally, he would not be admitted in this situation, but the examiner reported to the then Tsinghua President Luo Jialun, and it is said that President Luo admitted him because of his love for talents. At that time, Qian Zhongshu’s father, Qian Jibo, was a Chinese language professor at Tsinghua University. According to Ji Xianlin’s protégé, Qian Wenzhong, a famous linguist, essayist, and translator, Ji Lao was very partial to arts and sciences when he was a child. When he applied for Tsinghua University in 1930, he only scored 4 points in mathematics. (Qian Wenzhong once asked Mr. Ji himself, how many scores did he score in mathematics during the college entrance examination? Mr. Ji only said \”very low\” and didn\’t say much else. ), but due to excellent results in other subjects, I was admitted to the Department of Western Literature at Tsinghua University. I was relieved to see so many celebrities in our generation. I remember Cui Yongyuan and Yu Dan all shared, don’t let them go to the vegetable market. , shopping for groceries is not counted, Dong Yuhui also shared during the live broadcast, because in high school, he worked hard.I couldn\’t learn math well, and I was crazy about answering questions, but I just couldn\’t understand it. In the end, I had to choose liberal arts, and finally took the travel English test. 03 When she was young, her second daughter was very clever and loved by everyone. Many people praised her. I can understand all kinds of things in life at a glance, and I have strong hands-on skills. I make various origami every day and am very dexterous. I can get along with anyone, older or younger, no problem. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, so why should I compete with subjects that my child is not good at? If this continues, it will definitely undermine the child\’s self-confidence. If you\’re not good at math, what can you do? What\’s the big deal? You\’ll have nothing to eat in the future, so what if you can\’t go to college? My cousin didn\’t even graduate from junior high school, and my uncle also put a lot of thought into hoping that the child could study well. But my cousin said she couldn\’t learn it. Now I have opened a gold and silver jewelry store in the small county town of my hometown. I work half a day every day. I earn a lot of money and live a very comfortable life. In the final analysis, raising children is not about reconciliation with the children. What is really about reconciliation is between the parents and themselves. The children have done nothing wrong. It is the parents who do not accept the children for who they are. I accepted the child, and when I saw the child’s dynamic life, my eyes suddenly brightened. If my second daughter couldn’t pass the high school entrance examination, why would she have to study hard? I took my child to travel, and I learned and lived while traveling. The motherland’s If you walk around all the great rivers and mountains, wouldn’t it be nice to have a university of life?