If you do these 5 points, you will be a qualified high school parent!

How to accompany your children through three years of high school? In fact, for high school parents, you don’t need anyone to teach you how to be a parent, right? After six years of primary school and three years of junior high school, we have stepped on the pitfalls we should have stepped on, suffered the losses we should have suffered, and summed up a lot of experiences and lessons in getting along with children. But high school is really a stage where anxiety and internal friction are easy to arise. Teachers, friends, and even society all exaggerate the importance of the college entrance examination. In this kind of atmosphere, children will be more or less anxious. They study hard in school and strive to make progress. As parents, we cannot hold our children back. In addition to providing good logistical services for our children, we must also be their wingmen and comrades-in-arms, becoming helpers for their college entrance examinations instead of their resistance. How should we do this specifically? 01 Stop nagging and preaching. The child in high school has fully awakened his self-awareness. His outlook on life, values, and world view have tended to take shape. He urgently needs to escape from the control of his parents. Many children have a very bad relationship with their parents and are unwilling to talk to their parents. This is because we still treat them as primary school students or junior high school students, and you still like to control their studies. Your nagging preaching, presenting facts, and reasoning are of no benefit to him, and the more you talk, the more annoying he will become. Parents must remember that your child\’s learning motivation is not something you nag. On the contrary, it will also affect your parent-child relationship. If you can\’t give him guidance, then don\’t give guidance to others. 02 Be optimistic and positive. Studying in high school is fast-paced, difficult, time-intensive, and the tasks are heavy. Children\’s grades will inevitably fluctuate, and many of our parents will fall into a state of anxiety. Therefore, parents should not pay too much attention to their children\’s performance at a certain stage or performance as long as their children keep working hard and are on the road to struggle. The three years of high school can be said to be full of ups and downs. Children will experience hope, pain, helplessness and even helplessness, as well as gain hope, luck, surprise and other forms. Your positive and optimistic attitude is particularly important for children. 03 Help your children make plans in advance. High school studies are difficult, fast-paced, and nine subjects are advanced at the same time, which puts a lot of pressure on children. You have to learn the subject selection knowledge in advance, and finalize the course selection as early as possible based on your child\’s interests and grades to gain more time and energy for him. If our family conditions were average, we would try our best to enroll in science and engineering majors so that we could work after graduation. If your child\’s grades are average and his family\’s financial situation is good, he can plan in advance to go abroad and change tracks. 04 Reduce expectations. If a child can study for a general undergraduate degree in the future, he will have surpassed half of his classmates. If he can pass one, he will surpass 85% of his classmates. If he can get into 211, he will be an elite of only 5%. If he can get into 985, then he will be among the elites. It’s the cream of the crop! Stop it, stop it, those are other people’s children, and the average grades are our own children. 05 Ensure your child’s physical and mental health. You only know that your child is suffering, but you don’t know how much he is suffering. I only know that he is suffering, but I don’t know how much he is suffering. Please remember that children must be adults first and then become talents. Ensure their physical and mental health first, and then say 211 or 985! Help the horse, give him a ride, do what we can,The rest is our longing and blessing for him!