If you don’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime.

Many parents think that everything will be fine if they send their children to school. In fact, this is not the case. Parents are the most important teachers in their children\’s lives. If you don\’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime. Especially the following three things, you must tell your children some principles of life. Being independent and self-sufficient is the capital of a person traveling far away. Many of today\’s children grow up hiding under the wings of their parents. They have to stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food. Parents are even more reluctant to let their children be tired, bumped, or injured, and do not give them food. Opportunity to exercise. Poor independence and poor self-care ability have become the shortcomings of many children today. Even if children go to college, there are many people who do not fold their quilts, make their beds, or organize their clothes, shoes, socks, books and supplies in the dormitories. Dr. Maria Montessori believes that \”the highest goal of educating children is to enable them to be independent; they do not need to rely on their parents either mentally or materially, and they are responsible for their own thoughts and actions.\” The philosopher Fromm also said: \”The opposite of education is manipulation. It lacks confidence in the growth of children\’s potential. It believes that only adults can guide children on what they should do and what they should not do, and children will achieve normal results. However, such manipulation is wrong. \”We should be clear: let the child do what he can do by himself, and never do it for him. Letting children develop good living habits is the first step to a healthy life, and it is also a very important capital for them to be able to travel independently in the future. Therefore, we must tell our children that independence and self-care are the foundation for a person to stand in society, just like the wisdom our ancestors told us in the \”Book of Changes\”: \”Heaven moves vigorously, and a gentleman continues to strive for self-improvement.\” After the child is 3 years old, it is important to cultivate A critical period for the ability to live independently. Parents let go when it’s time to let go, and there are some things that children can do on their own. Common daily behaviors in life, such as dressing and taking off clothes, washing oneself, eating independently, etc., can be allowed to be carried out independently by children. Encourage children to do their own things from an early age, and give them more opportunities to work and do housework. Once a child has mastered basic life skills and can take care of himself independently, he will be able to take good care of himself no matter what time in his life. Educating children to know how to let go and advance and retreat is the wisdom of true love! Tell children that sports make life more exciting. What sports bring to children is not only as simple as exercising, but also allows children to understand the rules of interpersonal communication, learn team spirit, leadership and other skills. What children learn from sports will be used throughout their lives and make their lives more exciting. Especially for children aged 0-6, when their bodies are growing, their motor and sensory nerve functions are growing, and the more they exercise, the smarter they become. Dr. Montessori said, \”The degree and importance of a child\’s development in the three years after birth exceeds that of any stage in a child\’s life. A child\’s self-development must be achieved through his own movement and hand activities.\” Children\’s movement development is also sensitive. During this period, seizing the sensitive period of children\’s exercise often has the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort. The period before the age of 6 is a critical period for the development of a child\’s body flexibility. It has great plasticity and can be appropriately used for dance and gymnastics exercises to promote the child\’s body flexibility. Before the age of 3, it is a child’s handDuring the critical period of fine motor development, children can perform three-finger pinching, five-finger grasping, clamping, threading, sewing, scooping, knitting and other work exercises in daily life… aiming to develop children\’s hand muscle ability and hand-eye coordination. When a child\’s hands are fully developed, it will accelerate his progress towards physical independence. They can learn to eat by themselves, put on and take off clothes, take care of the environment, etc. Exercise is not necessarily strenuous exercise like running, playing ball, or gymnastics. Children\’s physical and mental development has its own fixed rules. Some children develop faster on one side and slower on the other. Every child is different. There is no need to force your own children to do just because other children do sports. . According to the age and development characteristics of children, only by allowing children to really move their bodies can it be beneficial to their physical growth. Self-discipline is the cornerstone of children\’s success. Self-disciplined and unself-disciplined children lead completely different lives. Children have to walk their own path in the future, and no one can take their place. If you want to have more choices and opportunities in the future, self-discipline is essential. However, no child is born with self-discipline. Self-discipline needs to be cultivated from an early age. Children aged 3-6 years old are a critical period for brain development, personality and behavioral habits. Children at this stage have strong plasticity, and it is also a very important period to develop self-discipline habits. After the \”double reduction\” policy is implemented, self-disciplined children will become even more outstanding. If parents don\’t let their children learn self-discipline, it will be too late. In response to the Ministry of Education\’s \”double reduction\” policy, many school teachers assign less or even no homework. The common monthly exams and mid-term exams have disappeared. There are no rankings and no published results. It is difficult for parents to grasp the true learning status of their children. The child seems to be much more relaxed and free all of a sudden, which makes it easy for the child to get lost in the comfort zone. However, there is an eternal truth in this world: those who are self-disciplined will be outstanding, and those who are lazy will be eliminated! When the time comes for the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, we will see which children are working hard and which children are swimming naked. Mr. Yang Jiang said that if a person wants to grow, there must be a reason, and the effort and accumulation behind it must be several times that of ordinary people. Different levels of indulgence will lead to different levels of stubbornness; different levels of exercise will lead to different levels of achievements. In this world, there is no casual success. Children must develop the habit of self-discipline. This is the cornerstone of their future self-growth. A self-disciplined child has an unlimited future. A self-disciplined life will eventually be different! As a parent, you not only want your children to feel your support and unconditional love, but you also need to have far-reaching wisdom. As the saying goes: \”Only when you endure hardship can you become a master.\” Parents must remember: Children are still young and may not understand some truths, but as parents, they must teach them. If you don’t tell your children some things, no one will ever tell them.