Background description
Today\’s children are becoming more and more independent and rebellious, which makes some parents very distressed. They don’t know how to make their children obedient and follow the rules. Some parents even face problems such as children losing control of their emotions and challenging authority. So, how should we face these problems and make children more obedient?
Method 1: Establish an intimate relationship
The first step in making your child obedient is to establish a close relationship. Children are not only a continuation of life, but also friends, listeners and supporters of their parents. Therefore, you should pay as much attention to your child\’s needs as possible and give your child enough love and understanding. You can arrange some family activities, play games together, watch movies together, these activities can strengthen the relationship between you and your children.
When communicating with your children, you can listen to their thoughts and needs and give them respect and understanding. Provide timely praise and encouragement to give children a sense of accomplishment and maintain their self-esteem. This way your children will be more willing to listen to your opinions and guidance.
Method 2: Correct communication method
After establishing a close relationship, you need to communicate correctly with your children. Correct communication methods can make children willing to listen to your opinions. When communicating with their children, parents should follow the following principles:
1. Be honest and respectful. Parents should always be honest and respectful of their children\’s opinions and ideas, and never accuse, criticize or threaten their children.
2. Pay attention to body language. Parental body language is also important. You should express your attitude calmly and naturally with a smile.
3. Send a positive message. Parents should convey positive, positive, and encouraging messages to help their children establish positive attitudes and values.
4. Frequency of communication. Parents should communicate with their children regularly and share their lives, thoughts and experiences with them.
Method 3: Actively guide children
Correct guidance is very important for the growth of children. When a child\’s behavior does not meet parents\’ expectations, parents should not rebuke or punish the child, but should adopt positive guidance and education methods.
First of all, parents should refer to the child\’s actual situation, personality and interests, and provide guidance based on the child\’s characteristics and needs. Parents should calmly give guidance and advice to their children for their wrong behaviors, and encourage them to set correct goals.
Secondly, parents should create a good environment and atmosphere for their children. For example, more informative books can be placed in the home to allow children to maintain a certain learning atmosphere at home. Parents can also set up some extracurricular interest classes, sports and other activities to give their children more opportunities to express themselves.
Method 4: Handle conflicts correctly
When children\’s rebellious emotions appear, parents must respond in the right way. First of all, parents should deal with it calmly and try to avoid emotional reactions. Secondly, parents can communicate with their children and understand their inner thoughts. If you find that your behavior is biased, you should correct it in time.
Parents can also resolve conflicts by cultivating their children\’s self-confidence. For example, parents can giveChildren’s full trust and support make them feel that they are loved and respected.
Summary
It is not easy to make children obedient. Parents need to establish close relationships, communicate correctly, actively guide, and resolve conflicts head-on to guide their children. At the same time, attention should also be paid to cultivating children\’s self-confidence so that they feel that they are loved and respected. In this way, children will be more willing to listen to their parents\’ opinions and suggestions.
