In first grade, allow yourself and your children to be lazy

This National Day, my family focuses on relaxation: to escape from the crowd, we travel 400 kilometers to the countryside to enjoy the quiet rural years. Strictly speaking, it has been almost 30 years since I left rural life. Since I went to school in the county, I rarely stay at home except during winter and summer vacations. Because I have less time at home, I have even less time to follow my parents in farm work. For me, when I was young, this was a kind of \”laziness\”; now, it is a kind of nostalgia for my parents who were still young at that time; at the same time, it is also a regret, regretting that I have rarely had time to spend with my parents since then. When I became a mother, I finally saw the fact that allowing myself and my children to be lazy is also a valuable learning and experience. 1. In the autumn Chinese textbook of Field Classroom, there are many articles in the first unit that are closely related to farming culture. For example, \”Autumn has arrived\”: Autumn has arrived, autumn has arrived, the crops in the fields are growing well, the cotton flowers are white, and the soybeans are full… Another example is \”Yellow Bean Pods\” in \”The Rime\”: Soybean pods, so cute , which is full of Douguaiguai. Autumn is here, open the door, and the beans will jump out obediently. Queue up, one-two-one, and walk into the farmer\’s big pocket. This is such a vivid scene in the countryside, but for urban children, they can only see the floor plan through animations and PPTs, but they have no way to see, touch or smell the autumn in person. We came back and walked into the fields. The child saw how the golden waves of rice rose and fell one after another under the blowing of the wind. He also saw how the plump ears of rice bowed humbly. He also saw how the useless barnyard grass raised its head proudly. , seems so ridiculous. He saw the green leaves of sweet potatoes growing on the ground, and round sweet potatoes forming knots in the ground. He heard the roar of harvesters, the joy of people\’s harvest, and the busy delivery of tractors. He smelled the fragrance of rice grains that had just emerged, the sweetness of sweet potatoes, the freshness of red melon seeds with flesh, and the freshness of winter melons hanging on the vines with dewdrops. This is the real autumn, and it is a picture that has been handed down for thousands of years. This understanding is no less common than in the classrooms around the world. 2. Field sports ground Fields are the most comfortable sports ground. Don\’t be afraid of a fall. There is soft mud or green grass under your feet. The fall won\’t hurt, and it\’s a lot of fun. Hide and seek is fine, just dig into the grass, hey, you have to look carefully to see where the grass is moving, where the naughty children are hiding. The small river beside the village was originally a children\’s playground. This holiday coincided with the cooling of the temperature, and the swimming that the children talked about did not come true: in order to make it easier for the children to swim, the bottom of the village\’s creek was hardened. But the clear river water makes people unable to help but get close to it. Bring a fishing rod and pretend to work, isn\’t this the scene of \”a child with unkempt hair learning to fish, sitting sideways with the berry moss reflected on his face\”? When the child sits there, the realm of ancient poetry has been imprinted on his brain, and no explanation is needed. 3. Write \”Heaven, Earth, and People\”. Coincidentally, Beaver just finished studying \”Heaven, Earth, and People\” before the National Day holiday. The teacher was so thoughtful that he even wrote an educational narrative called \”Heaven, Earth, and People Have No Pinyin.\” In the vast fields, heaven, earth and man are such a natural combination. In cities, the image of \”a round sky and a square earth\” is divided by high-rise buildings, and the visual field is oftenLimited to a narrow side. Now that we are in the countryside, we can\’t see far away, but there are many traces of sky and mountains. It seems that in such a scene, the sky is so vast and clear, and adults and children alike become pure and at ease. When the children see their grandparents busy, they can\’t help but want to help. Although sometimes they are \”unhelpful\”, their innocent heart is still warm. Freed from the burden of modern civilization, children are more willing to play close to nature: instead of driving, they run to the market, observing the trees on the mountains, the grass in the countryside, lantern flowers, and persimmons hanging on the branches, and making products with the fruits of the trees. \”Bullet\”, enjoy the fun of freedom. This is the true man of heaven and earth: with the vast sky on his head, the solid earth on his feet, and being a sincere person. Written at the end: In just a few days, I lamented more than once that the countryside is livable, but it is a homeland we can no longer return to. We are more like passers-by now, and we can only let ourselves relax a little during a short vacation. These days, I don’t have a computer and don’t want to play with my mobile phone. I just quietly empty my mind and let myself gallop in this world. When there is a buzz on the Internet about \”Why do people get more tired when they take more vacations?\”, I am secretly happy: I really have a relaxing vacation. I and my children are a little lazy, and there is no training or Internet, but the spirit is extremely fulfilling.