If you do these 5 points, you will be a qualified junior high school parent

How to accompany your children through the three years of junior high school? In fact, for many parents, this is indeed a headache. After all, when children enter junior high school, the pressure begins to increase, and in addition, they are in the stage of adolescence, and their emotions are prone to instability. It is easy to develop low self-esteem, anxiety, and internal friction… Therefore, if you want to use the same methods as in elementary school (beating, scolding, yelling, etc.), it will definitely not work. So how can you be a qualified junior high school parent? These 5 points are very important: 1: Keep your mouth shut and open your legs. This is not for everyone to lose weight, haha. Rather, if we can help the children run errands and lend a hand, we should try not to nag the children. We are always used to telling our children great truths, and we feel that they are not doing this or that. But after an hour of teaching, if the children don\’t stay still, it can easily lead to a \”parent-child war\”, making each of them angry and breaking up unhappy. Instead of wasting this time and energy, you might as well help your children. For example, if your child needs to print out a test paper or something, you might as well do it for your child. Children will not become lazier because of this, but will become more and more conscious and sensible. 2: Delayed anger Children who enter junior high school are prone to emotional instability, irritability and irritability due to physiological reasons. If a child has a disagreement with us, we\’d better endure it for 10 seconds to delay getting angry, haha. You will find that by the time you finish reciting the 10 count in your mind, the anger just now has long disappeared. Practicing your ability to control your emotions will not only make the parent-child relationship harmonious, but the key is to have a positive influence on the child. 3: Lower your expectations. Just like Liu Chuanzhi’s father said to him: As long as you are an upright person, no matter what industry you are in, you will be my good boy. Don\’t expect your children to do well in exams, and don\’t worry too much about your children being diverted to vocational schools. Because in addition to hard work, a person\’s success also involves luck. People may have opportunities due to various factors. As long as the child is upright, strives to make progress, and does things with a clear conscience, it will be good and successful. 4: Don’t mess around with the rhythm. You see, everyone has memorized English words. You see, this learning method is good. You see, how many sets of papers have they written? ………Junior middle school studies are stressful, and they are in a tense competitive environment every day. Children themselves are easily affected. Therefore, parents should stop messing with the rhythm and forcing their children to accept too much external confidence to avoid \”indigestion\”. Only when parents stabilize their mentality can their children learn steadily. 5: Make plans in advance. After entering junior high school, not only will the subjects increase a lot, but the knowledge points will also become much more difficult. We can make a plan with our children. For example, some knowledge that needs to be memorized can be understood and memorized in advance and written down silently. This leaves more time for learning and thinking in other subjects. You can also focus on one or two \”specialty\” courses first, which can effectively increase children\’s enthusiasm for learning and improve their self-confidence. Conclusion: In short, as a parent of a junior high school student, the emotional value must be grasped well. The parent-child relationship always comes first. Give money, cook, keep your mouth shut, and be a punching bag and garbage dump at any time. Be a transparent, sunny and optimistic little nanny, haha. After all, children need to be adults before they can become talents, and they must first ensure their physical and mental health, right?