If you do these three things, your child will be a hundred times stronger than others.

There is a saying: \”Every child is God\’s best gift to his parents.\” Every child is sacred and has its own uniqueness that cannot be replaced by others. What is the best education for children? What should parents know about educating their children? According to children\’s interests and nature, we all like flowers and trees in nature, because they are unsullied and make us feel friendly and comfortable. They absorb the essence of the sun and moon freely and bathe in the morning light and rain, which makes us envious. They grow as they are, the flowers grow as they are, the trees grow as trees, let nature take its course. The same goes for children\’s growth. As parents, we only need to provide the healthiest growth conditions for our children and let their nature take its course. When we find that children are excited when they hear the characteristics of music, we play more beautiful music to them; when we find that children always like to tinker with electrical equipment at home, we buy more electrical toys for them; when we find that children are interested in listening When the story interests us, we buy storybooks for our children so that they can learn to read on their own… In order to allow children to enjoy real freedom, we should take them to play in nature more often, let them get close to nature, and let our children Try to get along with other friends as much as possible, so that he can learn to get along with others from an early age, know how to share, and not be self-centered. Let our children gain freedom of choice in their hobbies, freedom of happiness in nature, and freedom of getting along with others. We just need to create a healthy environment and let them grow freely. Teach children how to think independently and cultivate active thinking. I have a high school classmate who showed extraordinary independent thinking ability when applying for the college entrance examination. The coal industry was particularly hot at that time, and everyone around him became rich because of coal. Many students followed suit and applied for the coal major. And he learned from reading news reports that the United Nations had begun to sanction China for its environmental pollution problems, but the virtual economy was developing rapidly in China, and the GDP of e-commerce, finance, and securities companies was growing rapidly. He resolutely chose the computer industry. As a result, the energy industry generally declined a few years later. Other students could only earn dismal wages, but he had already started his own Internet company. What schools teach are dead knowledge from books, but life is concrete and vivid. Life never plays by the rules, but many children cling to the rules they learned in school to deal with society. As a result, they run into obstacles everywhere and blame the world for being too complicated. This is a manifestation of the lack of independent thinking ability. How can we not fail when we apply ready-made knowledge to the unpredictable reality. As parents, we must encourage our children to think independently and cultivate their evaluation thinking. A child who only knows how to obey and obey will always have his life arranged by others. Such a child has no future. Let children dare to make mistakes and make money from their mistakes. If children are not allowed to experience it for themselves, it will be difficult for them to know the correctness of a principle. Adults can bear with the small mistakes children make when they are young, but the big mistakes they make when they grow up are often irreparable. People often fail to use their talents because they are afraid of making mistakes. Make sure your children don’t get sick in school classesIf you feel fear, never use ridicule to \”stimulate\” your child. Once a child feels that he will be laughed at if he makes a mistake, he will do everything possible to avoid making a mistake. Not trying means stopping the pace of learning. In parent-child life, we adults are often afraid of trouble, or out of worry, or because we cherish things at home and are afraid of damage, so we deprive our children of the opportunity to learn. They don\’t even allow their children to make even the slightest mistake. It seems that whenever they make a mistake, their parents\’ faces will be disgraced. Whenever they make a mistake, they label their children as stupid, and even criticize and criticize their children\’s mistakes. Just think about it, do children have confidence in this way? Dare to try it? If you have no confidence and dare not try, can you grow? What would you do if someone treated you the same way every day? Can you still be calm and confident? I think you may be less able to bear it than your child. Only by constantly trying, making mistakes, and being encouraged can children truly learn and grow, and only by trying can they discover themselves, rather than by talking on paper and imagining. All education can be attributed to self-education. Academic qualifications and classroom knowledge are only temporary, but the ability of self-education is a lifelong asset. Experience proves that whether a person is successful or not often does not depend on the level of academic qualifications and classroom knowledge, but on whether he is good at self-education. Education is growth. The original meaning of education is to enable everyone\’s nature and innate abilities to grow healthily, rather than pouring external things into a container. Whether education is successful depends on whether we expand the possibilities and richness of children\’s lives!