If your child has these 3 major signs, it means you are raising an uncultured child. Parents should be vigilant.

Children are becoming more and more ill-educated. What should you reflect on? Recently, everyone often laments that the education level of children is getting worse and worse. In public places, from time to time you may encounter naughty children running around, making loud noises at will, or even deliberately destroying other people\’s belongings. Some parents are helpless and simply don\’t care anymore. What is the reason behind this? As a parent, how do we usually cultivate the education of our children? Psychological research has found that the following three major signs may indicate that you are raising an uncultured child. You might as well examine your parenting style one by one. Children are too self-centered. I remember one time, my husband and I took our two children out to play together. We were both very tired that day, but the children didn\’t notice at all and were still clamoring to play here and there. Finally, my husband and I had to say forcefully: \”We won\’t play anymore today. We are all tired. Let\’s go home and rest.\” As a result, the two children immediately burst into tears and could not understand our feelings at all. This is typical self-centered behavior. Such children often regard themselves as the center of the universe and believe that the world should revolve around them. They lack empathy and cannot think from the perspective of their parents or others. They only pursue their own happiness and satisfaction of their needs. This self-centered way of thinking usually has a lot to do with the parenting style. Many parents over-indulge their children and try their best to satisfy their children no matter how unreasonable their demands are, never letting their children learn to take responsibility for their own actions. Over time, children will develop the misconception that \”I have unlimited rights, and others must meet all my requirements unconditionally.\” The child lacks self-control. A few days ago, I took my child to the supermarket to buy groceries. As a result, the child suddenly lost his temper in the supermarket and kept crying and crying to buy a toy that was exactly the same as the one at home. I patiently explained it several times, but the child just refused to give up and became more and more violent. In the end, I couldn\’t resist, so I reluctantly bought it. As a result, the child played with it for a while and then threw it aside without any intention of cherishing it. This lack of self-control is common among some children. They are agitated, irritable, have difficulty concentrating, and often act impulsively and willfully, completely unable to control their desires and impulses. The reason for this problem is often problems with parents\’ education methods. Many parents are too indulgent to their children. Once their children cry for something, they immediately satisfy them and never develop their children\’s self-discipline. In addition, we rarely give children clear behavioral rules and boundaries, resulting in their inability to establish a sense of self-control. Children avoid responsibility One time, my child was injured in a fight at school, and the teacher called me to tell me. I thought the child would take the initiative to admit his mistakes to me, but he just refused to tell the truth and evaded it by saying \”it\’s not my fault.\” I ended up having to go to the school myself to learn that my child had completely covered up the truth. This kind of behavior of covering up mistakes and evading responsibility is also very common among some children. They are often unwilling to admit their faults, andIt is an attempt to shirk responsibility and find various excuses to cover up mistakes. This situation is mostly related to parents\’ over-protection. Many parents always habitually protect their children, thinking that \”he is just a child, it\’s no big deal.\” Over time, children develop the bad habit of evading responsibility and completely lose their honesty and sense of responsibility. To raise an educated child, parents must first reflect on their own parenting style. We must abandon excessive pampering of children, give children clear behavioral rules and boundaries, and cultivate their self-discipline ability. At the same time, we must also learn to correct children\’s wrong behaviors in time and let them understand the importance of taking responsibility. Only in this way can we raise a well-educated child who knows how to take responsibility for himself. This is not only related to the future of the child, but also the lifelong practice of the parents. Let us work together to let the children around us grow into good children who are well-educated and know how to care for others.