If you don’t educate your children, the world will educate them severely.

There is a very popular article recently: \”How terrible is the evil of children\”. In the article, the author talked about what happened to a friend in a restaurant. After reading this story, I was not frightened by the child\’s evil, but I was shocked by the parents\’ insensitive and misguided love. That was at a hot pot restaurant. A naughty child can\’t sit still after eating. He slipped out while the adults were not around. Children like this. When I take my children to eat, I have to take good care of them. This naughty kid saw the two girls at the next table looking at their phones and laughing happily. Just go over and ask for their mobile phones to play with. The girl didn\’t agree. The naughty kid went back to complain, but his mother said with a doting look on her face, \”Oh, just talk to your sister and ask her to let you play with her for a while.\” So he went again, but this time he didn\’t succeed and went straight to the girl. spit in the hot pot. At this time the girl told the boss. Unexpectedly, while the boss was changing the soup pot, the naughty boy picked up a pot of soup and poured it on a girl\’s face. Half of the girl\’s face was severely burned, and her face was completely destroyed in the hands of that naughty kid. Seeing this, I want to share this article with you again. I hope it will attract the attention of parents. Because if you don’t educate your child, the world will educate him severely. ——Fish Dad In recent years, we have begun to talk more about education. Because we find that the economy has improved and our pockets have bulged, but our education has not. That is why there are various scandals involving Chinese tourists abroad. As for China, everyone knows what the situation is like even if I don’t tell you. Yu Minhong said: \”What is education? Education is when you walk among a group of people, your behavior is appropriate and appropriate, making people feel polite and pleasant.\” I didn\’t pay much attention to education before. My own principle is to try my best to Don\’t disturb others, don\’t cause trouble to others. After having children, I began to pay more attention to this issue, especially the education of children. Because I don’t want my child to become an annoying person, I want him to become an educated person. Why do you pay attention to it when you have children? Because children are like a mirror, reflecting many shortcomings of their parents. In fact, children often do not understand etiquette requirements. What parents need is to teach their children how to take care of themselves. For example, I took my child out to eat a few days ago and was with a few playmates. He immediately started shouting. The child screamed when he was excited, and his voice was very loud. I immediately took him back and told him that this is a place where everyone eats and he cannot yell. But after a while, several people climbed onto the backrests of the sofa seats next to the table next door. At this time, I called them back and told them not to disturb other guests while they were dining. They should sit on their own stools, otherwise I will use the ultimate punishment method (go alone to the outside door to stand and reflect, I can accompany you if necessary, because I did not educate you well). For a child over three years old, it is difficult to control emotions and behavior, but parents still need to discipline them well, which does not mean beating and scolding their children in public. That will only show that the parents do not understand education and are even less educated. Parents should set an example for their children and then gently tell them what to do. Of course, some mothers will say that their children are too naughty and do not listen to discipline. Then you have to reflect on where your education isSomething went wrong. As children grow up, parents must teach them rules and self-discipline. You know: no matter how young a child is, he will grow up. When a child makes a mistake or gets into trouble, the most common excuse I see is \”The child is still young, it\’s okay!\” So there are two or three-year-old children peeing on the wall next to my warehouse. I can\’t blame them! Because the child’s mother said that the child is still young and ignorant! So there was a story in the news about a child hitting a car parked on the roadside with a rock, but the child\’s mother turned a blind eye, so that the angry car owner kicked the child away, which eventually led to a lawsuit. The reason the child made the mistake persisted was that the child was still young, so why should he take action? This reason really has its own aura and is impeccable. Is the appropriate course of action to kick the mother who turned a blind eye away? When your child gets into trouble, respond immediately by saying the child is still young. This is irresponsible behavior towards the growth of the child. You know, if you don’t educate your child, someone will always teach him a lesson. I once saw a mother post on the Internet saying: When eating in a restaurant, her son was slapped because he was a little naughty! She was so angry that she was still shaking. It turned out that this mother took her son to a nearby restaurant to eat. Her son liked to run around at the neighboring table and harassed the neighboring table who was eating crabs several times. Finally, he ran to the neighboring table to catch crabs and was thrown away by others. Finally, I hit the person at the table, but was beaten back… The reason why this mother was so angry was probably because my child was young and it was normal to be naughty. How could you be on the same level as him? But let me ask, if the child is still young, is the mother also young? Why don\’t you control your children in time? I remember when Xiao Xiaoyu was more than two years old, he was on the high-speed rail once. Because he was so excited, he wanted to play games with me, and he laughed every time he won. A guy in the front row couldn\’t stand it because he wanted to sleep, so he said to me, \”Take care of your child! This is not your home.\” At that time, my child\’s mother and I looked at each other and apologized quickly. Take out the picture book, help the child change into a quiet mode, and tell him a story. After that, I became more careful when taking my children out. Never let your children disturb others, and the person who needs the most attention is me. Never indulge just because your child is young. Because no matter how small a child is, he will always grow up. If parents don\’t teach their children some courtesy and rules now, because their children have indulged themselves since they were young, they still expect everyone\’s forgiveness when they make mistakes. Then, when one day he walks out of school, enters the society, and behaves like a bear, no one will be tolerant of him anymore, and the child will not be able to bear it at that time. Because no one follows him like that anymore. If you don’t educate your child, someone will educate him on your behalf. I hope you won\’t regret it then. And when such a naughty child grows up, can he become a qualified parent? Can you take on the responsibility of educating the next generation? Take care of yourself first, then take care of your children. One mother said that once, when relatives came to the house, her son generously took out all the toys and shared them. When we finally left, the 4-year-old boy from a relative\’s family took a fancy to a dinosaur toy, and this was the child\’s favorite baby dinosaur. Of course I won\’t give it to you, but the relatives\’ children are also crying and shouting to take it back. whenThe situation at that time was very embarrassing, the two children were fighting for it. At this time, the child looked at his mother, hoping that his mother could keep this dinosaur for him. The relatives also looked at her with smiles, waiting for her to give the toys to the children. We must know that in our ordinary impression, this dinosaur should be given to guests, because guests are noble and can do whatever they want. But she knew how important this dinosaur was to her children. So I knelt down and said to my relative\’s child: \”Next time, my aunt will buy you a new one, okay? I\’ll leave this one to my brother, because he won\’t be able to sleep.\” The child refused. At this time, the relative took action, snatched the toy away, stuffed it into her hand, and then took the child away. Not even a basic goodbye. In fact, she wanted to ask for the address the next day to buy one for her child. But the other party didn\’t even answer the phone. In the end, she told everyone she met that her family members were stingy. It didn\’t make her mad to death, but she didn\’t regret it, because it was okay not to have such relatives. Faced with such an uneducated Master Xiong, can children get a good education? It\’s hard. Therefore, in order to educate children well, parents must first take care of themselves. You must know that this world does not belong to you alone, and do not think that the whole world will revolve around your children like you. You know, even when a child is young, he is also an independent individual with dignity. They need to be respected and given a good upbringing. Many times, it is because of the naughty parents at home that the children become naughty children. This is also a tragedy for the child, because the child\’s personality and behavioral habits are all shaped step by step by the parents. Doesn’t the responsibility for the problem of naughty children lie with the parents themselves? I have always hoped that the children will understand: The world is not decided by you, nor will it automatically give way because of your willfulness. Growth is something that needs to be taken seriously. You You must be responsible for yourself and respect everyone around you. You must remember that your parents will always love you, but the outside world is cruel, and you must become an educated person to make others feel comfortable and happy. Rather than being a nuisance.