If you don’t even have time to eat together every day, how can you talk about educating your children?

Huang Lei\’s version of \”Midnight Diner\” was released online, and it received a lot of criticism, with a Douban score of only 2.3. I haven\’t watched the Japanese version, but only watched a few episodes of the Korean version, so I would say that Huang Lei\’s version has more ads and less creativity at most, so it\’s not that ugly. Fast forwarding and watching an episode yesterday, I realized I was wrong because I really couldn\’t watch it. I feel that Huang Lei is not suitable for this angle at all. Ever since Huang Lei was given the attribute of cooking, he has turned on the talkative mode, but the character\’s label is that of a \”silent\” man. He wants to say something but can\’t. Even through the screen, Huang Lei feels like he is laughing. Field. I won’t comment on the plot anymore, because there’s really no way to compare it. I honestly can’t even compare to the Korean version. As for the cooking plot, well~ I can only say that the screenwriter of Huang Lei\’s version of \”Late Night Diner\” must have failed to understand the importance of food that directly touches the soul to a person. Eating is the basis for human survival. To eat is the driving force for people to live. From the first sip of breast milk a child is born, the taste of his mother is imprinted on him throughout his life. So when your child is young, please try to cook for him. If you don’t have time to do it, at least try to eat with him. Because after so many years, children will gradually grow up and forget their parents\’ hard work, but as soon as they taste those familiar flavors, they can hit their dusty memories and let them return to the arms of their parents. When it comes to the warmest picture of family reunion, there is no better picture than the whole family sitting around having a meal together. It doesn’t need to be sumptuous, just three or two delicious meals with a bowl of soup, and the whole family will be laughing and chatting after eating it, feeling extremely satisfied. But this ideal picture has never been realized for me. When I was a child, my mother’s working hours were from 12:30 noon to 8:00 pm. So, every day when I came home with my schoolbag on my back, what impressed me most was the figure of my mother taking off her apron and leaving in a hurry. Dinner is even simpler, usually the leftovers from lunch, which you can heat up and eat. In my memory, our family has never had the experience of going out to eat as a family. Even if we were visiting relatives for a banquet, eating was like completing a task without any emotional exchange. Now that my mother is old, I have become the one who works. Because my father and brother are in my hometown, my mother, me, Mr. Unhappy, and Xiao Fu are usually the only ones at home. Xiaofu got out of school at four o\’clock and was very hungry when he came back from kindergarten. My mother had dinner with him around five o\’clock. I got off work a little late, and it was already past 7 o\’clock when I got home. Sometimes Mr. Unhappy would wait for me to eat with him, and sometimes he would have to wait until the customers left before coming to eat when there were customers in his shop. So even though there are only a few people in the family, they can have meals from 5pm to 8pm. There are very few opportunities to eat together as a family every day, but for the sake of life, we still have to make \”any breakfast, lunch in the cafeteria, and dinner in turns\” become the norm. This is how closeness and alienation come about bit by bit. There is an episode in the cartoon \”Chibi Maruko-chan\” where the Maruko-chan family is dressed up and preparing to go out for a steak dinner. But every Western restaurant they went to was full, and they couldn\’t even get a seat after queuing for a long time, so they had to go home dejectedly. Although everyone can only simply eat a bowl of noodles, XiaomaruHowever, Zi discovered that no matter what he ate, as long as the family was together, even if it was just a bowl of noodles, it would be full of happiness. It can be seen that children may be very vague about the meaning of happiness and cannot explain any profound truth, but they can eat happiness into their stomachs with ordinary meals one after another, which warms their young hearts. For children, when they grow up, they can use their brains to recall very few moments with their parents. Only the memories of the body and stomach are the most real. For example, Li Yifeng was once interviewed. The reporter asked him what was different after he became famous. He replied, \”It\’s not different. It\’s just that I can\’t go home on time to eat the food cooked by my mother.\” After hearing such an answer, I really can\’t help but feel sorry for this little fresh guy. A child who has turned into a fan from Rou Lu and can think about going home and eating the food cooked by his mother every day must have good moral character. Eating together is not only a way of survival for a person, but also a happy ritual. When parents eat with their children, in addition to making them feel happy, there are also many unexpected benefits: Eating with their children can ensure that their children have a more reasonable diet and eat healthier. Published in Archives of Family Medicine A study in 2017 found that when families ate together, food contained less salt and less fat, and children were exposed to less soda and fried foods and were able to eat more fruits and vegetables. Simply put, if you eat with your children at home, your children will have fewer opportunities to come into contact with junk food and gutter oil. At the same time, they will have more opportunities to eat fresh fruits and vegetables, and your children will be healthier. Eat meals with your children to prevent them from making bad friends. A study conducted on 12-17-year-old children by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University in the United States showed that children who eat with their parents more than five times a week The likelihood of exposure to cigarettes, alcohol and drugs is much lower than that of a child who only has dinner with his parents less than twice a week. Therefore, eating together with the family can help children reduce their exposure to bad temptations and keep them clean. Eating with children can relieve children\’s stress and reduce children\’s psychological problems. The same study also found that children who often eat dinner with their parents are willing to talk to their parents when they are in trouble, so they are less likely to have suicidal thoughts. Thoughts, first sexual experience will also be later. Eat together with your children to promote harmonious parent-child relationship. In the atmosphere of eating together, parents can more easily understand their children\’s recent studies and life, help them master new vocabulary, and teach them how to talk, listen and solve problems. For example, when eating together every day, each family member can talk about the happy things or troubles they encountered that day, or comment on the dishes of the day, and jointly formulate the dinner menu for the next day, so that the children and parents can work together Cooking, etc. These are all beneficial ways to promote parent-child relationships. At the same time, children can learn table manners more directly from their parents and learn to respect other people\’s tastes. Because when the whole family eats together, not everyone can eat what they want every night, which allows children to learn to share and compromise. Children eating with their parents learnStudy results will be better if parents often eat with their children. This good family atmosphere will also help children\’s learning. Researchers found that children who often had dinner with their parents were nearly twice as likely to get A\’s in school than children who rarely had dinner with their parents. Unfortunately, today\’s parents are becoming more and more busy in order to provide their children with a better living and learning environment. They are so busy that they cannot even spare time to have a meal with their children every day. Of course, eating is just a formality, a way for us to use the dining table as a platform to express our care and love. If you really can\’t eat with your children every day, then while the children are still young and the parents are not old, you can at least spare some time every week, right? You can cook meals for your children at home, or take your parents and the whole family to eat out together. This allows children to truly experience the love of their families, and it also allows our parents to experience the warmth of family affection. So, no matter how busy you are, you should go home and eat when you have time! If you don’t eat with your child, he will grow up in the blink of an eye!