If you want your children to be obedient, you don’t have to rely on beatings and scoldings. You must say these 7 words more.

Do you have to rely on beating or scolding to make your children obedient? Of course not. Spanking and scolding will only make the child succumb to your authority and be obedient temporarily, but it will be detrimental to the child\’s growth for a long time. As parents, if we want our children to be obedient, we must say these 7 sentences to our children more often. First sentence: What happened? That is to say, we need to ask the child, \”Hey, what did you do? Let the child have the opportunity to speak. You must give the child the right to speak, and do not speak to him arbitrarily.\” Second sentence: How do you feel now? As we often say, you have to solve the child\’s emotions first before you can solve the problem. You need to let the child express this emotion. Come on, baby, how do you feel now? Only in this way will your children be willing to listen to your opinions later. The third sentence: What are you thinking at this moment? Not only do you allow your children to vent their emotions, but you also give them a chance to express themselves, which actually trains your children to dare to express their thoughts. Sentence 4: So what do you think we should do? In fact, this is to let the children participate in the discussion of the topic. It does not mean that you must listen to what I say or do this. You must let the children feel what I should do if I tell them, and let them use their brains. Sentence 5: What kind of consequences have you thought about the decision you made? In this way, the child will calmly analyze what kind of results this situation and this choice will produce, what are the advantages and disadvantages, what are the advantages and what are the disadvantages. In other words, let him have a habit of thinking. Sentence 6: So what is your final decision? After you have done the above preparation, give your child another chance to make a decision. Sentence 7: What do you want me to do for you? Give your child the opportunity to get help. These 7 sentences not only allow the child to become a person with independent personality, free thinking, the spirit of daring to take responsibility, but also a very secure person, because the child will feel that no matter what I do, my mother is behind me to support me.