If you talk like this, there is no child who cannot be taught well.

In life, many parents may have had this experience. When I saw that my child was sick, I felt more distressed than anyone else, but when I opened my mouth, he said, \”I told you to wear more clothes, but you didn\’t listen. Now you know how uncomfortable it is, right?\” When I saw that my child\’s grades were deteriorating, I was obviously more concerned about it than anyone else, but when I opened my mouth, It became: \”I have provided you with good food and drink all day long to study, and in the end I only got such a low score in the exam. Who can you deserve?\” When I found out that my child had made a mistake, I obviously just wanted him to learn a lesson, but what he said was : \”You\’re really worthless, you\’ll have to do this for the rest of your life!\” I always think that I\’m a hot-headed person, and although my words may not be pleasant to the ears, my intention is for the good of my children after all. But I forgot that there is no such thing as a sharp mouth and a soft heart in this world. Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental, once pointedly pointed out: \”All the mouths of the knife are the hearts of the knife.\” Every seemingly light word from the parents is like a sharp knife piercing the children\’s hearts, leaving only blood dripping. hole. In the end, the child who was used to being ridiculed, denied, and threatened gradually learned to give up on himself. He was clearly suffering from numerous grievances and pressures, but he never mentioned it when facing his parents. He just said: \”That\’s it, forget it.\” Then, he ran away towards the look of disdain from his parents, and really became stupid, bad, and worthless. Because if you scold your child, he will not stop loving you, but he will stop loving himself. How many parents work from dawn to dusk to make money, working day and night, just to let their children win at the starting line. But in fact, the best starting point for children is hidden in the mouths of parents. The following are 12 scientific methods for efficient communication with children recommended by the \”People\’s Daily\”, which are worthy of collection and study by parents. There is a saying that goes well: \”Every child dances on the tip of his or her parents\’ tongues.\” Parents\’ appreciation and praise are the beacons that guide children on the right path; while parents\’ belittling and blowing are deeply rooted in children. Inner cancer. In a happy and harmonious family, communication between the family is always as warm as the spring breeze. Under the kind words of their parents, children learn to be positive and optimistic, and have the confidence to overcome difficulties. On the contrary, the more unhappy and disharmonious a family is, the more often it is filled with quarrels and criticism. Gradually, children will become inferior, cowardly, and lose the courage to face life. Therefore, if you want to raise a warm and happy child, parents must start by learning kind words and warm words.